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Hey! My name is Rachael :). I love giving advice on ANY topic and I'm always here if you need to talk. So ask away! Don't be afraid either! I'm super nice and not judgemental at all. I can talk about relationships, life, sex, depression, or if you just want to chat. Ask away :)."Life ain't always beautiful but it's a beautiful ride." - Gary Allen
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Im going there this summer for this program organized by the government called "people to people" where kids up till the end of high school can travel the world and get an extra credit for college for doing so. i got reffered this year for the first time.. so yeah. first of all im crazily excited.. i cant freaking believe my dream has come true.. i mean i kinda always thought it would happen.. like i wanted to go to japan while i was still a kid.. and i just turned 14.. its like perfect timing. i could go more into detail on that but on with my questions. like first of all are kimonos really expensive? I wanna buy 1 or 2. and does octopus and raw meat taste good? i mean i like sushi but i eat the cooked/barbecued meat kind or the ones with no meat in them. like once i had barbecued eel in sushi by accident but it was good, aha. other than that.. yea with the people to people thing you go in this big group and theres also homestays where you visit peoples houses and see how they live and stuff for a bit. we're staying there for like 2 weeks in july-ish. are there any cool festivals during july, btw? and like what should i expect about japan (course im gonna spend all ma money, haha. and is money more expensive there? or like can i get a good ipod there for cheap? well cheaper than america's prices.) and like etc.. and i cant speak japanese btw. thanks for helping! :)
omg i was going to do this too!
but i didnt have enough time :(
kimonos i bet range in price, im sure the cheapest you could get would be like $10 maybe $15? and they would go up from that
and then hmm im not really sure about everything else sorry! but yeah i hope you have fun!
well itz dis boy and i think i really luv him... i really care bout him and everything and sex has come up a couple of timez in da relationship.. but we neva did anything.. i think im ready. and i really luv him.. so should i do it???
well if you really love him and he loves you than if you feel like you want to i say go ahead. just be prepared that when he does get sex he could just say bye bye. so it kind of depends on how long you've been going out and how much you trust him. but i say if you feel it, go ahead! :)
ok well this is really embarassing .. everyone has made out already and i still havnt had my first kiss people tell me that you have to wait for the right guy then when you know your ready it will just happen
well i found a guy that i like and he likes me and we've become really close .. im afraid that he'll slip away if i dont make a move i'll bore him ... whens the perfect time to make a move? whats the worse that can happen??
i think that if he really likes you and you really like him the perfect time will just come! all you do it just lean in a lil and he should pull in the rest of the way! and dont be scared .. i was SO nervous when i first madeout which embarassily was in the summer going into 9th grade! cause i was SO scared to makeout! but i think that if you really like him the ''perfect time'' will just be there and its like you'll know when you want to kiss him! and the worst that can happen is he could break up with you cause you wont do anything .. and that is the WORST type of guy to like, so dont even worry about him then because if he pressures you just to makeout im sure he would pressure you to do more! so dont even worry! message me with anymore questions! tell me if everything works out! i hope i helped! :)
15/f
been going out with my boy for a year and a half, everythings perfect besides well him.
hes very outgoing and constantly flirts with girls without realizing it, it hurts me alot.. i've asked him to stop but it's just not like that you know? hes so use to it he doesn't even realize it.
:( i really cant stand it anymore either, but i love him alot [despite my age] is it best i just let him go?
maybe you should tell him AGAIN and if nothing is resolved from that just be like okay i still love you but i think that we need a break because i can't handle you flirting and it hurts my feelings. and like then see what he says to that and then if he really loves you and you really love him you guys will get back together and the problems will end! :)
hope i helped :)
Hello. I was just wondering if anyone on here has a good survey on their myspace that I could use. The only reason I'm asking is because I've had the same survey on my myspace for a long time now. I've been given sites to find one before, but there's tons of them. I'm not really wanting to look through tons of them. I was hoping if someone actually had one I could take a look at it either on their profile, or the site itself. I'm wanting one that's atleast somewhat different than the one I have now. The one I have now asks questions like Name, Birth Place, Current Location, Age you lost your virginity, Favorite Colors, Do You Want Children, Do You Wanna Get Married, Tattoos? Piercings? Stuff like that. If anyone knows which one I'm talking about and thinks they have a different one than I have, please let me know. I'd really appreciate it. Sorry for just another stupid myspace question.
bzoink.com has soo many good myspace surveys .. i never get sick of them! :)
and now I can't do anything else. I've tried, but I need my toothbrush. i'm a virgin.
