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i'm not sure if its right
i'm 14/f a freshman & have been going out with this guy for about 2 weeks now, but we have liked eachother for much longer. well. hes moving to another state this summer and i doubt i'll see him again afterwards. long distance relationships wont work for either of us so what i'm wondering is, should we continue going out or break up. i like him so much and i couldnt imagine not being with him for the last month and a half or so before he leaves, but at the same time, i'm worried that its going to just be harder on both of us when he leaves if we keep going out. plus, theres this girl & him and her hooked up before we were going out. i think that hes going to want to "see" her one last time before he leaves and maybe mess around with her since he might never see her again. i dont know what to do it just seems like a lose/lose situation.
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wow... thats tough...trust me i kno first hand that long distant relationships dont work... its just something you gotta deal with... so i think the best thing for you guys to do is to talk one on one with him and just tell him that you guys should break up but still stay close and talk on the phone and such whenever you can... and as far as that other girl.. talk to him about her too and tell him how you feel about that situation... nothin is better than the truth!!
Good Luck!
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well thats where your wrong i would just like to say that how do you know that long distanced relationships wont work have you to done it before if so you never no it could work this time you can always travel over and see him at the weekends get your mum to take ya or catch a train or sumfink
if you dont wana go into that as an option then i suggest you stay with him till he leaves he will need you at this point and when he dus leave end it with him and it wil save u both alot of heart ach tel him you think its for the best and that you will always have feelings for him, then after then you can start to get over him you can both go different ways meet new people and be happy im not sayin u wont be hurt but at least you will no you done the rite thing and you will have the chance to be happy with someone else...
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I'd say if you both realy LOVE not like eachother than you should stay together and see what happens. If two people truly love eachother they can stay together trough any obsticle in the way. This is a very good test to see is you are truly in love.
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Thats so sad...well I am going to say this: You are going to have MANY boyfriends in the years...some you may think you LOVE and some you may think you HATE! but the truth is...no1 really knows wut love is until thay find that special person! If you really want your boyfrined to be happy and you to be happy you'll let him go (break up with him) I'm not tryin to soud so ..stern or anything but hunny its the truth...sure you 2 will still call eachother and stuf! but thats wut i have to say babe
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I see no reason why you can't still see each other as friends if nothing else. You will still be able to write and stuff. If you really like him I see no reason to break it off early when you could be spending time with each other. It is already going to be hard when he leaves anyway. :)
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