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Should I move on ?!
Hey !! Im 15 and have had a crush on this one guy for over 4 years now (on and off) Ive had boyfriends during this time period but for some reason I keep going back to liking him. We've never been extremely close but we are friends. He's extremely cute, and has a good personality. We see each other out of school sometimes, but for some reason he will never talk to me online, wby is that? He was at my friends Swt 16 and we danced and I actually thought he'd ask me out but soon I found out he wouldn't date me because im quote "beautiful and too perfect" and he wouldnt want to just use me for sex because im more then that and im one of his friends. Im flattered but in the pit of my stomach I cant stop thinking about him, should I go on liking him or just move on and maybe one day he'll realize what he has lost? Please help me, thanks so much ! xO
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He will defeninly realize what he lost... I say move on.. why becuase your not getting anywhere... I had a huge crush on this one guy for like forever and i danced with him like at 3 different dances and i mean i thought he was gonna ask me out cause he even asked at one of them and i waited so long but but he never did we didnt get anywhere and im finialy over him, now im kinda mad that i wasted so much time on him... I dont wnat that to happen to u... but you know what he said u were too beautiful and perfect you should talk to him and tell him that no ones to perfect, maybe write him a note, tell him u know he thinks your too perfect but tell him your not and maybe hell come around well hope i helped !LiveSTRONG!
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Sounds as if hes looking for girls for one thing at the moment. The fact that he doesn't want to use you is good though.
Maybe you should just ask him out. If he thinks you are perfect he may be a little intimidated to ask you out. I think you should talk to him and ask him out. :)
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Ok, Wow i was in the same promblem i liked this guy for 3 yrs. stright, and he didnt wanna go out wit me for some stupid guy resons, but anyway I think you should just tell him how you feel and say that he wont just use your for sex!
hope i helped!
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I think maybe the reason he won't talk to you online is because he's talking to his other friends. I have a guy friend that does the EXACT same thing. I think that you should keep liking him, tell him exactly how you feel, and tell him that you're NOT perfect. Just let him know, and see how it turns out!
Tasha
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i think you should make the first move then see what happends and if he dosnt like you then find an other guy because if he dosnt like you then hes not worth yoir time!
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You should be open and honest about your feelings to him. If he tells you he doesn't feel or see things in the same way then my advice is to move on.
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You should tell him that you have liked him for awhile now and see if he feels the same way about you and if he doesnt then you should try and meet other guys and try to move on from him.
*KELL REKO*
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oh so hard this has happened to me i told this to other girl too. this is what i told my guy freind when his friend didn't want to be with me till we are older like 16 or somthing. qoute 'nobody will controll me cause they don't like me. there are other guys out there and one of them is bound to like me but he will always have a place in my heart who knows one day he migth like me again when that place is still there or i have sombody better and he is too late so like i have been saying and i always will no man will control me jst beacuse he doesn't like me and one day in time a man will come when we meet we will like each other and soon maybe love will come but he was to late. so i hoped i helped sorry if i didn't but what i have been saying is that you might get over him you might not but don't wait for him forever time waits for no one so get up meet sombody but keep a stop in your heart just for him just don't keep it there to long keep t for awhile or how ever you think you should just not to long hoped i helped but if he didn't come back to you you eill always remember everything you guys did when you were friends hoped i helped
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move on and live your life, you can't just hault your love life for a chance because think about if you lose that gamble and he moves on... don't waste time, go live life! and remember, live your life, have fun, and another's regrets shopuld not bother you. good luck*
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I'm going through that right now and I'm slowing moving on. Moving on is the best thing to do and its okay to still care about him because you guys are friends. Maybe as time goes by you two can get to know each other more and that will help move your friendship to a relationship. He's making a good choice of not using you and he doesnt want to mess anything up. Deep down I bet he does like you, but he just doesnt want to regret anything and doesnt want to make you regret anything. Its the summer so you should try to get out more and meet more people. It can be a way to put him aside and a way to have more friends to get to know. I'm trying to get closer to the guy I like, but if things dont change than its okay and its just not meant to be. Hopefully this helps
-Manda
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i know how you feel, i help many people in these types of situations. Ok well i think in your situation that you should try talking to him and let him know about these on and off feelings, I mean i have the same thing happening with one of my really good friends. Let him know that you like him and you dont want to stop liking him because hes a cool kid. I think that hoesntly even if you do try getting over him, that your feelings would come back unless if you guys dated and you seen if he is an total jackass or if hes sweet! You know? I mean that is the best way finding your "perfect one" and i think thats what you need to do, because other wise your feelings are going to keep coming back and more powerful. I hope i helped and if you ever need any more advice im here for you just drop one in my inbox ok? Good luck
XoXo
Kristi
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