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okay well my friend doesn't really have that many friends nd ALOT of people hate her and like i like her but she can be REALLY annoying. and if i dont put her in my profile for AIM she gets pissed off but then im gunna lose alot of friends if im friends wit this girl so wat should i do?
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well..do people hate her because shes annoying? if so, talk to her about it. i have a friend like that too. good luck w/ everything~
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You should just keep everyone's names OUT of your profile. When people ask why, say "I don't have enough space for all my friends and I don't wanna hurt anyone's feelings." That way, you're not mentioning anyone's name and it's a perfectly logical explanation.
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uuuh..hard situation..
for me..
you should know how to weigh things around you.. think about the effects..or the consequences.. another thing is..no one should control you right?if you feel good about this girl then go on..but if your other friends are 'heavier' and more important, you better try to talk to that girl.. tell her that its not g0od to control others.. and be kind enough to tell her whats wrong..it might not be easy really..but ot would really help..after so, if she still doesnt change, thats not good anymore..that means she loves to know and hear that people all over the world hate her.. leave her then..you wouldnt feel free if you would continue going with this girl..
hope i helped..
take care..
be cool..
<3
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you need to make the decision for yourself but I will tell you this much. You need to make your own friends with people who you like. If others that you consider friends dislike you or get pissed because you like someone they don't like...well, I wouldn't consider them to be very good friends. :)
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Ok well she should not get mad at you for doin that.And if your friends won't be friends with you because your friends with some on they don't like then there not your true friend.
Hope I helped
MD_GIRL101
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Ok well she should not get mad at you for doin that.And if your friends won't be friends with you because your friends with some on they don't like then there not your true friend.
Hope I helped
MD_GIRL101
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Well i think you should just be friends with your friend and if ur other friends dont like it than they can get over it!
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You sound like a very sweet person, but i was in the same situation with my friend. We were really qood friends but she was sooo annoyinq like she could have 10000 freinds (even though no one liked her) but she has to be my only friend. Just don`t be mean about it but I think you should just start driftinq apart.. hanq out with other people. You don`t have to be BF4L's but be nice to her. Hope i helped ! - courtney
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Okay.. well explain to your other friends that you like this girl and tell her if you guys like her maybe she'll have more friends if you guys talk to her. And tell them she is kinda cool. And then explain to your friend.. I have other friends than you. But, maybe you can meet them sometime. I hope this works out! =)
Love.Alwaysz*-
Shan * Kel
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Ok, sounds like you are in a lose-lose situation. One way to skirt the issue is to not name anyone in your profile. Not everyone likes to go flaunt their friends for the entire AIM community to see. Personally, I think naming names is like setting them up as targets. If you don't name anyone, and she still gets pissed, explain to her that by not naming names, fewer people will be hurt, you give your friends some shell of protection, and it takes stress off of your life. I can understand being an outcast and still wanting attention, but it is truly selfish to take one person down with you simply because you are their friend and supposedly lots of people hate them. I am not, however, about to say to stop being friends with them, because that causes yet another negative situation. How are you sure that you will lose your friends just by acknowledging that you are friends with someone who is not necessarily class favorite? Better question, what kind of friends would abandon just because you decide to be friends with someone that the "group" dislikes? True friends may disagree with friends of friends, but that does not give them a free pass to associate their hatred for your friend with you. If that is the case, you need to reevaluate who your friends really are. Only the snooty, fake people look down at people like that, probably because of massive ego problems. We all need to realize that everyone is born equally, it is what we do with the precious gift of life that makes us who we are. You need to consider who is more important to you, the friends who would leave you at the drop of a name, or the friend who is more likely to stay with you. Make the right choice, and it will label you as a good person. Good luck.
Best Wishes, Jordan
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Well just put her name in and no specifics. You can always just tell your other friends that its just a different girl with the same name.
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You're gonna loose a lot of friends by being friends with her? Personally I think that is just shallow. If she gets annoying then just tell her that you dont always have to put her in your profile and that you have other friends then just her. I mean if you are her friend only because you want to be nice then seriously thats just wrong. Maybe thats not why. If a lot of people hate her for whatever reason tell her that and maybe she could change her personality and the way she acts. The friends you loose for being her friend are def. not your true friends and its just redicoulous if people get mad at you for them. Since she doesnt have that many friends maybe you should help her make new friends. How would you feel if you were in her position? Not very good. But good luck! ll ♥ ll
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