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I had this zit on my cheek, and popped it (sort of). It was one of those deep ones. It's really red now and there is still a bumb. Is there any way to make the red go away and the bump to go down?

take a wash cloth and run it under HOT water [as hot as you can stand] and hold that on the zit for like 30 seconds then run it under hot water again and repeat this for like 6-7 times

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How does a gurl flirt so that aguy would be interested?

dont seem desperate!!!!
put your self out there... but not to the point wheres hes annoyd by you...ive seen my friends do this and it never works... so play hard to get.. not to the extreme but i think u get what i mean!

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13/f
okwell my sister got caught sneaking out and ever sincemy parents wont let me do anythng even though i would never do that. so is there anyway that i can get them to relax, and see that im not like her?

please help!!!

haha that actually happend to me as well!! i think the best thing for you to do is to gain their trust... now i obviously dont kno your rents so i cant tell you how... but do whatever you can to gain their trust and soon im sure they will let you do stuff!

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do guys like it when girls make the first move or do they want to? also...when making out-do u like the girl to be on top or you to be in control?thanks babes...

well usually the guys do like it when the girl makes the first move (because it shows their aggressive side that they like) and if you feel comfterable.. then go right a head and if you do make the first move then you should be on top... otherwise if he does (which is just fine too) then he should be on top

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I was thinking... When is avrage age to have your first kiss and how far should u be in a relationship... This is my first relationship, and i love him and we've been gong out for 6 months,,, When should you? I have no clue!!! I havent had my first kiss but lately I've been thinking about it...
I want to kiss him... but somthing doesnt seem right,,,and i was talking to my mom and she asked me if i would tell her if my boyfriend kissed me,,, should I tell her?



13/f

well since he hasnt tryed to make a move in 6 moths obviously mean hes in it for more than just "ass" lol with that said... move at your own pace and just do wat feels right... and when ur ready in that spur of themoment... you'll kno!!

good luck!

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i'm 14/f a freshman & have been going out with this guy for about 2 weeks now, but we have liked eachother for much longer. well. hes moving to another state this summer and i doubt i'll see him again afterwards. long distance relationships wont work for either of us so what i'm wondering is, should we continue going out or break up. i like him so much and i couldnt imagine not being with him for the last month and a half or so before he leaves, but at the same time, i'm worried that its going to just be harder on both of us when he leaves if we keep going out. plus, theres this girl & him and her hooked up before we were going out. i think that hes going to want to "see" her one last time before he leaves and maybe mess around with her since he might never see her again. i dont know what to do it just seems like a lose/lose situation.

wow... thats tough...trust me i kno first hand that long distant relationships dont work... its just something you gotta deal with... so i think the best thing for you guys to do is to talk one on one with him and just tell him that you guys should break up but still stay close and talk on the phone and such whenever you can... and as far as that other girl.. talk to him about her too and tell him how you feel about that situation... nothin is better than the truth!!

Good Luck!

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im 15 and someone told me that my boyfriend -hes 15- looks at porn..is that normal? and like he said that my bf jacks off to it, too...is this normal or bad or what? and should i be offended that i cant make him feel good enough or somethin?

this is totally normal for a 15 year old!! and no you should not be offended AT ALL 15 yr old guys are just horny 24/7!! so dont worry about it!

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my underarms get sweaty a lot! and ive heard secret is the best brand to use a lot but it doesnt work well for me.. i need something stronger..do you guys think using babypowder would work? why or why not.. thanks!!

honestly if i were you... id use mens deoderant! no joke lol because if womens isnt strong enough.. then just use mens!!

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can you swim when you are on your period?

yes! you can... just make sure you are wearing a tampon and you are good to go!

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