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(Need to know facts: I met his guy about two weeks ago, he is two years older than I am and I just moved into town.)
Alright so I just moved into my university dorm room and at one of the "meet and greet" parties I met this guy. He seemed like any other second year, trying to show off to all the freshmen.
Last weekend was my birthday so we went to a club and partied it up. By 'we' I mean my roomates, and such, including him. At the club my roomies and I were just celebrating my legal-ness and he comes over with the rest of the gang and says something like "group hug for the birthday girl!". Whatever, anyone could have said it right, but everyone else let go; he held on to my waist and started dancing with me. We walked home that night and we had a nice chat.
A couple of days later we were texting back and forth quite a bit. I was still in denial. We set up a 'date' to go to the gym. He was supposed to come over after class so we could walk over together. Two hours after we were supposed to meet, he texts me saying he went shopping and told me to call him when I wanted to go. I'm sorry but what the hell!? There wasn't enough time before I had my night class so he suggested he drop by after that class and we go until close. I reluctantly agreed and went to class. He somehow convinced mt to get out of clas early to meet him. Three hours waiting on a park bench in the cold kinda sucks. I decided I had had enough and went home. I got a call an hour later asking me to buzz him in the building where I live. I was really mad at this point but I wasn't going to stoop to his level and cancel last minute. After all, he DID come across town just for me. We ended up only having about 20 minutes at the gym so we had to walk home because they only give you a bus stamp if you stay for an hour. We had another nice chat, where at one point he offered his sweater because I was clearly cold in my tee.
When we got back to my appartment, all my roomates had gone nextdoor, leaving us the appartment to ourselves. (my roomates are sneaky like that) At this point I realised I DID like him so I just sat back and ignored the fact that I had waited for him a total of 9 hours that day. He stayed at my place until almost 2 in the morning, we had one of those 'omg' talks where you just want to keep talking because you're in the 'zone'. I really enjoyed it.
The next day, I was still a little frustrated by the fact that I had waited so long and he didn't even appologize. So I told him (through facebook mind you). He did however reply later on that day with a sincere sounding appology. We are supposed to get-together Friday night to watch a movie at my place.
Now, there are two questions I would liked answered.
One being, is there potential to him liking me because I want to tell him if there is any. I know that there is no way that anyone who doesn't know us both can tell me for sure when I can't even tell myself..lol but I'm just looking for an outsider's view.
Two being, do I pick a regular movie or do I chance it and pick a comedy/romance?
(If you require further details, I will be more than happy to add them in the extra section) (link)
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Honestly i don't know, i'd play it off a little more and see what goes
and i think a funny movie will be good
good luck girl, hope you get him
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Ok, um i'm 13 year's old and i really like this guy but the problem is he lives mega far away and he's older than be by a couple year's. He say'd he like's me alot. And that since i love him and he loves me we should be together, idk what too do. so is this ment too be or not?
Thanks in advance (link)
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Well first of all, did you meet over myspace? 2nd have you met him in person? 3rd he might be a pervert i'd be careful, i think your to young to know what love is, guys will tell you what you want to hear to get in your pants
i'm not being mean, just trying to help
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Hi, ive been going out with this girl for about a month now and i like her sooooo much, im 17 and according to her she was turnin 16 next month, but last night she phoned me in tears and confessed that she had been lying and is really 14 and about to turn 15.
What should I do? im not a pedofile, ill be 18 and she'll still be 15! Surely that's wrong isn't it? Help me please (link)
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3 years aint crap
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ok so im torn between 5 guys. guy # 1: we went out once for 2 months. he broke up with me for another girl. it didnt work out, and now hes calling me again and is flirting like there is no tomorrow. guy #2: we have been friends for a while. hes #1's best friend and my ex best friend's ex bf. hes real nice and he is always there for me...but he has a lot of addict issues (drugs, alcohol, etc.) #1 only drinks, but i do 2. he doesnt do drugs. but i dont wanna screw up #2's friendship with me. becuz if things didnt work out, then that'll mess up our friendship and neither of us want that. guy #3: drinks and is in a band, and im totally into rockers. # 2 is a rocker as well, #3 is a grade younger than me but is starting to become a real close friend. guy #4: we have only spoken 2 times but i have had a huge crush on him 4 like 3 and a half years. he plays drums at my church and hes very talented and nice. (and hes cute, so theres a plus for me!!) guy #5: we went out once for 2 or 3 weeks. i broke it off because he is also younger than me and he was waaay immature. and hes got a real temper. and im afraid hes gonna end up in jail one day for murder. gimme ur opinions. WHICH GUY SHOULD I CHOOSE?!?! i no it seems pretty pathetic that im asking this, but i cant rely on my own thinking anymore. its gotten me in trouble way too many times. so yeah...plz tell me wut you guys think/ (link)
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how about find a 6th guy
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k. 15/f i have heard that some of my friends have their dogs like their va jay jays. how bad is this for u? i mean. isnt a dogs mouth cleaner than a humans? so isnt it cleaner if a dog eats u out and not a guy? (link)
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thats so sick
eww gross
eww sick
eww nasty
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As cliche as this sounds, I like this guy a lot. I have told him one before but I think he's pretending I didn't tell him. The thing is, this isn't some dumb crush on some guy, I've liked this guy for a very very long time, but I am not sure if he likes me back. there are times when he'll be so into me and what i have to say and just take such interest in me, but then there are times when he could care less. I really don't know what to do. I can go like 2 weeks without talking to him, and I'll start to get over him, and then I'll start talking to him again and all my feelings will just re appear. I want to be more than just friends with him but I don't know how. someone please give me some sort of logical advice? (link)
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if you can get over him
then thats the best thing
dont start talking to him make yourself strong
but then again maybe you should be straight up
and ask him how he feels about you
and nothing more than a friend
than try your best to get over him
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I don't think I get to see my boyfriend as much as I would like to. I know he has things to do and that he's busy and I try my best to understand that, but it still hurts. I care about him a lot.
