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lost love
i was w/a guy for 3 years them he moved to texas and now he came back after a year and people told him alot of mean things aboutme and npw he hates me any advice will rate high if advice is good.
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i'm sorry but if he is that nieve to believe those people he is not worth your friendship. ask him what they said and tell him they were lieing to you than hang out with him and it will turn out great! trust me!
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if he hates you just from what other people say then he's not worth your time.
however, if this hate is all in your head..or if he is just afraid that what they say is true..hang out with him, be yourself, and prove that what they say is wrong. that you are a really cool person.
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Well you should just ask him what all he has heard about you and just reassure him that none of those things are true and the people who said them about you probably just dont like you for some odd reason. On the other hand, he shouldnt hate you for the things that other people have said, especially when he moved away and doesnt know any of it is true. If you really care about this guy, then you need to make an effort to tell him that the things he's heard arent true. If you were with this guy for three years, then you should have a pretty good relationship and know each other well. Dont be afraid to talk to him and tell him the truth, gurlie! Hope that helped! Thanks for the question~
♥Emily
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well if none of thoes things were true all you have 2 do is simply sit him down and tell him tat they were not true!!but if they were true u simply have 2 say tat im very sry 4 wut happened while you were gone!!if i can do ne thing 2 make it better i will!!
***hope this helps***
~*DiVa77*~
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talk to him and tell him the truth. explain to him how you feel about him and that everythin other people wasnt true. if he doesnt believe you then i dont think he is worth your time.. because if he doesnt trust taht what your saying is true then it might not work out... i think that since you guys were in a 3 year realtionship that he should be able to listen to you.. maybe try to bring back some of the good memories you guys had and make him smile. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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Let him know that none of those things are true. If he knew you back then he knows that you are'nt that type or person!! He should belive you. Just make sure you talk to him tho and let him know. ll ♥ ll
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confront him. be bold and just sit him down one day and be like we really do need to talk. straighten it all out with him and tell him everything he's been hearing is bullcrap and that if anything that you two had before meant anything, then he'd know you good enough to believe that you are telling the truth.
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