HeYy! im myriah. im pretty sure i give good advice... i've already been through a lot of things that people are going through now and i know how to deal with a lot of stuff! i love having fun and being creative. i like to sing, dance, hang out with my friends, and i absolutely cant live without my makeup, my digital camera, and my clothes lol!! ask me anything and ill do my best to give you an answer you can use!
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Member Since: July 10, 2005
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Why would it upset a guy that you're just dating (not living with or sharing any expenses) that you finally found a good job at that you're happy with? I have my own appartment and my bf has his own place. He has a very good paying job in the oil rig camp but with crazy hours. When I told him how much fun I was having at my new part time job he was acting really strange, like he wasnt happy for me. This was really weird because he used to be upset when I was unemployed and encouraged me to find employement. I almost got the feeling that he was even jealous? Or maybe it was my imagination.
Anyways, now he hasnt talked to me in several weeks. What do you think is his problem? (link)
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he probably realizes that now that he pushed you into getting a job, your're time cant completely revolve around when he is and isnt working. he feels like he is losing you to your new part time job. just call him or go see him and ask him whats wrong... if he doesnt want you to work then he should pay your bills!! :-)
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ok...i am a guy 14 and i like this girl,shes 14 too.So how i make sure she likes me?I tried asking her out she said no srr im too busy this week...how i know she could like me?or to make her like me? (link)
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basically, girls like compliments and feeling special. make her think she is the best thing on this planet. let her know you wanna be friends and let it take off from there.
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hay, im a 14 yr old gurl and i know this really "popular / cool" gurl. i guess you can say were friends and everything cause we talk every once in a while, but i wanna be like.. really really good friends with her, ya know? soo can you help me on how i could please? (link)
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ask her if she wants to hang out... find things that you two have in common... but since you know that she is popular... dont just be friends with her to gain popularity, nobody wants to be used.
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ok i am 13 and a gurl....and i am having major guy problems.....every guy i go out with wants me to do stuff to him sexually and stuff....and when i tell then that i am not ready for that they eather leave me or act like a two year old .....and if they dont leave me for that i find out the next day they were getting it from my best friend any ways, so what should i do? i can never get a good man....
~used and abused~ (link)
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this is a problem that happens with every girl. ALL guys can be pigs sometimes. but if you are ending up with the same kind of guy over and over, you need to look for a new type of guy. and if you are dating someone who says they like you... they need to respect what your feelings are. if they really do like you they will back off until you feel like its the right time, and only you can know exactly when the right time is.
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Ok what do i do when my Friend says her brother likes me, but i dont know if he really does??
Ps-The boy already asked me out but i think he doesnt mean it. And how should i act when im over there, i mean she is my bff.
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if your friend, and her brother both said that he likes you then chances are he does. if you like him too you should go out with him! since she is your best friend, be sure that you dont leave her out. when you go over to their house have time to hang out with both of them. or invite him to your house and when you go there hang out with her. just make sure she doesnt mind you dating her big brother... because good best friends are hard to find
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ok.. so my best friend and i were in this chat with our other friend. and the other friend and my best friend have like a really funny joke together.. inside joke. so they were talkin about their joke and i just left cuz i didnt wanna be in the middle of it. then they started bein real mean to me, so i ignored them and blocked them. since then, my best friend wont forgive me when she should be the one sayin sorry. what should i do?
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this one is tough. your best friend prolly feels really bad and that is more than likely why she was so mean. admitting she was wrong would make her look bad so she is acting like you are the one who made the mistake. i suggest you drop the whole thing. tell her it doesnt matter and that she is your best friend. next time you feel like she is leaving you out... dont freak out just tell her that you feel like that and she will respect it! dont lose a friend just because she left you out once everyone makes mistakes!
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I really like this guy named Mike. Me and my friend Logan went to the movies with him and he held are hand and kissed both of us. Then after that he gave us his number. I was really attracted to him. He asked out my friend Logan but she said no. I really like him and he knows i do but now he likes some other girl. why would he kiss me and hold hands with me and telling me all this stuff on the phone and now likes another girl?
signed,
confused (link)
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well maybe he felt guilty for liking your friend, so he decided to treat you the same way. guys dont know what to do when it comes to girls. ignore him. find someone who likes you and who you like back. "MIKE" may seem like the guy for you... but if he doesnt like you then there must be someone out there thats a better fit.
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my bf always says hes gonna call me back but never does nd we were on the phone like 5 hrs ago nd he said he was gonna call me back but didnt so should i just call him or will i seem desperit? i havent talked to him in a while cause he was on vaca nd when we got to talk before, it was only for like 10 mins cause he had to go cleanhis room or wutever. i dont wanna seem desperit. but ive been missing him. . . please answer fast ill rate! the faster, the higher (link)
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guys will be guys. they will always forget to call. you wont seem desperate. so dont worry. 5 hours is a long time to wait! simply remind him in a joking way that he forgot to call back. he will laugh it off and not think a thing about it. since he is your boyfriend, you should be allowed to call him no matter what. and since you are his girlfriend im sure he is always glad to receive your calls! tell him you missed him.
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I'm questioning my faith
i'm not sure what it was in the first place really
um... but I think i'm just kind of having a bit of a crisis, not sure where to turn
I come from a semi-Christian background
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it is normal to question your faith. people do it all the time. but if you keep questioning it over and over maybe you dont really believe what you once belived. maybe its time to take a hard look at your opinions, the Bible, and your life in general. follow God, the Bible, and you heart.
