Hi Im a 13 tear old girl and Im here to hear you problems and give you advice on how to fix them. I don't have a pic of myself because I wish to keep my identity a secret.
Gender: Female
Location: Rhode Island
Occupation: Middle School Student 8th grade
Age: 13
AIM: XVirginBananasX
Member Since: May 7, 2005
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 months. I was crazy about him for the longest time. Well, recently, I have lost some intrest. I talked to him about it. He was upset, but we didn't break up. [I wasn't planning it, anyway.] So tonight, he starts telling me about how I ignore him and how I hug my guy friends, but barely make contact with him. He says it bugs him that people don't even know we're going out since we hardly show it, and it bugs him when people ask if we still are. I don't ignore him on purpous. At least I don't think so. It's hard to explain. But he REALLY likes me, so it's hard to talk to him about things like this without hurting his feelings. I only stay quiet when he talks about our problems, or say 'I don't know.' I have no clue what to do. He likes me a LOT. I still like him, but just not as much. I just really don't know what to do or say without hurting him. (link)
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Ok, so it sounds like you could use some help. If you realy don't like him, you shouldnt lead him on. Maby u could find out if theres someone else he likes and try and hook him up. If that is to painful for you then you probably still like him. Its up to you...do want to let him go or stay with him. But dont stay with him if you dont realy like him.
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okay. So I like this kid, but I really don't know him well since he just moved here, but he's become all I think about. I don't know what to do because I want to get to know him more but I don't know how without seeming like a stalker. Please Help! (link)
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Go for it, talk it up with him try and be his friend...and most importantly, be there for him. If he thinks your a stalker for being nice and talking to him and stuff well, his loss. Maybe he will see you around and see what he is missing out on. Well i'm off, good luck!
~LilMissAdvice2005~
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i like this girl and she doesn't know but we know each other and she is mean to me is it a good thing??? (link)
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Who knows, sometimes girls are mean to guy when they like them. It is just a way to cover up awkward situations. Maby you should talk to her and ask her why she treats you that way. Ask her out, maby she liked you all along.
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I like sam but then josh is pretty cute ....what do i do (link)
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Um, well you dont realy give me much to work with. Go for Sam if you realy like him. If that doesn't work out, give Josh a chance, everyone deserves a chance!
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ok i kinda like this girl K but i just broke up with her a little while ago but i think i still have feelings for her and i think she knows bc i said sumthing to her about our "kids" that said i think our kids' parents should be bak together, she didn't catch on.....wut do i do...
M (link)
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Sorry M but honestly, find someone else to answer this one. You know how I feel about you and i cant help someone i love get his girlfriend back. :( You've known the truth for quite some time so...sorry I can't help you.
~LilMissAdvice2005~
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hi. Um my boyfriends just broke up with me last week. But i still like him,and when i asked some to ask him out for me he said "he doesnt know if he wants to go back out". And now he is being alot nicer to me and talking alot to me. Does he ike me again? Because i still really like him. please HELP ME!!!!!
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Dear Allison,
One thing I have learned is that boys are odd and difficult to figure out. Maby he's just not ready for you. I think you should remain friends and maby he will come around and realize he wants you back. Personally, I've been waiting for a guy to want me back for a year now and unfortunately he never did. Hopefully you will have better luck. Just stick with ur close girl friend...they can help you through n e thing. Come back for more advice any time. :-)
~LilMissAdvice2005~
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I'm 13 and a Female. There is this kid "B" at my school and he likes me, but i dont know if I should go out with him or not because he's a little on the chubby side.I already told one person that he wanted to go out with me and they said eww.I'm not sure if I want to go out with him because I don't want people to make fun of me.Everyone says who cares what people think, but I do... He's not ugly and he's not hot, but he is decent.Right now he likes this other girl just because i won't go out with him.She's not giving him an answer to go out with him because she doesn't want him to not like her... PLEASE help me I don't know what to do! (link)
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Ok, well if u think B is a good person maby u should give him a chance. He could turn out to be the one you've always been looking for. But if your friend realy likes him and going out with him will cause a fight...then dont. Never ever ruin a friendship over a guy. I say yes, go for it and give him a chance. I hope I was helpful.
