my bf always says hes gonna call me back but never does nd we were on the phone like 5 hrs ago nd he said he was gonna call me back but didnt so should i just call him or will i seem desperit? i havent talked to him in a while cause he was on vaca nd when we got to talk before, it was only for like 10 mins cause he had to go cleanhis room or wutever. i dont wanna seem desperit. but ive been missing him. . . please answer fast ill rate! the faster, the higher
M_to_the_E_to_the_L answered Monday July 11 2005, 10:05 pm: In a boys world... if they say call you back it could mean 5 minutes or it could mean a week. Boys digital clocks in their heads are sporadic, nothing you can do to change it. It wouldn't be desperate to call him and ask him whats up... but what is desperate is sitting around for 5 hours watching the clock waiting for him to call. Go hang out with friends. Don't change your schedule cause of him. Have your own life and take the free time you have away from him to enjoy yourself [ M_to_the_E_to_the_L's advice column | Ask M_to_the_E_to_the_L A Question ]
kaka6 answered Monday July 11 2005, 12:31 am: ok here is somthing good make a time for when you guys can talk for awhile can't do that then date maybe the it will work hang on together or if he says he will call you back never has just call back say hey what happened thought you were going to call me back like an hour ago (if it was that long) maybe that will work [ kaka6's advice column | Ask kaka6 A Question ]
LoOkS_LiKe_LoVe answered Sunday July 10 2005, 11:56 pm: guys will be guys. they will always forget to call. you wont seem desperate. so dont worry. 5 hours is a long time to wait! simply remind him in a joking way that he forgot to call back. he will laugh it off and not think a thing about it. since he is your boyfriend, you should be allowed to call him no matter what. and since you are his girlfriend im sure he is always glad to receive your calls! tell him you missed him. [ LoOkS_LiKe_LoVe's advice column | Ask LoOkS_LiKe_LoVe A Question ]
xBestAddiction answered Sunday July 10 2005, 11:40 pm: I say go ahead and call. I mean your missing him and most likely he is missing you too and might just me to shy to call you back or something might've come up where he couldn't call you back. Believe guys don't see girls as desperate unless you throw yourself at them. [ xBestAddiction's advice column | Ask xBestAddiction A Question ]
devilspawn_666 answered Sunday July 10 2005, 10:30 pm: You should call him back if you really want to talk to him. I suppose it wouldn't hurt to ask him why he hasn't been calling you back when he said he would. That's kind of rude, in my opinion. It could be that he really does want to talk to you and has just run out of intelligent things to say. Perhaps he just doesn't call back because he's afraid of sounding like an idiot, or seeming desperate. I would definatly ask about this, though. [ devilspawn_666's advice column | Ask devilspawn_666 A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Sunday July 10 2005, 10:29 pm: Right now, you aren't looking desperate by calling him back. You're being lied to and would be doing the obvious by calling him and seeing whats going on. You need to ask him why hes not calling back. Whether he thinks of you as deperate or not, you aren't. I know this is a little late, but you need to ask the very next time you talk to him, or at least when he says he'll call, ask, "are you really going to this time?" Make sure you get it straightened out with him before talking again, or you'll just feel deperate all the time, you are deperate when you don't call and ask whats going on.
Cathryn answered Sunday July 10 2005, 10:18 pm: i would call him.See what hes up too make sure hes not going out with someone else.Maby plan a date just to make sure your'll still on the same page.
dorkalici0us20O5 answered Sunday July 10 2005, 10:05 pm: you should call him back once, and if he seems annoyed or anyhting, be like, "well i'll let you go then"... after that, dont call him back. itll make him wanna call YOU back after not hearing from you for awhile. i know it seems hard and you wanna talk to him but you'll live, trust me. hope i helped!! [ dorkalici0us20O5's advice column | Ask dorkalici0us20O5 A Question ]
Mami0s0xclusivex3 answered Sunday July 10 2005, 9:50 pm: Ok, men think woman are there to do all the dirty work and to do everything. Well when he says hes going to call you back and never does, you need to stand up for yourself and tell him that hes lieing you to and you want to know whats goin on. Men cant always take control of the relationship! If hes going to say hes going to call you back but doesnt you should call him back and let him know whats up, ask him why he hasnt called you back and what he has been doing. Always remember, men dont always control the relationship
markiescooleo answered Sunday July 10 2005, 9:48 pm: umm this is want you gotta do... call him he probley keeps forgetting call him guys like when girls call him just dont call him to much than you will seem desperit [ markiescooleo's advice column | Ask markiescooleo A Question ]
SoInToYoUx0x answered Sunday July 10 2005, 9:46 pm: you sound depressed. he is ur boyfriend call him back.. he might just be busy or has 4gotten to call you back. pick up the phone and call him and tell him how you feel.. dont be scared if he loves you he will understand where your coming from. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~* [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
crazyoutyamind answered Sunday July 10 2005, 9:20 pm: hes your boyfriend and your supposed to talk to him like all the time so dont worry you wont sound desperit just call him im sure he wont call you desperit cuz of that well hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions just drop em in my inbox
-kelly [ crazyoutyamind's advice column | Ask crazyoutyamind A Question ]
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