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Q: I downloaded some houses for Sims 2 yesterday, they wouldn't load up, but then when i tried to enter any other lots (on any map) those wouldnt load either.
So i deleted the downloaded houses off the maps, then out of my downloads files and emptied the recylcle bin but still, no lots on any map will load up. It just takes forever and i eventually have to go to task manager where it says sims 2 is not responding.

What else can i do? i really dont want to uninstall it, i have loads of downloads and was downloading objects yesterday and today, i dont think its those that have caused the problem though as ive never had this problem before (and have only ever had problems when ive downloaded houses).

Is there a way of finding out if i have downloaded anything dodgy so i can get rid of it?

Any other suggestions are welcome :-)

Thank you x

sims 2 takes up ALOT of a computers memory so its slowing down your computer. you sould delete some games off your computer that u dont play anymore, it will help alot.

Q: Im really pissed and I don't have any way to show it. Like all I can do is sit here and ponder everything that was said. And listen to somebody talk so i dont know what to do so that Im not even more pissed off at everybody. Im really annoyed by this.

what i usualy do is go for verryy longggg walks
and just try to escape the anger and people surrounging me, and if that doesnt work then just try to take your anger out on boxing or an active sport

i hope i helped

Q: ok so like about a week ago my boyfriend broke up with me and i have been haging out with my friends alot latley and some are boys and my mom thinks im boy crazy because i have a couple guys friends? what can i do to get her to stop acting like that. cause im not boy crazy i just have guy friends that i hang out with and i would never like that way.

Hangout with more girls that way you can prove her wrong, it may be best if you spaced guys out of your life for a little bit

Q: i really need advice. my friend is being a dick to me. she has call me a lesbian and i am not and we are always in a fight on aim. she has told every one that i am a lesbian my real friends believe me but really i am not. i really wish i had some good comebacks at her. i really do hate her. please give some advise and combacks please.

tell her that she must be the lesbien if she keeps ubsessing over you like this
and then kick her ass or somthing

Q: just so you know this is kind of a couple questions ok so i've been walking alot. Since i walk i get thirsty and i can only really drink cold water when i walk and alot of it will this help lose weight??? Also how long will it take to show that you've lost weight i mean i know it wont show up right after walking or whatever but how long does it take? Another question is there anything that can boost my metabolism and something that can boost my energy and also something that can like make me lose weight faster well what i mean something that can help me lose weight period thanks in advance sorry theres really bad well kind of no punctuation but whatever

ill answer the last question for you
theres this pill called NV and its a wieght loss pill found at drugstores near you.

hope i helped

Q: so i'm making my whole family start eating right. and i was wondering how many servings of fruits, veggies, milk, meat, and all that other stuff are you suppose to have a day?

also do you know of any good tips on eating right? anything is appreciated.

well i know that dairy is 3 times a day
and after you eat its good to burn off the calories

sorry i dont know alot about it

hope i helped

Q: ok i get enough sleep and everything like that. but i still have dark circles under my eyes!! i want them to fade away but they won't. im a very self concious person. is there any ideas how i can help these dark circles get away? please, help

a little preferation H will get rid of it

Q: My boyfriend is like a "nerd". It's hard to to explain why, but believe me, he is.
When I first started going out with him, I knew that he'd be very prude because he went out with my best friend a year ago, and they went out for 7 months, and he never even attempted to kiss her.
One year later, I went out with him, [ still am ]. He tried kissing me on the first day, and tried making out with me on the second.
First of all, why do you think hes like this?

Today is our second month aniversery [ haha . ]
At the pool today, he grabbed me and started rubbing me aginst him, and he was REALLY HARD. & He grabbed my butt. He was bascily like grinding me. I loved it, but I mean, do you think this is too fast? I don't want to show that im easy, cause i'm not. Im 13, and this is my first boyfriend.

He asked me if I liked it, and I just said yes. Could I have said something differnt? Whenever he does something "new" he always asks that, and I just say "yes". What else could I say.

Thank you so much for all your help.

If you feel like your going to fast then tell him
but if you want to keep the pase up then go for it, and if you realy like him then you wouldnt care what other people think about the speed of growth in the relationship

Q: how do you lose weight in your UPPER thighs?

running and bike riding and also pulling your kees up to your chest

Q: ok so normally im good at knowing weather a guy likes someone or not but i have this friend. we're good friends, not best friends but i've been able to cry on his shoulder a few times. ok so all year he's been in a relationship so i never really looked at him as more than a friend because im not the type to steal a boyfriend. ok so me and a few of my friends were at his house the other night and we were in his hot tub and he put his shoulder around me. and at first its like oh ok w/e because he's just a friend but then he started pulling me closer and telling the other guys in the hot tub "now this is how you be romantic" and when he'd leave he'd say "dont miss me too much" and flirt with me and stuff but then he says that he's finally free from a relationship and loves being single so i dont know if he likes me or not, i like him a little but if he liked me then i would like to start a relationship. oh by the way he liked me back in 7th grade when we were 12. im 15 now and he's 16. oh by the way he's got a smokin body. lol so i dont know what to do

If you like him then go for him he seems into you flirt back and see what happends, hey and on the pluss side hes old enough to drive so you would have a ride to places lol

Q: i apologize if this is really long.
my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost ten months, and we were best friends before that. everything was going really good and we even declared that we were in love with eachother. now before we started going out, he was a REALLY super nice guy, people would take advantange of that and be rude to him, but he'd always take them back. he'd always come to me with his problems and we'd sort things out. this continued for a good chunk of our relationship.
now since about april, hes changed, and says "he doesnt care about anything because he got tired of people walking all over him". which i understand, because anyone would get sick of being treated like dirt.

but now he doesnt say I love you anymore, he's always with his friends and barely asks me to hang out, and i've mentioned this quite a few times and he says that he knows hes changed, and he doesnt like who he is now, and he knows hes an asshole to me. i asked him if he doesnt like me anymore, and he swears that he does

so what do you think i should do?

