Well, my name is Amanda and I'm 23. I'm a military wife living in Idaho, althougth I'm from Tennessee. I have a little girl, age four, her name is Kailee. I'm not that old, but I've been through some shit in my short lifetime. I am also a Mary Kay Beauty Consultant! SO I happen to know a lot about skin care.
This is a place where you can ask open questions and get real answers. You don't have to be shy and you don't even have to leave your real name.
Trust me I've been through a lot and seen a lot of shit, so ask whatever you like, because it's not gonna bother me!!
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Location: Tenneessee
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There is a song by Slayer called, "Manditory Suicide" --- how can that be? (this is not from who you think it's from!) (link)
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Honestly, who are you? What the heck you talkin about! HAHA
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ok so last summer i got a haircut rite? it came out HORRIBLE, too WAY TOO short! i was so embaressed. so i went to a professional place and it got even worse. i was ALWAYS getting made fun of and i hated it. well the past school year i whore my hair up every single day! now i want my hair to grow really long but since the last haircut i got was a year ago, i dont think my hair will grow. i dont want to "get a trim" cause i want it to grow! should i just snip a tiny bit of hair off myself? please help! (link)
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No you should go and have a profressional snip a tiny bit of hair off.
Just about a centimeter. Then it should start growing well. I've been in your shoes. The summer before my Sophomore year of High Schoo. Actually like a week before school started. I ended up letting the girl cut my hair way too short. It sucked. But eventually it growed out. But I did have to go to the salon every three months and get the ends trimmed. That made it grow even faster.
Don't be scared to have the ends trimmed, only about a half inch, no lenght is really lost and your hair will start growing much faster.
Good Luck!!
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okwell my sister got caught sneaking out and ever sincemy parents wont let me do anythng even though i would never do that. so is there anyway that i can get them to relax, and see that im not like her?
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Well, you have to do what I did.
Tell your parents they can trust you. Ask them to just give you something small to be responsible for, or let you do something that isn't a big deal. Tell them you will prove to them that you are NOT like your sister, and that you can be trusted.
Tell them that you want to prove to them that they can trust you, and they can rely on you to follow thier rules.
Surely they will appreciate this and give in a little bit. Hope this helps.
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What do i do when i have an abuse of mother, who has mode swings, and is VERY abuse of somtime, its starting to be more abuseive than not, i am scared to tell anyone cause i know that it will come back to her and she will hurt me, like last week i didnt do my chores and she twisted my wrist, and now i have a sprained wrist.
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First of all, why isn't your Dad taking care of you then?
Second, if your Mom is hurting you this badly, you need to report her. After a while, it's no longer an accident and she means to hurt you. She might be great when she's calm, and you might love her to death, but one day she could go too far, hurt you too badly, and that would be it. You could get hurt serioulsy bad for life, or worse, she could kill you. You need to report her to the police dear. Or at least tell a counselor at your school.
What will happen is this: They will take you and your sister out of your mother's home, and probably with your Dad or Grandmother. They will investigate your mother, and probably look at your injuries. Child abuse is not taken lightly.
And she will not be able to hurt you again. You need to tell authorities if your Dad and Grandmother can't do anything about it.
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What do i do when my mom just cares about her boyfriend and she never wants me and my sister around, and all she says to me and my sister is that were imbarssments, and i hear her having sex all the time with her boyfriend, and i found a vibrater in her room! what do i do i feels like i dont even have a mother!! when i was sick with the flu she didt come home til 6 o'clock in the morning I was rushed in emergancy room, thanks to my sister calling the ambulance! what do i do I NEED HELP!
Ps-she doesnt even make us dinner or anything (link)
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First of all, this is rediculous. As a mother, I couldn't imagine staying out all night when my child is home with the flu. I hope you were okay.
I think you should talk to your mother about this. Tell her you just love her so much and you miss being with her, and you miss her loving you back. Explain these things to her without attacking her. That is important!! You don't want to attack her, otherwise she'll put up a defense, she'll find everything little thing you and your sister do wrong, and turn it around on you. You just want to approach her nicely and lovingly.
IF she doesn't change in a couple of weeks, then you should probably go to a family member. Like a Grandmother or an Aunt. Or even your Dad if he's around. Explain to them the situation and that you have tried talking to your mother, but you still feel like she just doesn't care.
Lastly, it's very important that you don't tell your mother that you are going to another family member. Otherwise she'll beat you to them and she could possibly make you look bad to your family.
Hope this helps and things get better soon!!!
