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What do i do when i have an abuse of mother, who has mode swings, and is VERY abuse of somtime, its starting to be more abuseive than not, i am scared to tell anyone cause i know that it will come back to her and she will hurt me, like last week i didnt do my chores and she twisted my wrist, and now i have a sprained wrist.
please help!
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i suggest that you get professional help.
i know that you are scared of what your mother's reaction might be, and she will be scared as well, but it seems like she really needs the help.
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umm hey your gonna be okay. until your dad can get you think of your closest friend or most trusted adult. call them. maybe you culd stay wiht them for a bit. or at least tell them whats going on. they shouldnt tell your mother they know. but if you dont do anything your mother could go too far and kill you. child abuse isnt taken lightly. report her if you can find the strength. you would be taken from her and she wouldnt be able to touch you again. you can try these numbers
National Child Abuse Hotline: 800 422 4453
National Center for Victims of Crime, Abuse and Domestic Violence, Rape: 800 394 2255
People there would know what to do.just trust them. if for some reason those numbers dont work you should be able to find some local ones in your phone book in the front somewhere.
i wish you luck. you can always email me for more help.
*Sare*Bear*
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o wow. uhhm whatever you do dont go crazy, pshyco-path on her bcs that might get her mad. jes let her be the way she is but try talking to her when shes nice. if that doesnt work kall tha hotline sumone gave you tha number for in tha answers. hop i helped :(
you can ask me for help anytime!
♥
madina
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If your family will not do something, then you need to go to a trusted adult. Talk to a teacher, a school counselor, or even a friend's parent. Abuse is not something you should have to deal with and something needs to be done.
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First of all, why isn't your Dad taking care of you then?
Second, if your Mom is hurting you this badly, you need to report her. After a while, it's no longer an accident and she means to hurt you. She might be great when she's calm, and you might love her to death, but one day she could go too far, hurt you too badly, and that would be it. You could get hurt serioulsy bad for life, or worse, she could kill you. You need to report her to the police dear. Or at least tell a counselor at your school.
What will happen is this: They will take you and your sister out of your mother's home, and probably with your Dad or Grandmother. They will investigate your mother, and probably look at your injuries. Child abuse is not taken lightly.
And she will not be able to hurt you again. You need to tell authorities if your Dad and Grandmother can't do anything about it.
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It doesn't sound like there's a whole lot you can do to not live with her. Didn't you say that she's nice when she's not violent? Just try and do what you can to avoid her getting herself worked up. Do your chores, and if she asks you to jump, ask how high? Just do what she says to avoid her getting angry. I know this sounds weak and you might resent it and she's probably very irresponsible, but you can't change that, so you might just have to give in. Sorry hang in there babe ♥
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Hi sweetie,
Is it possible to stay with your Grandma?
I found this website that might give you some tips on what to do.
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I really hope it helps.
Kepp your chin up,something will work out,Keep praying.
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oh my gosh, i feel so sorry. GET HELP! Find sometime when your mother is not home, and i HIGHLY HIGHLY RECCOMEND you call this hotline, i looked it up especially for you on google:
1-800-422-4453
its a hotline especially for young people to call and get help on crisises exactly like this. The next time you get the chance, calll immediatly, before this gets out of hand.
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i think you should really talk to your dad about this whole situation, and if he doesnt do anything i would suggest you tell an adult, even if its really hard for you to do. teachers are really good listeners and will almost always help you out. i'm really sorry about you situation and i hope it gets better for your sake and your sisters.
i hope i helped
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You absolutely need to tell someone. If she isn't around, call the police, or call child protective services or something.
She sends you to the library?? READ A CHILD CALLED IT!!!!!! It's a really good book, and it's about a child who was SEVERELY abused by his mother, his father eventually gets out of the house, and always promises him help, and that one day he'll get him out of there, and for him to stay brave but it never happens, he just wanted to calm down his son. From what you're saying your situation is probably only half as bad. Seeing your mom lets you leave the house, use the computer, and hopefully lets you eat. But still read it, or at least get the child abuse numbers from the back of the book. It's a true story, and it's a trilogy. I wasn't as crazy about the 3rd book, but the first 2 are good, and it's all about how he was in an abusive family, and gets out and goes into foster care. His teachers are the ones that help him out, but still you need to do this for you, and for your sister, but if you get out, make certain your sister gets out, because this boys mom, well the second Dave (the abused one) leaves, his older brothers start becoming abused. So just call child protective agencies or call 911 or something, but GET OUT OF THE HOUSE!!!!!! E-mail me or post one in the inbox to either give me an update or just if you need anything else!
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Hey, well you need to tell the police...and that way when she finds out she cant hurt you anymore. YOU REALLY NEED TO TELL THE POLICE!!
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tell a coucelor get help your mom needs to know she cant hurt her daughter tell your dad whats going on if he loves you hell come and get you asap if it ends up in court chances are your dad will get full custody and there will probably a chance of your mom getting put into re hap no one should be mistreated and abused tell your grandma if your dad cant do anything and try to stay with her for a while if things get messy so ur not around ur mom tell them exactly what shes doing get help the sooner the better when school starts go and see a councelor if they dont want you and your sister at your moms try staying with a friend for a while tell there parents but you cant let this go on! hope i helped!
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TELL SOMEONE be4 it gets out of hand!
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you need to get help.. what if one day she gets really mad? you could be in jeopordy.. call the child help USA: 800-422-4453 it is a 24 hour child-abuse hotline. also try Kid Save: 800-543-7283 which has information and referrals for kids in crisis. you can even try the Youth Crisis Hotline: 800-448-4663
good luck and dont wait for something bad to happen before you call
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o wow ok hun u have to tell someone or it will get really bad i know you love your mom but you have to tell someone for her to get help and you too since you have been abused please take my advice and tell someone!
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one day when your mom is not home you need to look in the phone book for a child abusive center around your area i know its hard to turn your mom in but you need to do something about it you could be really hurt one day well i hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions just drop em in my inbox
-kelly
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....i know it might seem hard to do this but u gotta tell someone....call the police....they can get your mom help so you might not hae to find a new home......she can go to rehab for abuse and every thing will be so much better....i know it migth be hard but u have to.....hope i helped....bye
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