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ok.. so my best friend and i were in this chat with our other friend. and the other friend and my best friend have like a really funny joke together.. inside joke. so they were talkin about their joke and i just left cuz i didnt wanna be in the middle of it. then they started bein real mean to me, so i ignored them and blocked them. since then, my best friend wont forgive me when she should be the one sayin sorry. what should i do?
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if i were i would go to one of your other friends and make an inside joke w/ them and dont tell the ppl being mean to you and kida make them mad and show them how they feels goodluck
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it was rude of them to ignore you like that look i would just apoligize if you want to im not sayin you have to but if you want to be freinds w/them then i wopuld say just apoligize and get it over with ok Hope i helped hope things work out ok Bye♥
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Explain that you were uncomfotable in teh situation and you don't feel it was right of them to put you in the middle of it.
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Just be the bigger person and say your sorry you blocked her, but in the chat you just felt left out, and you just had things to do.....
Hope i helped
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Well, if I were you, I would talk to her. Tell her that you were feeling left out, so you left. They had no right to be mean to you. But I probably would've talked to her instead of blocking her. Just say that you're sorry for blocking her, other than that you have nothing to be sorry for.
Tasha<33
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Okay, did they completely ignore you, or did they maybe just forget you were their while they were in the midst of their joke. Inside jokes are bonds that bring friends closer together. My old best friend and I used to be known as Fraiser and Niles (from Fraiser). He was older, so he was Fraiser, and I was Niles. Anyway, what would have caused them to be so mean? Did they think they perhaps you were rejecting them? That could cause their anger. Anyway, probably the best idea is to sit down with them both and just try to get the inside story, and work it out. Who knows, you may end up laughing the whole situation out, find out that it is all one big misunderstanding. If they are unwilling to talk it out, or be civil when talking it out, then perhaps you need to think about just moving on. If they aren't willing to work things out, then it is their loss, not yours. Good luck with whatever happens.
Best Wishes, Jordan
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That could be one of the stupidest thing i heard, she got mad at you for leaving?, i would leave too, tell her you felt left out and that you didnt like it i mean who does?
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this one is tough. your best friend prolly feels really bad and that is more than likely why she was so mean. admitting she was wrong would make her look bad so she is acting like you are the one who made the mistake. i suggest you drop the whole thing. tell her it doesnt matter and that she is your best friend. next time you feel like she is leaving you out... dont freak out just tell her that you feel like that and she will respect it! dont lose a friend just because she left you out once everyone makes mistakes!
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im guessing they probably thought you were mad at them first so they just.. ATTACKED..lol just talk to them and ask them why they were so mad. They probably were only being mean because they thought you didnt want to talk to them or something. Hope it helps ♥ amI ♥
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well it is bad that you jus ditched them but i kno where your coming from
Just tell them that you didnt want to be in the middle of tha joke and plz dont be mad at you.
your sorry you had to leave cause you was very tired and didnt feel like being in a chat
But the part about them bein mean to you.
It may never happen again just dont worry about it. Cause you are friends with them and they shouldnt be mean to you at all so them being mean jus dont worry about it.
Hope this helps
Seth:)
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