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So I am interested in this person, and I know he is interested in me too....but he's married. Should I go for it anyway?
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Well, as a married woman, I have to say no. You wouldn't want to be the one responsible for making a huge mess out of that marriage.
Even if you two were to have some affair, when it all came out, and trust me it always does, he would not leave his wife for you. They never do. And in the end you will be the bad guy, and you would be left out in the cold. It's just a bad situaiton all together.
Sorry this is probably not the answer you were looking for.
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Ok well the guy I kinda like I just found out has a girlfriend aww i know im sad... I cant get him out of mind, i have a myspace and hes one of my friends on it cause we go to school together and stuff i mean i didnt just meat him or anything and I use to like always look at his sight and leave him friendly comments and stuff but now the picture thats his main is of him and his girfriend kissing... I respect him and respect the fact that he has a girlfriend and all that cause were good friends and Im happy for him i just want to try to think of him as a really good friend and not get sad when i see thier picture... any advide please help...
signed I respect the man (link)
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Well, I went through this problem a few years ago.
A really really close friend of mine, we were so close to becoming more than friends, but he was really weird about it. Then one day, he is all in love with a girl that I was also really good friends with. The only thing I could do was be the better person. I could have been vindictive and not hook them up, but I deicded to anyway.
Their relationship didn't work out. But this guy and me, we became close again years later. Just before he was to leave for college 400 miles away. So we didn't advance our relationship. But, at the end of his freshman year, he decided to not go back the next year. We were still close. Then one day, I find out he has a girlfriend. With the same name as me!! HAHA! He starts asking me for sex advice, and love advice and everything else. Because this was his first serious relationship. I'm sure you can imagine how painful this was for me.
But I had to just push the idea of us being like that out of my head. I gave him the best advice I could to all his questions. And I sat back and watched him fall in love with this girl. Heartbroken I just dealt with it.
The only advice I can give you is to let time ride it out. One day you will stop feeling the way you do about him. But until you do, then maybe the best thing you can do for yourself is put distance between you and him. That will at least make the pain easier for you.
Also, you can try telling him how you feel. I know you respect the fact that he has a girlfriend, but you it could give you closure, or something better if you are honest to yourself and honest to him about your feelings.
I hope this helps and I hope you feel better soon.
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I'm going on vacation in a few days and I need some good music to put on my mp3 player. I listen to pop and rock music. Does anyone know some good songs? Thanks (link)
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Umm, well, here are some of my favorite bands - you should check out what thier song lists are..
A Perfect Circle
Dave Matthew's Band
Weezer
Other pretty good music would be
Pink Floyd
The Who
HOpe this helps
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how do homosexual people men or women have sex. i have heard about "great gay experiences" but i have no clue how they have sex (link)
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Well, the Men, they screw each other in the ass
Women, they can do it many different ways. Using sex toys, or just fingers and hands and whatever.
Hope this answers your quesitons.
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how do I get chuncks of black eyeliner out my BRAND NEW beige carpet? its like smeared in my carpet... in 3 spots, and ive already made it worse! help (link)
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Oxyclean will do miracles. But whatever you do - DO NOT use bleach, that will just bleach the stain.
Hope you get it out!!
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Hey, ok. i have a babysitting gig tomorrow night. And its 2 years old...what the heck do you do with a 2 year old?!?!?! i've only babysat kids over 5! HELP!!!!! (link)
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Well, as a mother, and as an ex-in home-childcare provider I can tell you that there is plenty to do with a 2 year old.
Get some games to play, coloring books, watch movies, take him/her for a walk outside, or depending on the sex, play with trucks, dolls, etc. Puzzles are good too, as well as blocks. That will entertain a 2 year old for hours.
Good luck!!
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I have this freind and she drives me crazy. How do I tell her I no longer want to be her friend without hurting her feelings-
Confused in my underwear* (link)
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Well, honestly, I don't think you'll get the point across to her without hurting her feelings. If she's driving you that nuts, don't worry about fucking hurting her feelings.
Just tell her, "look girl, I gotta tell you that you drive me insane, and I think we should really just not hang out any more."
She'll be upset, but you just have to do what you have to do.
(This is also a hard question to answer without knowing more of the story!)
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Is Mary Kay for real? (link)
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Well, Mary Kay can be whatever you want it to be. For me it's real.
I chose to work it for money, fun, friends, and something that was all for me. I love it!!
I work it full time, so it's the only job I have besides being a mother to my Four year old daughter.
So, to answer your question, yes I think Mary Kay is for real!!!
HAHA Stace - very funny!!!
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