15/f
not sure the age but you can buy a vibrator at like spencers gifts or you can also get this thing at target called like neutrogena microdermabrasion and the big thing in there (without the pad) is just like a vibrator. my friend does that and its like the same thing, probably better than a toothbrush!
Okay, Iam 15 years olds am a female when my boyfriend come to my house an we be an moment that we want to do it but i end up getting scared of its going to hurt. I know am ready but the fact is that am dont want it to hurt. Please dont say am to young right now>
don't worry! i don't think that your too young. since your boyfriend and you want to have sex, just let him know that it is your first time if he is or isnt a virgin. remind him to "go slow" first and then you can start telling him to go faster or harder when you can tolerate the pain. you can always just stop when it hurts too bad, and try another day because if your boyfriend loves you or is a good friend then he will be willing to take it slow and wait for you! just remember to wear a condom! :)
hope i helped :).
message back if you have anymore questions!
14/f. i have only had one boyfriend in my life, and we didn't even kiss. idk if i am just paraniod or what, but i'm way confused! i really want to have my first kiss, but idk if i want it to be with a guy, or a girl. i am this preppy girl who has tons of friends, girls and guys, and so i just cant be lesbian! my brother is gay, so it runs in the family. I no it sounds weird but i like looking at girls, like there butts and boobs and stuff. I also like to look at guys though to. Im really curious about peoples bodies and stuff. i really dont no what to do because i just don't think i can handle being a lesbian. please just anything will help, im desperate. if a real lesbian could tell me how they found out they were or any personal stories, that would be great. please help me. thank you.
heey. well my friend is also a lesbian and she went through MANY periods of being confused. my best advice to you is to just experiment. get another boyfriend maybe, and kiss him! i didn't even have my first kiss until the summer after 8th grade. it might not be that you like girls but it could mean that you just scared to do stuff which is definately okay! like i said, just get another boyfriend and then if you kiss him you would probably know if you like guys or not. and theres always that possiblity to be bi as well. you could go out with guys as boyfriends, but since your also into girls you can like have hookups with them and not have them be girlfriends. anyways, to sum this all up i say that you should first try getting to know another guy and go out with him, and when your ready you could kiss him. i think that it would help a LOT if you kiss a guy and see if there IS a connection with a boy to you. i hope that everything goes well and your friends should love you no matter what your sexuality is! i hope i helped :) good luck!
15/female
I have been in love with my best friend, who is also female, for almost a year now. I told her how I felt around February of last year, but she didn't and still doesn't love me back. What's worse, she has a boyfriend that she loves deeply.
It's just, I can't get over her no matter what I do! I really do think I'm in love. I'm in therapy right now, once a week, because of both these relationship issues and my depression. I have talked to her plenty about it. I have tried "putting myself out there" as much as I can, being an introvert, but even after kissing another friend I still only have feelings for this one girl. I have even tried ending the friendship to maybe get away from her for a while so the feelings would go away and I wouldn't complicate her life so much; it didn't go very well.
So my question is, what can I do besides what I have already done?
hmm. all you can do as of now is just try to find someone else. you can always keep her in the back of your mind, no doubt about that. but try to focus on more important things, or start an activity that draws your brain to something else or possibly SOMEONE else. and remember if it IS true love, then love will find its way. i'm sure that everything for you will work out in the end. and you know, i bet that your best friend and her boyfriend probably won't last because of the age now. theres a lot of life left and im sure that you will be able to find the person you deserve!
hope i helped :)
so my friends mike and drew invited me over tonight to hang out with them and this one other guy, but i'd be the only girl there. i'm afraid it'll be really awkward. like i'm friends with these guys, but idk, should i go?
