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lesbian?
14/f. i have only had one boyfriend in my life, and we didn't even kiss. idk if i am just paraniod or what, but i'm way confused! i really want to have my first kiss, but idk if i want it to be with a guy, or a girl. i am this preppy girl who has tons of friends, girls and guys, and so i just cant be lesbian! my brother is gay, so it runs in the family. I no it sounds weird but i like looking at girls, like there butts and boobs and stuff. I also like to look at guys though to. Im really curious about peoples bodies and stuff. i really dont no what to do because i just don't think i can handle being a lesbian. please just anything will help, im desperate. if a real lesbian could tell me how they found out they were or any personal stories, that would be great. please help me. thank you.
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are you dumb???/
you aint no lesbian ok
look being a lesbo or bi is common these days
you only think you are how about get a boy and kiss him
and you will be like why did i think i was a lesbian
CAUSE YOUR NOT A LESBO!!!!
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At this age, you are just curious.
It could mean you are lesbian, or bi, or you could be straight.
Personally, I am straight, but I believe in gay rights and get offended when people say "thats gay" when really its just "stupid"
Don't be worried. You are worried because you feel like if you tell your friends, they will abandon you. If you want to tell them, be sure you trust them. If they are good friends they will accept you. If they dont, you can find new friends, and you can talk to people here (like me :])
But like I said, you might not be lesbian at all, you could be bi or straight.
Don't worry too much about it, just be yourself.
xxtiffany
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heey. well my friend is also a lesbian and she went through MANY periods of being confused. my best advice to you is to just experiment. get another boyfriend maybe, and kiss him! i didn't even have my first kiss until the summer after 8th grade. it might not be that you like girls but it could mean that you just scared to do stuff which is definately okay! like i said, just get another boyfriend and then if you kiss him you would probably know if you like guys or not. and theres always that possiblity to be bi as well. you could go out with guys as boyfriends, but since your also into girls you can like have hookups with them and not have them be girlfriends. anyways, to sum this all up i say that you should first try getting to know another guy and go out with him, and when your ready you could kiss him. i think that it would help a LOT if you kiss a guy and see if there IS a connection with a boy to you. i hope that everything goes well and your friends should love you no matter what your sexuality is! i hope i helped :) good luck!
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