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idk what to do...
idk what to do...i was "together" with this guy.(im 13/f-hes 14/m) hes a grade older than me but we got to know eachother this year and started going "together" this march i think. well hes really really really busy w/ sports and we used to talk atleast like 3 hours everyday. now hes going to hs and hes been acting like a jerk lately. he hasnt talked to me in a long time, and he was talking to my friend and said that its not gonna work out, but he wont talk to me so hes leaving it up for me to figure it out even though i know already. what should i do, cus im having a hard time moving on...thanks.
-emily
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I think this guy seems like a real jerk if he doesnt have the balls to tell you himself that its not going to work out. I think you should call him and tell him that obviously, things are not working out and you're sorry they had to end like this. This guy is not worth your time, and soon you'll find someone who is!
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first of all he's probably acting really jerky because he's going to high school.its like a big ego boost for him.you should talk to him when he's not busy with sports and find out all the details, and if he's not being honest with you or just say mmhmm and ok then you should brake up with him.and for moving on, just hang out with your friends,go shopping,make something.just do something like you love doing and that should help.
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Hey, dont worry, you situation is completely typical of "relationships" at your age. I agree with the people telling you to move on, guys at that age can be complete jerks, with the onsets of maturity and all that. Trust me, been there, done that. I didnt have terrible twos, I had the terrible early teens. My advice is this, forget about him. I know its hard, focus on school, friends, hobbies, anything else. At your age, the relationships that you have aren't even learning relationships, they are basically ways to screw things up. Older guys tend to focus on older girls, thus the move to high school probably symbolizes, at least to him, that he is a "bigger man," thus he is trying to move away from junior high things. You need to wait until maybe 15 or 16, really get to know the person you want to date, then build a relationship on friendship, not just because the guy is "hott" or athletic. Date for character, not for looks, and I guarantee, your relationships will go much farther.
Best Wishes, Jordan
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Trying finding a time with him and telling him that you guys really need to talk. A relationship isn't up to one person, its about talking things out and working togehter such as team work. Not one person can take charge because that jus messes up the relationship. If he doesnt want to talk then you should really move on because there are plenty of better guys out there and you dont need him to be holding you back. You also have to respect him if he really doesnt have time because he has a life too. If he's lying about not having time thats just sad of him and he doesnt need to be apart of you life. Dont listen to his friends, dont know anything and they just want to mess everything up. If you want to move on then just block him out for a while and just try doing other things to get him off your mind. I know how you feel and I know its hard to move on because I've been through this, but dont worry I know you can get through this! Hope this helps
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aww em, its ok i know how you feel, getting over a guy is extremly hard, hes also going through the teenage stages where guys start going threw changes and they become a little bit angry and asswholeish. Its going to be hard, but you should talk to him about it and let him know how you feel, and tell him that you understand that hes going into highschool and thats when most boys start changing. Also try telin him that you still have alot of feelings for him, and that you dont want them to go to waste, Also find out if he is over you or not, and if he wants you to wait untill your into the hs. I hope i helped you out some, im always here, just leave one in the inbox, luv ya em's
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If I were you, I would just move on and foreget about it. There are PLENTY of other guys out there that would not do something like that, and thats the kind of guy you would want, correct? Don't waste your time on this guy who plans to just leave you out in the cold. There are many guys out there who, I'm sure, would love to go out with you, or even talk to you... foreget about this guy and move on.
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ok i have been in this exact situation. and its always hard to get over someone. i think you deserve better than him. any guy who stops talking to you without giving any reason isnt worth your time. he mite be too scared to tell you that he doesnt want a relationship anymore, but not talking to you is even worse. try calling him. ask him whats wrong but dont be too pushy. if he acts like he doesnt want to be together, break it off. it mite be hard, but in the end you will be better off. its not a good relationship if one of the persons in it doesnt want to be in it.
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Dear Emily,
If He Doesnt Have Time For You Then You Should Dump Him...Now This Might Sound Silly, But My Mom Told Me Just Today, That You Should Have A b/f That Wants To Make Time For You! If He Really Likes You He'll Show You...By Wanting To Hang Out More, And Defintly Not Being A Jerk...
i Know Its Tuff But Juss think of it that way :-)
*April
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try your best to move on. i know itll be hard but you'll feel so much better if you jsut break up with him before he gets the chance to you. that'll just hurt you even more and it'll take longer for you to get over him if he's the one that breaks up with you. guys can be total jerks and it sounds like the guy you say youre 'having a hard time moving on' from isnt the same guy that he is now. hes changed, you'll find some one way better than him. and you definately deserve better than to be treated like this.
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