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im such a bad person it feels like.
Okay me n my boyfriend has been dating for almost 4 months and everything has been going good we have a couple of disagreements but who doesnt.. well a couple of weeks ago he got me a cell phone but i payed for it but its in his name and everyday he goes through it. people tell him that im messing around with other guys but how could i when im with him 24/7 well last nite my bestfriend who is a girl texted me stuff she didnt want anyone else knowing and he went to go through my phone and i took it from him. i knwo it looked as if i was hiding something but im not. now he thinks that im hiding stuff and im cheating so he doesnt want to tell me he loves me anymore intill i can change and get my priorities straight or however u spell it. and he doesnt knwo right now if we are gonna work things out he just always tells me i dont know i dont know.Please help me try to get my boyfriend not to break up with me im sorry its long.
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I'd just go with honesty. Tell him that one of your friends messaged you some information that they don't want anyone to know. Hopefully he'll be able to just trust you. After dating for four months, hopefully you've both learned to have some trust. And also try not to give him any reason to doubt you. Hope it helped!
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First of all, your cell phone is your business - not his!! If he is that insecure - it really is not your problem. He can't have a healthy relationship with you feeling that way...I would just let him go before he starts accusing you and beating you up!!! I know it seems cute - but really it's to control you and it's not cute. It's the beginings of a miserable relationship. Trust me.
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hey he shouldnt be going through your personals anyway. tel him that but also tel him the truth..your friend didnt want people knowing stuff and you took it away form him. tel him to get over it he is wrong and should let it go. tell what is on your mind tell him your with him 24/7 and no-one else. also tell him how much you love him and would NEVER cheat on him. hes being ridiculous..uh men sometimes. tell him if he doesnt cut it out maybe you shouldfind someone more understanding and less irational.
good luck
luv ya ox0xox0ox0xo0xoxo Christine13
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You should just talk to him about it...and let him know that it was something that your friend had wanted you to keep secret...if he really loves you...he should understand...if he doesnt understand...then you should just let him go...from what it sounds like...hes making a big mistake...((hope I helped))
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♥ well.. first of all, its YOUR phone, and YOUR business. He doesnt need to go through it anyway, but whatever. Just talk to him and explain what happened. Explain that it was your friend texting you and it was "girl stuff"..that'll make him stop budding in - lol! Anyway, just tell him you're not cheating and he should be able to trust you, and if he cant..well it should've been over a long time ago..♥
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I dont think that any man can tell any woman what to do. And (sweety) if you paid the money for that phone than he did not get you that phone. And as for that goin through your phone thing, if you weren't smart enought to think that he didn't trust you by going through your phone the way he doe's. Then your not smart enough to know that he doe's not trust you now. (Than why are you still with him) Honey that is not a real relasionship/.
you need to find yourself another man
someone who trusts you and loves you for who you are.
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Well I would just go to him and explain the situation. Just tell him how you can't show him the one text message because it's from your friend and it was something private that she didn't want anyone to know. If there's a name or number there above the text message show it to him or call her and have her tell him how she told you something private so he'll know that it wasn't a guy. I hope everything works out between you two!! Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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ok.
if i was you i would tell him the truth. Tell him you snatched the phone away because your friend text you stuff she didnt want anybody to see but you like personal stuff. and say he can even ask your friend because he should believe you.
But from the looks of it he doesnt trust you but its ok. It all takes time and everything.
Just remember that nothin is a coincedence because everything happens for a reason.
Hope this helps
Seth:)
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He doesn't trust you. That's not your fault, it's his. If anyone should consider ending the relationship, it's you. Have a little self respect.
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