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ive been talking to this guy for 5 yrs. but weve never been together and he lives in flordia right now. Well he just asked me to marry him,i really love him....but i don't want to get married, ive never wanted to get married. I don't know what to say.
HELP
-twiSTed (link)
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dont do anything you will regret. but when you love someone, its always right to get married and commit yourself on that level. its only fair to the person you say you love to marry them. and if it is REALLY love, it shouldnt be that big of a deal to marry them because you should already want to be with them forever. but only you know whats best for yourself! tell him how you feel.
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i need help in my spirtul life with god. im a christian an all that but i wan to grow mor with god!
how can i get closer to god?
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well, it looks like you have got the first part of growing closer to God down! the fact that you want to get closer, is awesome. most christian teens are fine with being a christian but they dont live like it. good for you! what you need to do is..
1. check your friends. you need good solid christians as friends if you want to grow closer to God.
2. be in your Bible. if you arent reading the book God gave us as christians to live by, you wont be able to grow closer to him.
3. go to church... FOR CHURCH. most teens go to church as a social event, but you should go to actually learn. plan social events for after church.
* most important PRAY TO GOD ask him for the strength to get through the week. he will grant it for you.
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Alright, so I know this girl, i've known her about a year and a half and we have dated once before for like 3 months. It was quiet long distance and we really didn't do anything. We got into a stupid fight about stupid thing's and stopped talking for about 7 months. Well, about 2 months ago I started talking to her again because I wanted to get to know her again and be cool since she will be going to the same high school as me this year as apposed to last year. So instantly we started talking on the phone and now we talk till like 3 am almost every night. I see her a bit more now and we spent the fourth with each other and now im like seriously falling for her, she is everything I could ever want. BUT, I don't really thinks she feels the same and she never tells me how she feels. She just says, I don't want a boyfriend during the summer. What should I do and how does it sound from a female point of veiw. (link)
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it sounds like you really like this girl. have you told her how much yet? if not, you need to. she might be feeling the same thing, but sometimes girls wont open up to guys because they are afraid of getting hurt. let her know that you like her and that you arent going to be like other guys she may have been with. if you get rejected it wasnt meant to be. but if she feels the same then taking the risk of being rejected was worth it.. right?
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idk what to do...i was "together" with this guy.(im 13/f-hes 14/m) hes a grade older than me but we got to know eachother this year and started going "together" this march i think. well hes really really really busy w/ sports and we used to talk atleast like 3 hours everyday. now hes going to hs and hes been acting like a jerk lately. he hasnt talked to me in a long time, and he was talking to my friend and said that its not gonna work out, but he wont talk to me so hes leaving it up for me to figure it out even though i know already. what should i do, cus im having a hard time moving on...thanks.
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ok i have been in this exact situation. and its always hard to get over someone. i think you deserve better than him. any guy who stops talking to you without giving any reason isnt worth your time. he mite be too scared to tell you that he doesnt want a relationship anymore, but not talking to you is even worse. try calling him. ask him whats wrong but dont be too pushy. if he acts like he doesnt want to be together, break it off. it mite be hard, but in the end you will be better off. its not a good relationship if one of the persons in it doesnt want to be in it.
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I have a friend who hangs out with me when we are in class and since we have a locker right next to eachother she hangs out with me. But when she is around certain "friends" she acts really mean to mean and ignores me. Sometimes I feel like i'm not her friend and sometimes i feel like we are best friends, What should I do?
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if she is a true friend she shouldnt be scared to show it. you may think that she is what you would consider a good friend, but good friends are the ones who are your friend no matter what. you need to find someone who will accept you all the time even when they are around someone they think is "cooler" than you. i think you should talk to her about it, and if she chooses them over you, then you deserved better all along. but if she tries to change that then you have most likely found an honest friend.
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My friend is trying to change the things i believe in. He's jewish and i'm christian. I'm scared i won't get into heaven if i believe anything he does. i really dont know what i'm doing or getting myself into. He's one of my closest friends but it's almost like he's threatening to not be my friend anymore if i dont believe what he does.
what do i do? (link)
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first of all, just because you have a differnt view on something doesnt mean yall cant be friends.
second, you need to look at every single angle, look at what he says and look at what you belive and then decide from your heart exactly what you think is right. read the Bible and make sure you are making the right desicion for YOU and not for him!
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i have this guy friend((i am like best friends with him and his sister))and he is always calling me and stuff he will call me like 7 times in one day...he flirts all the time...do yall think he likes me?? (link)
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oh wow. this one falls right into my category! chances are if any guy calls you, he has atleast some interest in you. i say if you like him go for it! just make sure his sister wouldnt mind you dating her brother!
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there is this girl who i used to be friends with, and now she acts like she hates me. how do i make her realize that i still love her and wanna be friends like we used to be? (link)
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i have had a lot of experience with this one. this is what i did and what you should probably do too... ask her if you had done anything that made her mad, or that if you had hurt her feelings in any way. if she says no then maybe she just needed some space. if she says yes, find out exactly what you did and make sure that you apoligize. let her know that you didnt mean to hurt her and that you love being friends with her. she will appreciate that you cared enough about her to make sure the friendship was still there.
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