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friends in a fight
i really need advice. my friend is being a dick to me. she has call me a lesbian and i am not and we are always in a fight on aim. she has told every one that i am a lesbian my real friends believe me but really i am not. i really wish i had some good comebacks at her. i really do hate her. please give some advise and combacks please.
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if she is whore or something tell her she should get off the dick guy or girl doens't matter . or she needs to get some and relax back the f off of you. maby she only pics on you cus she has a huge lesbian crush on you. just take anger adn put in words about things like that take something about your friend and throw it back at her. or be like i dont' care what you say im a betterperson than you so im not gona mess with you. and stuch
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My friend and I were talking about good come backs because my friend was in a fight with another one of her friends. And we were joking how there could be a goodcomebacks.com. My friend actually tried that and there is a website called goodcomebacks.com with pretty good combacks on it. Just be careful because you don't want to stoop down to her level and say all the things she said to you back. She is just being a bitch and I don't know anyone who wants to be a bitch.
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fighting fire with fire will get you burned. Just stop talking to her, ignore her. It may seem hard but it works. Trust me, i have a lot of experience with this.
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ok 1st stop calling her your friend...she obviously isnt. also, do you really want to be like her? comebacks? all they do is get you into trouble. you dont want that.
but if you want comebacks jsut whenever you see her jsut tell her "geee, thanks for the lesbian stuff, that was really nice of you" and then jsut laugh it off and make her look immature and stupid. dont say stuff to her that would make her want to have an arguement with you, its not worth it. jsut say smart things so like she would feel dumb.
really, dont sink to her level, youre gonna look as bad as she does. trust me its not worth it, your obviously better then her, so show it! :)
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Your friend sounds like ...well not so much of a friend.Friends dont spread rumors about eachother that arent true.(especially since it can effect you love life and such)A good friendship should consist of loyalty and trust,which it seems this person is lacking.My advice is that you confront her about your friendship.Tell her shes being immature and only someone with wayy too much time on their hands will spread a rumor like that.She needs to understand that her attitude towards people will eventually lead to her being friendless.Tell her that you need trust in a friend and if you cant trust her,you cant be true friends.
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You asked for advice and comebacks. I'll just stick with the advice bit, ok?
Always remember, you are not above others, but you can strive to be above their actions.
What good does it do you to sink to her low levels? None.
It will do nothing but make you feel worse, and feed fuel to the fire because she will then know she can wedge her way under your skin whenever she so chooses.
Why give her the satisfaction?
She isn't worth wasting your time to try to have a friendship, so why bother even wasting your breath on her? Quit talking to her. Forget about her, and let her go piss in someone else's Post Toasties.
You say you have real friends, and they are who you should be talking to. Poop on her.
ygs-29/f
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well you say shes your friend thats not a very good friend and as far as come backs go be a better person and ignore you know your not and thats all that matters so just ignore it and she will get tired of saying that stuff if it doesnt bother you
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I'm going to ask you a question?
If you hate this girl, is she honestly worth your time, energy & anger? No. She isn't. So why bother with her?
Fuck what she thinks about you. She says you're a lesbian, you know you're not. So if you know you're not, why does it matter? Yes, it gives her no right to say it or spread it around, but she's wrong so who cares?
Honestly, don't bother with her. Just ignore her comments. She sounds arrogant & childish. Why would you wanna go down to her level?
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tell her that she must be the lesbien if she keeps ubsessing over you like this
and then kick her ass or somthing
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