15/f
well i think that if they're good guy friends .. GO AHEAD! you would have nothing to worry about. but if you don't know them THAT well then maybe you should call another friend to come with just so they don't like make moves on you or something if you don't see them like that.
hope i helped :).
How do you ask a girl to have sex with you?
yeah i agree with hollisterhottie.
if you REALLY want just the sex then give her some lines and kiss her and maybe ask her if she wants to go back to your place or if she wants to go somewhere else. wear a condom!!! :)
hope i helped :).
As part of a New Year's Eve tradition (Brazil) - jumped in the sea with white pants. Bottom cuffs of pants loaded with sand stains. I figured, no big deal, it'll come off. I've gotten grease off of white pants.
I've since
- been to the cleaners
- used regular bleach
- used a bleach pen
- used a solvent remover (MISTY)
- used oxidizing powder
I can't make a dent in this stuff! It's just sand. I mean, it doesn't even seem to lighten. Any clues?
Try SHOUT. It always works!
Hope this helps! :)
im going to get my ears pierced (3rd holes)
if i just go to claires to get them done do i need a parent to sign something?
im 17 btw.
I am pretty sure that you need to be 18 to have anything pierced or tattooed. You could check clarires.com maybe to see if they have anything about parental consent or search the laws according to your state.
Hope I helped! :)
I am on birth control (YAZ), and I have just started the white pills two days ago. Whenever I start the white pills, I get my period. During my period, I'm absolutely miserable. Extremely heavy flow, horrible cramps (I'm usually in bed during my period, they're so bad), constipation. Well, I don't have my period yet, but I know I will be getting it by tomorrow. And what's tomorrow? A very important, two-day swim meet, which takes about eight hours each day.
How can I make this more bearable? I'm already planning to take a million tampons (maybe the super ones, are they comfortable?) and Ibuprofen. Any more suggestions on what I should take? Or anything that will help me have a lighter period?
F/16
I just got off YAZ and it is probably one of the best things I did. You should probably talk to your doctor about switching to a different birth control and tell him/her your symptoms with YAZ. I think the best thing for the swim meet is to yes, bring lots of tampons. You could take some pads just incase as well like for before and after so that if you do overleak than its not on your suit (like wear sweats, a pad, a tampon, and then switch before the meet starts).
Hope I helped!
Good luck at the swim meet & with your period! :)
Well, there's this guy who I have lessons with everyday :)
He's sexy and funny.
We talk a lot.
Do you think he's a little interested if he makes a lot of physical contact..?
And always comes to talk to me?
Like today he was there with his motorbike helmet and his friend tried it on. After he(sexy guy) picked up the helmet and pushed my hair back and put it on my head and laughed( because I looked like the crazy frog from like two years ago ((brinnngit a bring bring brinnnggittt a bring bring bring)))
And then I was sitting on a bench and he went behind me and pulled my head back, so I was like looking straight up and he put his face really close to mine and said ''sexy eyes''
Do you think he's interested...or just flirting?
I think that he is definately interested. You should try to get his number if you don't already have or be like "hey do you want to do something saturday night?" something like that to show that YOU would be intersted in him. You might not want to fall TOO hard yet, because you don't exactly know him. And that "sexy eyes" thing kind of gives off a player attitude to me. So that's why you should get his number first and see if he actually IS serious about liking you or if he just wants in your pants.
Hope I helped :).
i was just wondering can you tell if a girl is a virgin or not by the way they walk?
and if yes. how do virgins and not virgins. walkk?!
Nope! The walk you walk will not show if your a virgin or not. Although, I have heard that if you have anal sex, you could walk funny for a couple days. BUT I'm not quite sure if this is true.