The days I do see him, When it comes time for him to leave, I get sad, Like REALLY REALLY sad. Sometimes I cry, or I get that pain in my chest like when you get a broken heart, and sometimes I get mad at him and don't hug or kiss him good bye because i'm angry... and when he's gone, I regret it soooo much, because we left eachother on bad terms.
What the hell is wrong with me?!?!?!
And how can I stop doing this????
It's not even like I never see him, I get too see him at least once a week.
It's actually starting to hurt our relationship and I really don't want to lose him. (link)
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okay dont get mad at him cause he has a life
i mean im not trying to be mean
but my cousin is the same exact way
and its just annoying after a while
be lucky you do spend time with him
and appreciate what you have
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Okay well i have this ex boyfriend and we dated over the summer but i broke up with him because i cheated and believed that he needed a better girlfriend. we use to tell eachother "i love you" and everything and it hurt alot to break up. we kept in contact over the next six months and i never lost my feelings for him. then on a conversation over the phone he slipped up and said babe. it was silent and then he started spilling out how he still cares about me. It was really emotional and we said our "i love yous" again. we're not in a relationship because of distance and i'm grounded. but at school there's other guys and when i talk to him i want to be with him but i know the timings not right. i want to date other people but does that mean i'm not in love with him? but then what are the feelings i have for him if not love?
plz help and thank you! =] (link)
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yeah you dont love him
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my freshman year i cam across this boy named tommy and i liked ever since junior year we started talking and in the summer he asked me to be his girlfriend so we went out i liked him alot he was my real first boyfriend and i was crazy fro him see i like my rocker guys with long hair and piercings ans he has that :) we even went to family values together and had a good time....school started and it was fine we didnt see each other at all only in themorning when i would get off the buss but only for 5 minutes and then i would just talk to him on the phone or myspace...so on the third day of school he broke up with me on myspace and i was devistated!!!! i couldnt belive it i mean the day before it was all fine!!! so then we broke up and i was sad i dated guys after him but for a very short time i cant get my mind off of him.....so im dating my current boyfriend nick and i liked him but now im loosing my feelings for him but he knows my tommy they live next to each other...and when ever me and nick are together and i see tommy i get pissed and puch nick away i still love tommy and by the way tommy has a girlfriend and apparently he is in love with her one time on myspace he wrote a song and he sent it to me to see if it sounded good and if not if i could fix it up and i did and it hurt he doesnt know i am still in love with him so when ever i see him i get this stmach ache and i just wsh i was with him......what should i do? i want him really bad!!! i need to get him back......
AND I NEED TO MENTION THAT WE DO TALK AS FRIENDS AND WHEN WE SEE EACH OTHER WE SMILE AND HE WAVES....AND HES HAS A GIRLFRIEND AND I TALK TO HIS FRIENDS. (link)
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i agree with that girl it wont
ive liked the same guy 2 and a half years and hes led me on blah blah and blah
the point is keep dating other guys
you will find someone else that you will really like
and if you and that dude are meant to be it will happen have faith and good luck!!!
