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i really don't wanna
ive been talking to this guy for 5 yrs. but weve never been together and he lives in flordia right now. Well he just asked me to marry him,i really love him....but i don't want to get married, ive never wanted to get married. I don't know what to say.
HELP
-twiSTed
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if you feel any doubt then dont marrie him and if he lives in a diffrent state thats going to be extreamly hard HOPE II HELPED ♥
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Say just that. You never want to get married. You run the risk of loosing him, but, some people date to that end. If he is looking for a wife he is going to move on. :)
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well if you love him as much as he loves you and you htink it could work but you're not ready for marrage,tell him you just wat to date for a while and see what he says.But if he says its now or never then I dont think he loves you as much as he says.Because if he did he would respect for ALL of your dessions.
Hope I helped,
Brittany (jenni's friend)
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dont agree to it. your havent met him thats not safe if you really want to get to know him better yall should meet and further your relationship he may be ready to settle down your odviously not try explaining that to him and he may understand but chances are yall might break up it just means yall arent on the same page just think of it as a chance to find a person that lives closer to you that will understand where your coming from. hope i helped!
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if you love him enough, you will want to say YES YES YES YES YES!!!... but you sound unsure, and that never turns out best, so I would wait and just tell him you aren't ready for that kind of a commitment and ask him to wait for you.
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If you think your old anogh and you realy know him and love him and want to be with him for the rest of your life not dating any more guys then well thats your disision!
what ever your heat tells you, i hope i helped!!!
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♥Tell him no.
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I think you should talk to him about it, and tell you love him but you're just not quite ready to get marry. See how things go.
Good luck.
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ok i know this is a joke because if someone asked you to marry them and you have never seen them ok this is a joke*Kelley*
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first of all i really dont understand the whole "ive been talking to this guy for five years but weve never been together" part.its kinda of confusing.If you really love him but you dont want to get married right now then just talk with him.tell him your not quite ready.when you grow up you'll want to get married and then you can be with him.i hope that helped you somewhat.
♥ Amanda ♥
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Ok, so you two have never been together, yet he still asks you to marry him? Thats a new one by me, usually, if I were gonna propose, I would have wanted to be officially be with that person, not just talk to him. If you know you love him, that should be your first step, be with him, as a girlfriend. As far as distance in relationships goes, distance can be overcome. Thats why we have those things called cars and airplanes. As for not want to get married, that can be a major psychological issue. It could be that you dont want to be tied down, that you have never seen yourself as a wife, or even a mother someday, or it could be an issue from earlier in life. Seeing as I am not studying psychology, I won't delve any farther than that. Here is what I would do, tell him that you do love him, that you want to be with him, but you dont want to be engaged first. Make it clear that you want to "date" first, then, maybe in a year or two, you can make an educated decision as to whether you are honestly not comfortable with the idea of marriage, or if you are just scared. Good luck, no matter what happens.
Best Wishes, Jordan
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No maybe.
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dont do anything you will regret. but when you love someone, its always right to get married and commit yourself on that level. its only fair to the person you say you love to marry them. and if it is REALLY love, it shouldnt be that big of a deal to marry them because you should already want to be with them forever. but only you know whats best for yourself! tell him how you feel.
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