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Hey Im Briana im 14 years old, First I would like to say THANKS for viewing my column, Ask as many questions as you want, Im all ears, I will help you the best I can. I am so happy when I get good feedback, that just lets me know, that i helped some of you out there! Feel free to drop any thing in my inbox! I wont get annoyed.

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Hey what do i do when alll my friend wants to talk about is the guy she likes, and when i say ughh Bill (lets call her bill) can talk about something diffrent your starting to get annoying, she getss alll mad and yells at me and says im a brat, she treats me soo badd, but only when she in a bad mode (which is 50%^ of the time) she my bff and i lylas but i try to tell her hows she treating me she BlOwS up at me! what do i do? please helpppp

Singed
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I think that if she treats you this bad, and she wont stop, you should calmly sit down and say, please your really hurting my feelings,please can you treat me better, and if she still doesnt stop, i think you should re-think your friendship with her.....

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okay well my friend doesn't really have that many friends nd ALOT of people hate her and like i like her but she can be REALLY annoying. and if i dont put her in my profile for AIM she gets pissed off but then im gunna lose alot of friends if im friends wit this girl so wat should i do?

Well i think you should just be friends with your friend and if ur other friends dont like it than they can get over it!

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When is everyone gonna stop ending everything with " & hearts" its soo annoying. Im sure im not the only one who feels this way. Someone please agree with me.

I agree !!!!!!

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Hey. Im 11 years old . and im a girl. Im scared about getting my period.. in 5 grade.. that just ended some girls starting getting there periods. And im scard!
I heard it hurts and stuff
and i dont want to use tampons what if the string came off.. and i have to use tampons to go swimming the pad would come apart..
Help

Ok i got my period in 6th grade....It doesnt hurt that much, sometimes it hurts alot but usually i just feel alsleep after a few minutnes of the pain, so you wont have a promblem!

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ok im 13 years old and a girl and my sister just got me this baby-sitting job. Its for a 8 or 9 year old i dont know if its a boy or girl though she hasnt told me. But i was wondering what i could do to keep them entertained and busy for a the few hours that i'm with them. I mena i really need the money and i dont want to screw this up and end up gettin the job takin anyway. so please help me thanx everyone.

Try coloring or watching a movie, play house, or just with some toys they got around there, beilive me all of this stuff works!

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My boyfriend told me to ask his question on advicenators to see what other guys experience. He thinks he has a problem getting TOO many erections. He gets them constantly, about 6 times per hour. Sometimes they last 1 minute, sometimes 20 minutes. He gets them randomly, even when he's not thinking about anything sexualm like when he's just sitting there or playing video games. He says its annoying and he wants to know if it's normal for all guys, and if not, should he see a doctor about it?

This is totally normal it happend to my brother, he just wants sexual incousres and they really wont stop til he has it. And if they dont stop after he has sexual incourse 1 or 2 times, then he NEEDS to go to the doctor!

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ok, I am like in love with babysitting. Like if my mom doesn't tell me someone called for me to babysit them I get upset! I just love kids. So, here is the question, will I forget about babysitting after a while? Because all of my sisters and older people said they thought that they would open a daycare but then they hated it once they turned about 16.

Well i just got my babysitting liciense and im in lovee with babysitting, and when my older sister was my age, she loved it to, now shes 16, and she doesnt hate it, but its not her favorite thing in the world

Hope I helped.

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Well I'm a lesbian and my parents don't know. How do I tell them? I'm scared they'll kick me out of the house or something.

Well, The best thing you can do is just wait til the 'right' moment, when you comftorble, say this is me like it or not, go to conslours, anything can help!

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Okay, I know I'm an advice columnist, but I really need help. My best friend Rachael, dated my other best friend Evan. And that was fine. Evan broke up with her numerous times. Then they always got back together. Rachael got sick of it and broke it off for good. Then while Rachael was at camp me and Evan started going out. I only did it because I knew Rachael didn't like him still. Rachael is the um.. JEALOUS type. VERY jealous type. But still, she didn't care we were going out. She was TOTALLY okay with it. Then last night she told Evan she still liked him, and was thinking about him. With Rachael, it's REALLY obvious when she lies, so when she said she didn't like Evan, I KNEW she was telling the truth. I think she's lying about still liking Evan. But I don't know. I think she did it cuz Evan liked her still.. until he started going out with me, and Rachael thinks he still likes her. And Evan is moving 45 minutes away from here. My question is.. should I stay with him? Or not? I REALLY like him.. And his brother would drive him here every week to see us. But his mom might not let him. What should I doooo? Sorry this is so long.

I think you should just keep going out with him, just explane to racheal that she said it was ok if u went out with him, so it is her lost....:/

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My birthday's coming up soon, and I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas of fun stuff to do, cause everytime everyone just gets there it's all quiet and boring and stuff =/ please help! Oh I'm turning 14 if that helps at all!! Thanks!! =)





Love,
Birthday Girl

Try 7 mins. in heave (or 11) spin the bottle, fun stuff like that truth or dare.