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14/f. i have only had one boyfriend in my life, and we didn't even kiss. idk if i am just paraniod or what, but i'm way confused! i really want to have my first kiss, but idk if i want it to be with a guy, or a girl. i am this preppy girl who has tons of friends, girls and guys, and so i just cant be lesbian! my brother is gay, so it runs in the family. I no it sounds weird but i like looking at girls, like there butts and boobs and stuff. I also like to look at guys though to. Im really curious about peoples bodies and stuff. i really dont no what to do because i just don't think i can handle being a lesbian. please just anything will help, im desperate. if a real lesbian could tell me how they found out they were or any personal stories, that would be great. please help me. thank you. (link)
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are you dumb???/
you aint no lesbian ok
look being a lesbo or bi is common these days
you only think you are how about get a boy and kiss him
and you will be like why did i think i was a lesbian
CAUSE YOUR NOT A LESBO!!!!
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Ok i have been going out with this girl since Nov. and we have been fine well today she left her books in my car and one of her notebooks was open to a note she wrote another guy aaron it said i may be going out with travis(me) but i still flirt and stuff with you and the only reason i broke up with you was cause her friend told her to...so i texted her about it (she is not allowed on phone)and she was all cool bout it then she turned it on me asking me why i read it in the first place now she wont text me...first off was i wrong for reading it i mean the reason i did cause i saw my name...what do i say to her...then finally what i do about this other guy? (link)
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dude seriously you didnt do anything wrong
if she has feelings for her ex then she shouldnt be in a relationship
and what kinda person lets there friend control there relationships
its kinda like
"hey break up with him" "okay!!!"
i mean come on i think you need to find a more mature girl just my advice
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MK so theres a senior and hes the most perfect guy for me. and im a freshman. how do i get a guys attention and get him to talk to me. i see him everywhere though out the school and his locker is down the hall from mine. i'm like in love with him cause every time i see him i just feel so ughh idk how to explain but you know. i've been to his house before with a bunch of girls waiting for his bro whos myage to come home a year ago but i doubt he remembers me (link)
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wow this is hard my advice make friends with him just be like hey whats up? or something like that this is a hard situation but remember whats meant to be will find a way good luck!!!
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when me and my bf were going out somehow me and his best friends ended up holding hands and talking about liking each other and he found out about us liking each other and not the other part until about a week later and now hes like really mad and stuff and i dont want them not to be friends bc of me but i want to go out with my ex's best friend (link)
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okay lets see you cheated on your boyfriend with his bestfriend?
if i were him i would have NOTHING to do with either one of yall apologize and go find a guy that isnt his friend cause thats very hurtful
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ok i have a bf and he likes to finger me but i dont like him to when i havent shaved down there. i would like to shave down there everyday so can anyone give me any tips on how to. now i have to wait about a week and if i dont i get major razor burn...so help me please websites would help too! thanx in advance! (link)
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instead of using shave gel, use conditioner that you would use to wash your hair. i recently started using it and i havent gotten razor burn since then. hope it helps =]
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when i get horny on my period, what am i supposed to do? like, i cant get any from my boyfriend and i dont want to stick my fingers up there. what can i do? i can't buy a dildo. (link)
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hump a pillow. w/ panties on..of course
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i'm a girl and i'm straight. i very much enjoy riding my boyfriend's dick, but i like to watch lesbian porn. i watch porn, not just lesbian, often and get very turned on by it. is something wrong with me? (link)
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maybe ur bi or curious
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13/f
my bf wants to finger me, and i was wondering after we get naked(do we do that?)
wat position do i go into for him to finger me?
thx (link)
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u open ur damn legs
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i really need advice. my friend is being a dick to me. she has call me a lesbian and i am not and we are always in a fight on aim. she has told every one that i am a lesbian my real friends believe me but really i am not. i really wish i had some good comebacks at her. i really do hate her. please give some advise and combacks please. (link)
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well you say shes your friend thats not a very good friend and as far as come backs go be a better person and ignore you know your not and thats all that matters so just ignore it and she will get tired of saying that stuff if it doesnt bother you
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I need help on how to deal with being labelde as a whore because im still a virgin (link)
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you know your not a whore so dont worry about it
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there is this guy that i like and he likes {liked} me..we have known eachother for about 3 years now. we have always had a little like, thing i guess. we would hang out and just mess around, and he really did like me he wasnt using me i know that. anyways he has had this on and off thing with this other girl, who i used to hate {not for that reason} but now were great friends. anyways last year we were very close and stuff, and i saw him a few weeks ago for the first time since last year, and they are together again. he still acts like he likes me (player it seems i know haha)and i cant help but like him. i noticed ive stopped talking to him as much since they were together again, and im sure hes noticed, but i dont want to make it obvious that i still like him. how do i still talk to him and act the same as i use to and just be comfortable around him? (link)
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okay doll so what you do is leave him alone and if he really cares he will come back i know its hard but its the best thing to and dont give him what he wants if he cant commit i know this isnt what you wanna hear but its what you need to hear good luck babyguh
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