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help!
My boyfriend is like a "nerd". It's hard to to explain why, but believe me, he is.
When I first started going out with him, I knew that he'd be very prude because he went out with my best friend a year ago, and they went out for 7 months, and he never even attempted to kiss her.
One year later, I went out with him, [ still am ]. He tried kissing me on the first day, and tried making out with me on the second.
First of all, why do you think hes like this?
Today is our second month aniversery [ haha . ]
At the pool today, he grabbed me and started rubbing me aginst him, and he was REALLY HARD. & He grabbed my butt. He was bascily like grinding me. I loved it, but I mean, do you think this is too fast? I don't want to show that im easy, cause i'm not. Im 13, and this is my first boyfriend.
He asked me if I liked it, and I just said yes. Could I have said something differnt? Whenever he does something "new" he always asks that, and I just say "yes". What else could I say.
Thank you so much for all your help.
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I LIKED IT AND I WANT TO SAY YES.
What other things could I say, in place of the word yees?
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ii SAY ERRB0DY WUZ PRBLY MAKIN RUN 0F HiiZ PRUDE ASS AT SK00 S0 HEZ TRYNA SH0W HEZ N0T N0W BY USiiN Y0U!! DUMP HiiZ @$$ GURL N0 13-YEAR-0LDZ NEEDA BE HAViiN SEX!!! UHHH PL3ASE G3T REAL WiiTH YA SELF!!!
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why is he like that? he grew up. a year during those years is like 5 years of growth all in one if that makes sense. he's maturing... getting new feelings so a year ago with your friend, he mighta been shy and maybe not into girls as much but now he wants to explore.
to prevent future "omg i can't say no" moments, tell him how far you want to go. tell him "i only want to make out for now... i'll let you know if that changes later on" and he should respect that and you won't be shocked with any "new" things. if you need anything else, let me know. <3
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You are 13 which is about the perfect age to like experiment.
Don't have sex though or dress like a slut.
my friends and i think its so gross when we see little girls like all up on their boyfriends...
especially since i have a little sister and i get mad.
just make out with him and explore each other and stuff.
trust me,
if he's 13, he doesn't know what he's doing and he'll be glad you're touching him at all.
I knew nothing about girls when i was 13.
i thought making out was talking until i was 14.
ha ha.
just don't let any jerk make you do anything you don't want to.
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Maybe his relationship with your bestfriend was his first, so he was nervous to do anything with your bestfriend because he'd be new at it. And now that he's "experienced" or whatever, he didn't have a problem with you. Or it could be the fact that he's more comfortable with you.
As for the grabbing, his "being happy", grinding, rubby dub dub, I don't know. It doesn't seem like anything too big, people grind in dances too. You just happen to be at the pool. But it's only your 2nd month, I suggest making him wait for anything else that's new. And I'm not saying this is going to happen to you, but some guys like to do everything with a girl, then leave them. It's happened to girls I know, so yeah. >_< So I suggest making him wait for anything more, heh.
And for him questioning you, well, you can't lie and say it doesn't feel great! If it does, it does. If it doesn't, sorry to break his heart, but you better tell the fool it doesn't or he'll keep doing it.
=))
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If you feel like your going to fast then tell him
but if you want to keep the pase up then go for it, and if you realy like him then you wouldnt care what other people think about the speed of growth in the relationship
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Obviously this boy really likes you, because he didn't make any moves on your friend and thats why he did what he did. And as for you guys moving too fast, do whatever you wanna do. If something he does doesn't feel right, let him know. If he respects you, then he wouldn't want to make you uncomfortable. Instead of telling him yes, say you think you guys are going too fast or if you think you guys are too young. Communicate. Take things one step at a time.
Good Luck =]
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That does seem a bit too fast for someone who is your age. Maybe let him know that you're not ready, and that you either need to know him longer, or need to be a bit older for stuff like that. 13 year olds really shouldn't be getting into stuff like that, but it happens and you're going to do what you'd like.
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