~LilMissAdvice2005~
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ok..well i am going out with Brian W and like him a litte but then i like Sam Wiiliamson even more and everyone says we look cute together but i don't know what to do PLEASE help (link)
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OK if you do not realy like Brian then why are you going out with him?? Ask Sam what he would say and if he would say yes then pick whichever one you feel will make you the most happy. I bet they are both realy nice kids but you cant have both so just follow your heart and it will lead u in the right direction.
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Okay, well I really liked this guy Chris. But then this guy Scott started to like me. Anyways I went on a date with Chris last night and now that I think about it I didn't have that muchf un with him. I don't even really like him that much it's liek since I can have him I'm bored of him. Anyways this otehr guy Scott I kind of like him a bit but I odn't know if I shoudl even start with him cuase I'm afraid I'll get bored with him to. i get bored with all guys but I don't know why does anyone else? I like this otehr guy but he's so out of my league so I just gave up. I don't really know what I'm asking I guess should I just stick with Chris since I gave him teh impression that I liked him or should I go for Scott or really try for teh guy I really like? And does anyone else get bored with every guy they date afetr like a few weeks? Or is it just me? (link)
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Here are some possible reasons for your boredom.
1) You want to move way to fast and are making him feel uncomfortable.
2) Hes way to slow and lame and totally not your type.
3) You should have gotten to know him better and became more comfortable around eachother before you started dating.
4) It just isnt gonna work.
5) You just expect to have way to much fun on a first date.
If I were you i would give scott a chance
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I have this friend, and we were really good friends at the beginning of the year. Literally every guy in our school thinks shes hot, and i think its gone to her head. She goes out with people shes not really friends with on friday nights and never invites me and acts like im a total freak all the time. on the other hand, shes always really nice to me and stuff when shes not around those people who think shes so hot, and i like to be around her then. i dont want to tell anyone how shes treating me because theyll tell her because they want to be friends with her. i cant talk to her because shes so mean when shes mad at someone and no one will be on my side of the arguement. (link)
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I think you and your friend need to have a heart 2 heart. That means you need to talk,yell, cry and do whatever it takes to get your feeling out. You cant just bottle your feelings up inside. If she continues to akt this way the I say make some new friends. You cant be friends who doesnt think you are good enough to be seen with. Trust me you deserve more respect then she's giving you!
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well were havin celeb day at school besides the olsen twins can anyone think of two celebritys me and my friend could do?
thanx a bunch! (link)
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How about you go all out and pretend to be guys. Do you wach American Idol? You can be Constantine Maroulis and Bo Bice. LOL.
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ok.. well theres these kids in some of my classes... theres alot of them and when theyre not all there its not so bad but when theyre all there (just one class) its bad. i sit in the front row and all they do it sit behind me and make fun of me. they always claim that i smell and they make jokes about it. theyre like the "popular" type so this is cool to them. i know i dont smell though. they just say that because that room has a weird smell coming from the vents. im not one of the popular kids so they do this to make fun of me. its no fun and i hate that class. trust me though, i dont smell, i thought maybe i did at first when they started but i put on stronger deodarant and i sprayed perfume. its definitly not me. how do i get these mean people to stop tourturing me? (link)
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Just Ignore them. The one think thay they are looking for is a reaction from you. If you dont get upset and maby even laugh about it they may not think is very funny anymore. Bullies just think its funny to hurt peoples feelings so if you show them that what they say doesnt bother you then they may leave you alone.
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i'm 14/f a freshman & have been going out with this guy for about 2 weeks now, but we have liked eachother for much longer. well. hes moving to another state this summer and i doubt i'll see him again afterwards. long distance relationships wont work for either of us so what i'm wondering is, should we continue going out or break up. i like him so much and i couldnt imagine not being with him for the last month and a half or so before he leaves, but at the same time, i'm worried that its going to just be harder on both of us when he leaves if we keep going out. plus, theres this girl & him and her hooked up before we were going out. i think that hes going to want to "see" her one last time before he leaves and maybe mess around with her since he might never see her again. i dont know what to do it just seems like a lose/lose situation. (link)
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I'd say if you both realy LOVE not like eachother than you should stay together and see what happens. If two people truly love eachother they can stay together trough any obsticle in the way. This is a very good test to see is you are truly in love.
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