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I made the cheerleading squad this year and i love it.. but our coach said any girls that argued or talked about each other behind their baQs or caused drama were going to be kicked off the squad.. and there is a girl on the squad that is so mean to me.. she makes fun of me but says she is just pickin but it bothers me and she says rude stuff that makes me mad.. but i havent said anything to her about it because i'm afraid it will make her mad and start a fight but i'm rele tired of being treated like that... wut should i do?!?
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Maybe you could go to the coach, then he or she (i dont know which) could talk to her or maybe kick her off the squad. I dont know, just dont talk back because that could get you kicked off the squad, so act calm and try not to lose your cool.
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I would just talk to the coach and let him kno that your not tryin to start drama and then tell ur coach about the grl. Let the coach kno that you really like the sqad and want to stay on it but this grl is really making it not fun !!
Hope that i helped !!
kaitlyn jO<3
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write an anonomus note to ur coach.
hope i helped
esoccer1717
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At a teenage level i knwo it is hard to confront a person without sounding like a wimp or a baby. So if you don't feel comfortable confronting her, you will either have to A: Ignore her and move on or B: Explain politley to the coach that you don't like the behavior of your fellow squad member and would appreciate if it could be solved in a uncontroversial manner.
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I had this same promblem!!!!!! My coach said the same thing! what i did was i told my mom and i asked my mom to talk to the coach.....and it worked....
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tell the COACH dont YOU WANT SWEET REVEGE she DISERVISE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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ok i am a cheerleader too and basically our coach is like that too. i would tell your coach about it and just say i want her on the team just want her to be nice or you can tell the coach and have her kicked off the team. because i wouldnt want any of my cheerleaders saying stuff about me. it is just your way of looking at it! well i hope i helped
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well, ok i think this girl is jelous maybe but if she says all this mean stuff to you maybe she should be kicked off and if you tell the coach that she is treating you this way , she needs to be kicked off if you ignore adventually she will leave you alone, and if i was you i will go up to her and tell her to leave you alone sand try to make friends with her and if she does not want to o well thats not your fault ,,,,,.......!!!!!!!
there's more fish in the sea (that means more friends than one she's proubly one of those cheerleaders that does not have very many friends
so thats her way getting attention by picking one someone
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I think you should confront your coach about it, or leave an annonomoys(sp?) note on your coaches desk or wherever explaning the situation. If you are afraid of what the coach will say, I would try telling one of your parents about it so they can talk to the coach. Other than that I would say the only thing left to do would be to ask the girl to stop, and explain that it makes you mad even if she is just kidding. Thats all I can think of.
I hope this helps. =]
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from the sound of it, the coach never said to tell him wat is happening.
ok. you can call him or just meet him during cheerleading practice and tell him these words....
you kno he said about no backtalks or argues is allowed and you have to talk to him about this one person thats treating you badly...Tell him everything you want him to kno and see what he does from there because its not good telling him at all and u get treated like that from someone on tha squad.
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Tell your parents about this that your getting treated like this and tell them to do sumthing about it like talk to your coach and that you couldnt tell him about it because you cant cause drama or anything like that
hope this helps
Seth:)
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tell the coach, the girl will get kicked off the team (if the coach goes by her own rules) and if she starts a fight with you, then ignore her, and tell your coach.
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You should try confronting this girl about her behavior towards you before you go to the coach. If she doesn't knock off crap, you should tell your coach about what's been going on. Your coach made the no-drama rule for a reason, and your situation sounds like the perfect example of why the rule was created. If the girl who's bothering you doesn't feel the need to abide by the rules, she shouldn't be on the squad.
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Well I would tell your coach, because then she could have an talk with the girl that's mean to you ; and I'm sure if you ask to be anonymus, you're coach won't tell her who said it. And then you said that the coach kicks girls off for doing that stuff, so if she gets kicked off the squad, you wouldn't have to deal with her anymore. But if you don't want to kick her off the squad, then I would just pull her over, and be like," Look, just stop being mean to me. I did't do anything to you, and if you want to keep doing it, I just might have to talk to the Coach." Cause then she'll realize her spot on the squad's on the line. Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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The best thing you could do is talk to the coach. The reason he sets those rules is so the team is close, but oviously this girl is just pushing you away. As long as he knows your feelings he'll probably try to correct the problem asap.
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There are couple things you can do to help this situation.
(1) Try talking to her. –Ask her why she is doing this, see if there was something that you did to upset her, (keep in mind that could have been a while back). You would be amazed on how much that could help.
(2) Second, if talking doesn’t work, try talk to your coach. Tell him that you’ve tried to make right between two of you, but it hasn’t worked. That will make it seemed you’re not trying to start something but looking out for the team.
I hope these subjections help you in your dilemma. I wish everything turns out fine.
~Teen Guru~
PS Let me know if I helped anyway.
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Hey i made cheerleading this year too!!hehe
Well i think you should just ignore this girl and dont bring anything up. If so try to keep your group people right near the Coach because she will evantually get caught. But DEFINETLY dont say anything cuz itll be your luck that you get caught saying something to her, and that wouldnt be good. Trust me, itll come back and bite her in the butt. ;-D Just give it time. I hope i helped!! Sammerz
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