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hope i helped!

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14/f
Is this just life?
Like almost all my friends has a boyfriend and i have not even had a good relationship with a guy. i feel like im not too good enough for other people. Is there going to be someone there? Is there any way i could do to make someone like me? Please Help!!!

Hey I went through this to, I fault like i was the ugly ducklying, Intil i just waited til i got my boyfriend, ALl i can say is just hang in there, some one will come along....dont worrie


Hope i helped

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my bf always says hes gonna call me back but never does nd we were on the phone like 5 hrs ago nd he said he was gonna call me back but didnt so should i just call him or will i seem desperit? i havent talked to him in a while cause he was on vaca nd when we got to talk before, it was only for like 10 mins cause he had to go cleanhis room or wutever. i dont wanna seem desperit. but ive been missing him. . . please answer fast ill rate! the faster, the higher

I think you should call....let him know that ur not gonna wait around all day for him just to call u, which he probley would have ended up never calling

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is it true that if you sleep without ur bra on that you breast will grow bigger faster???

No its not, But it is more comftorible, and it does just give it a little more room to expand....but they dont make a real diffrience over night

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ok.. so my best friend and i were in this chat with our other friend. and the other friend and my best friend have like a really funny joke together.. inside joke. so they were talkin about their joke and i just left cuz i didnt wanna be in the middle of it. then they started bein real mean to me, so i ignored them and blocked them. since then, my best friend wont forgive me when she should be the one sayin sorry. what should i do?

Just be the bigger person and say your sorry you blocked her, but in the chat you just felt left out, and you just had things to do.....

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ii have a seriously bad habit of biting my nails ii would love 2 have some long nails by the time school starts, does ne1 know of some really good tips and/or products or something that would get me 2 stop? -[(nail polishes? medicines?)]- any good answers get 5!! thanx loads!

NAIL POLISH, in some stores they have polish that taste like really bad, its made just for nail bitters! hope i helped!

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What are some things to talk about with friends and stuff. I always have trouble starting conversation over AIM, and I really need help. Thanks

I usually just start out wit, Hey wassup? and just like...thing like that

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hi
i am 16/f/uk
i used to cut last yr then i stopped cos things got a bit better in my life
but since about feb this yr i ave bn really depressed i cry my self to sleep every nite i ave started to cut again over the most stupid things. i cant find another way to let it all out. its like an addiction, when i get angry or upset i have an urge to cut.
my parents ave split up n i wanna be with my best boy mate hu is leavin to live in aussie and i wanna tell him how i feel i also hate the way i look i am over weight i have spots and i am just so low at the moment i dont want to see any doctors i just want some one to listen and not judge me
can some one tell me why im feeling and doing these things?
sorry its so long

Its completely normal to cut, one of my siblings use to do it, all you have to do is use rubber bands, put a few on your wrist and when u wanna cut just pull the rubber band, and let go IT helps alot, and get rid of the things you cut yourself with, for you wont have a temptaion to cut.

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ok i just got back from my 5 day cheer camp and we stunted almost 24/7 and i am really sore! i've taken advil to try to get it to go away but it doesn't seem to be working! i can barely walk and pick things up its so bad! what are some good ways that you guys use to help the soreness go away? thanx!

Im a cheerleader and what i do is just take Advil, and use lots of ice and just rest for a few days

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I posted this to a single person, before I knew it could be answered by anybody with an account;
I am a 17 year old male, and came across your site by accident, or possibly fate. I have a big social problem. I've always been described as "the different one". I was always the one who did his work in class, or didn't do things exactly the same way as everybody else. I was just different like that since primary school. (I'll just say at this point that I'm not gay. A lot of people ask that when you say you're "different") The problem is, I've never been able to shake certain difficulties I've had as a result of being unusual. So now I find myself at 17; I've never been to a party where I've drunk. I've never been kissed. I've never had a girlfriend. Nobody knows who I am, nobody seems to care. I find it difficult to make friends, because I feel socially awkward, because everybody expects me to know things that I don't, because I never developed those social skills. Most of the friends I do have are the poisonous kind. They will be friendly some days, but only because it benefits them. At other times they seem totally unfriendly. I feel like I'm tied into keeping them, because it's not as easy as just pretending they don't exist, and if I alienated them, then I wouldn't have anybody left.
I don't want to become "normal" (if that exists as something to become), I would just like to know how I can fit better into the social structure of school life, and develop general social skills. I feel like I got expelled from the school of social interaction as a kid, and now I've found out there's no adult ed. class.
Thanks,
SilentOne

Hey im so sorry. I dont have any answers to this question. I wish you all my best

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What do i do when i have an abuse of mother, who has mode swings, and is VERY abuse of somtime, its starting to be more abuseive than not, i am scared to tell anyone cause i know that it will come back to her and she will hurt me, like last week i didnt do my chores and she twisted my wrist, and now i have a sprained wrist.

please help!

TELL SOMEONE be4 it gets out of hand!

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