I just went though the same exact thing you did,
see dont let him keep you wondering if he loves you or not and dont let him ditch you, trust me i let my boyfriend do this to me. Dont let him have any controll cause whenever you ask him if he loves you or if you dont oppose to him hanging out with his friends then hes going to think he can controll you and show you around like a trophy. If hes treating you like dirt then kick kiss ass to the curb, i know how hard that is but you will feel better and then hes going to relize that he screwed up.

Q: when i use a hair straightener it straightens my hair but it doesnt exactly get the poofiness out so what im asking here is what can i do? does serum help so my hair will look thin and how much would it cost?

you should try hair greece or put it up in a bun

Q: ok so i went to a My Chemical Romance concert yesterday and got this hoodie that says "REVENGE" on the front and on the back has an army helmet on top of a rifle then it says My Chemical Romance... you can't really make out that it's a rifle... but still, so for an 8th grader do you think i could wear it to school? we have a new principal and theres been girls wearing spagetti straps and shirts with guns on them and those shirts that say I've go snow man or w/e...

who the hell cares what your princapal thinks of what u say just wear it!

Q: I have a problem. With my jansport backpack, I have 7 folders and notebooks, and I cant seem to fit all of them. The backpack is pretty good sized, but I mean, I can only fit my binder (medium sized),7 folders, and like, 3 100 pg notebooks. What should I do? I mean, dont just tell me to try to fit everything in there and then try to zip it. Believe me, I tried that. So..what should I do? Is there anything I can do??

how about you return the bag and get a giiber back pack!!!!!

i realy hope i helped

Q: ive been talking to this guy for 5 yrs. but weve never been together and he lives in flordia right now. Well he just asked me to marry him,i really love him....but i don't want to get married, ive never wanted to get married. I don't know what to say.

HELP
-twiSTed

If you think your old anogh and you realy know him and love him and want to be with him for the rest of your life not dating any more guys then well thats your disision!

what ever your heat tells you, i hope i helped!!!

Q: well im thinking about losing my virginity to my boyfriend... but im all about protection and talking about it first... but how do you bring it up? what do i need to know from him? also even if were both virgins... do we need to get HIV/ AIDS/ STD tested? also... whats the best protection to use... and where can i get stuff besides condoms? whats the best brand... and how do you know if im ready?

no dumbass answers please

ill rate 5s if you give good answers

WHY would you even think about having SEX thats not somthing u can say o yes ill do it you need test and what id you have a baby and the father isnt there why dont you just wait till you get MARRIED?

Q: I made the cheerleading squad this year and i love it.. but our coach said any girls that argued or talked about each other behind their baQs or caused drama were going to be kicked off the squad.. and there is a girl on the squad that is so mean to me.. she makes fun of me but says she is just pickin but it bothers me and she says rude stuff that makes me mad.. but i havent said anything to her about it because i'm afraid it will make her mad and start a fight but i'm rele tired of being treated like that... wut should i do?!?

tell the COACH dont YOU WANT SWEET REVEGE she DISERVISE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Q: how do i get into acting at a young age if you live in a non-important town in Ny. I know I major in acting at college, but I want to start acting on tv before that.
any ideas or tips!?

well if you like acting that mutch look for agents then send you stuff in if they like it then its good luck 4 u also YOU HAVE TO BE PAITIONT WITH THESE THINGS!!!!!!!!!!!

GOOD LUCK HOPE TO SEE YOU IN THE STOT LIGHTS!!!!

Q: Hey !! Im 15 and have had a crush on this one guy for over 4 years now (on and off) Ive had boyfriends during this time period but for some reason I keep going back to liking him. We've never been extremely close but we are friends. He's extremely cute, and has a good personality. We see each other out of school sometimes, but for some reason he will never talk to me online, wby is that? He was at my friends Swt 16 and we danced and I actually thought he'd ask me out but soon I found out he wouldn't date me because im quote "beautiful and too perfect" and he wouldnt want to just use me for sex because im more then that and im one of his friends. Im flattered but in the pit of my stomach I cant stop thinking about him, should I go on liking him or just move on and maybe one day he'll realize what he has lost? Please help me, thanks so much ! xO

i think you should make the first move then see what happends and if he dosnt like you then find an other guy because if he dosnt like you then hes not worth yoir time!

Q: You know how everyone will tell you " do it when the time is right " well how do you know when the time is right?

its not somthing u can ask out of the blue its very fragile its magical once it happens then you know youll be scared and worried like (is this a joke)BUT if u feel like the time is ready then its ready.1 time i was saying the same thing as you like oh no what do i do? but that person liked me and i realy liked him and well then it just happend we were on the beach wathching the sun go down holding hands and it happend!!!!!!

the best day of my life EVER!!!!!!