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okwell my sister got caught sneaking out and ever sincemy parents wont let me do anythng even though i would never do that. so is there anyway that i can get them to relax, and see that im not like her?
please help!!!
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Well, you have to do what I did.
Tell your parents they can trust you. Ask them to just give you something small to be responsible for, or let you do something that isn't a big deal. Tell them you will prove to them that you are NOT like your sister, and that you can be trusted.
Tell them that you want to prove to them that they can trust you, and they can rely on you to follow thier rules.
Surely they will appreciate this and give in a little bit. Hope this helps.
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what i would do is do things to make them trust you. and show that you wont be like her. i did that to my faimly and it worked.
hope i helped,
<33 Lexie
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u could try to gain their trust by helping around the house and being extra good...i kni that sounds cheesey but it works most of the time...trust me
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What I would do is start picking up more responsibilities around the house cause that will show your parents that you are a responsible person unlike your sister and that you wouldn't do that. And I would also talk to them about it. I would just be like," Look I'm not _____. I'm not gonna do that, and I don't think that's fair you're not allowing me to do anything because of something my sister, not me, did." Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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I would talk to your parents about it, and slowly take on more responsibility around the house. Thats what my parents always tell me if they dont they I am responisble enough for something. Your parents may also be doubting your trust so I would try to always follow through with what you say to them. I'm sure over time this will change, but I think talking to your parents could help you. Also, try to act more mature, and adult like.
I hope this helps, and your parents let you do stuff again! =]
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You could tell them that you are going to a friends house, or just have a nice long chat with them. tell them that you arent like her at all, and if they believed you they would be awesome.
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Just try to show her that you're not gonna make the same mistake like what your sister did.
-ViTaChaN-
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if you feel like you may not be able to get it allout in word, write your parenst a note, simply tell them that you learn from your mistakes and that it was just a one time thing. Also remind them that they were once teenagers too, they've obviously snuck out once in their life too!
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Samantha says ; OMGGG I have the same exact problem.. see i have two older sisters who were not the greatest kids.. See my oldest one who is now 28 had a baby when she was about my age so that ruins being able to hang out with boys with out being questioned right when i get home. And my other sister who is now 23 did drugs when she was my age and younger so my parents always have to make sure adults are always where i go which effing sucks. So yeah.. what you should do is do what i did. I cried my eyes out .. i just said to my family that i'm not retarded like my other sisters and that i'm smart enough not to make bad choices i know that what i do will have consiquences so i dont do bad things. If you have a talk like that with your parents.. with your sister present maybe it will clear the air and give you a tad bit more freedom.. hey it worked for me.. IM me sometime ; brunette x5o
Danielle says ; I would say tell your mom that you wont do the things that your sister did and that if tyou have a cell phone then you'll always have it will you, on you.. and fully charged so she can always contact you so maybe she will be a little more trusting and she'll always know where you're at.
Hope this helps!
=) samantha and danielle
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Just try to explain to your parents that your not like your sister & make them trust you.
♥ Alli*
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Well you shouldnt have to pay for your sisters mistake and just sit your parents down and talk to them and let them kno that your not the type of person she is but i dont really know what else to tell you but hopefully that help
katilyn jO*
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just show them how mature you are...i mean just because your related doesnt mean you share the same personality. give them reasons to trust you...theyll grow outta the fase pretty quick.
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Sit them down and tell them that you are a totally different person than your sister, and that you wouldn't do anything she did. Make sure not to do anything like she did, and gain their trust by being responsible, doing extra chores and doing well in school, etc.
♥ Taylor
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haha that actually happend to me as well!! i think the best thing for you to do is to gain their trust... now i obviously dont kno your rents so i cant tell you how... but do whatever you can to gain their trust and soon im sure they will let you do stuff!
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