ok so normally im good at knowing weather a guy likes someone or not but i have this friend. we're good friends, not best friends but i've been able to cry on his shoulder a few times. ok so all year he's been in a relationship so i never really looked at him as more than a friend because im not the type to steal a boyfriend. ok so me and a few of my friends were at his house the other night and we were in his hot tub and he put his shoulder around me. and at first its like oh ok w/e because he's just a friend but then he started pulling me closer and telling the other guys in the hot tub "now this is how you be romantic" and when he'd leave he'd say "dont miss me too much" and flirt with me and stuff but then he says that he's finally free from a relationship and loves being single so i dont know if he likes me or not, i like him a little but if he liked me then i would like to start a relationship. oh by the way he liked me back in 7th grade when we were 12. im 15 now and he's 16. oh by the way he's got a smokin body. lol so i dont know what to do
TillToniteDoUsPart answered Tuesday June 26 2007, 8:52 pm: New answer:
Hahhaa
Okay, well I mean, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship after a long one. [if it was long] Give him a little time, go out with him. If he's a good guy, then you should so totally go out with him. :]
Simple:
If you want to just hook up with him, then go ahead.
Note that there are TONS of strings attached..
He might just like you for the way you look... Or something, maybe it has to do with you having a vagina.
But... I mean, he might just hook up with other girls too, you two aren't dating so it IS okay, after all. You might get hurt...
He's your friend, if you two get into a relationship or a friends with benefits... your friendship will never be the same. I know people say that all the time, but it is true. Last time, I liked two of my best guy friends, and everything just got weird between us. One of them is still a close friend, but the other is just like a whatever friend..
Hmmm.
I don't think you should. Honestly. You're cool. Kbye. [ TillToniteDoUsPart's advice column | Ask TillToniteDoUsPart A Question ]
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