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Question Posted Sunday July 10 2005, 8:25 pm

What are some things to talk about with friends and stuff. I always have trouble starting conversation over AIM, and I really need help. Thanks

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ElmosBrightStar answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 8:14 pm:
Ask them what they did tht day, and elaborate on a subject. If they say nothing, ask them what they think about somethign that is going on in the news. Everyone loves a good debate :]

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askXaway answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 3:37 pm:
Possible converstation starters

- Hows your summer?

- What are you doing this summer? Camps? Vacations?

- What teacher(s) do you want this year in school?

- I saw this ____(cool, blue, etc.) ______ (bike, i pod, computer, necklace) from _____ (the store/company) that i want. do you think i should get it/ask for it? (further describe the item)

sorry i g2g, but hope i help a little!

ask x away

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HEARTXBREAKER answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 10:24 am:
here are a few:

friends
GOSSIP
clothes
school
sports
movies
future
goals
homework
animals? lol
something random LIKE a turkie? haha
makeup
hair
upcoming events
boys, boys, boys, boys, BOYS!

hope i helped!

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poetqueen answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 12:05 am:
just say something random thats what i do ask a question make a random comment it will usually start a convo just be like im bored or watcha doin or if you share a class say something about an assignment or people ask them what there plans are for the weekend if you like someone or are confused about something or have a boyfriend/girlfriend talk about them its not hard once you think of something. hope i helped!

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MELiixMARiiE answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 4:11 pm:
Well first I just IM them the usual," Hey!! Whatsup?" and then we just start talking about our vacations we went on, hot guys we saw, hows the summer going, relationships...and then I'll be like," I miss you so much! I haven't seen you in forever!! We should do something!!" Or something like that.. but if you already are hanging out with them and stuff, just have a conversation about the hot guy you saw or something whenever you two went to the movies or something or something funny that happened there..or we just talk about random stuff, cause there's never a silent moment =) hope I helped!!






Love,
MELii

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M_to_the_E_to_the_L answered Monday July 11 2005, 7:25 pm:
Ask them Whats up? how's there summer going? Ask them about their interests? Their job? Sports? Family? It doesn't need to be big deep coversations each and every time... and don't feel obligated to talk to them for hours.

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cRaZyBaby1155 answered Monday July 11 2005, 5:36 pm:
I usually just start out wit, Hey wassup? and just like...thing like that

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catlover_13 answered Monday July 11 2005, 2:42 pm:
just say hey, how r u , whats up, and tell them what you have been doing lately etc....

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ddrplaya08 answered Monday July 11 2005, 1:28 am:
Hey! It somewhat depends on the type of person you're talking to, but you can use things like "Have you ever been to ____ (maybe kings island, or Florida, or California, etc...) If you saw them recently you could ask about something they wore "where'd you get that ___ (shirt, necklace, w/e) I just try to be myself as much as possible! Hope I helped!

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xBestAddiction answered Monday July 11 2005, 12:07 am:
Here are some ideas...
Hey whats up?
So what have you been up to lately?
What are you doing?
Omg did you hear about 'whatever'?
What type of music do you like?
What do you think about 'so and so'?
Just ask normal questions that you would usually talk about in person. Good luck!

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LoLo2454 answered Sunday July 10 2005, 10:38 pm:
i usually just say what ever is on my mind, or just ask them anything that you dont know, tell storys you never told them, stuff like that, ask about their plans and what not
laurens friend

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SAF3xWiiTHxM3 answered Sunday July 10 2005, 10:04 pm:
*Hey.. i am here to help you...just keep asking questions like how was your day what did you do and it will get into more...conversations!! and if its the weekend you could be like have any fun plans?!... the more you talk the more they will want to talk to you again!!...talk about fun events ur having!

*april

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dorkalici0us20O5 answered Sunday July 10 2005, 10:00 pm:
try talking about their life... people love talking about themselves lol. ask questions like: who are you going out with, or what'd you do today, or what's new?... dont ask TOO many questions, youre not an investigator lol, ask a question and start a convo about whatever they said. like if you said what did you do today, and they said played baseball...be like ohh yeah i like baseball a lot or something. sorry this isnt the best advice but i hope it helped!

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gabbygoo102 answered Sunday July 10 2005, 9:32 pm:
Just say *Hey hows it going?* or *Whats up* and start talking about you day or whatever. everything will work out.. i promise. hope i helped! x♥xGaBbYx♥x

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Kr4z3y_Ch3lly answered Sunday July 10 2005, 8:54 pm:
uhm..well..if its with your friends you can talk about memorys, what your doing, what you did that day, talk about the summer, uhm lol im not good at that either im just random so it works out.. so try doing that too! if its on the fone..which is easyer..you can watch the same thing at the same time and talk about that..or..ask what else there doing..or ask what their thinking at that exact moment! thats always..uhm..interesting haha..ooorrr just be random! that always works..lol

michelle<|3

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Mami0s0xclusivex3 answered Sunday July 10 2005, 8:50 pm:
Well you could talk about alot of things..first of all you ushally always start off by saying "hey" or "hey whats up" and then they ushally say "nothing much you?" or something like that..thats when you bring up something, you say either "nothing just watching tv, or playing a game, or thinking about some stuff," etc. Somethings you could talk about??

1: you could simply as how their day was, and what happend..anything fun?

2: if they go to your school, if anything is new

3: what you did today, or whats goign to happen

4: talk about gilfriends/boyfriends

5: if you really dont know who someone is, ask who they are, get to know them, talk about friends, family all that good stuff

Etc, you could talk about anything, all you do is figure something out. Dont be shy, just start talking, most of them times people talk right back to you about the same subjects that your talking about. Dont talk about the same things over and over, people get very anoyed. I hope i helped

XoXo
Kristi

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askmex3 answered Sunday July 10 2005, 8:37 pm:
good question...you can talk about eachothers day, things you both are doing this summer, who both of you like, your friends, or just be random =) thats always fun! hope I helped &hearts;

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l3fty14 answered Sunday July 10 2005, 8:37 pm:
Lets face it..theres NOTHING to talk about on AIM.. ;)

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Christine13 answered Sunday July 10 2005, 8:33 pm:
well one good way to avoid having a nowhere conversation ( on both the phone and internet) is to make a list of things to talk about. i do it if im on the phone with a crush so we dont just sit there and say "uummmm yea" its great. on the list write questions and topics.. its a guarenteed success ;)

luv ya xo0xox0xo0xo Christine13

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