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How do you ask?


Question Posted Saturday January 12 2008, 3:24 pm

How do you ask a girl to have sex with you?

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Nieko6065 answered Wednesday February 6 2008, 6:02 pm:
well you cant really just plain out ask her but
me & the guy im talkin to now have already had that conversation & we was just pickin around then it lead into a real conversation & i figured out he was actually really understanding in everything i told him

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WittyUsernameHere answered Sunday January 13 2008, 3:29 am:
Wow.

The sad truth is, as has been echoed here, that you can't just ask a girl to have sex with you. Hell, I'm in a relationship, we're sexually active, and I can't just look at her and say "you wanna have sex?".

It takes a little finesse.

Step 1. Broach the subject.

This is done silently. Basically, you have to show her that you're interested in sex. You do this, as previously mentioned. Kiss her. Progress things. Wait for her to stop you. More than likely, she will.

Step 2. Talk about it.

After she tells you no, shes not having sex with you (if she doesnt, you've had sex or will soon, so this advice is void or not needed) you can ask her what she thinks about sex.

Thats basically it. From there you discuss it. What does she think about sex? What does she know about it?

While sex is usually a touchy subject, if you approach it from an honest conversational standpoint shes probably going going to be interested in talking about it.

Just let her know that you arent trying to talk her into it, you just want to know what she thinks about it, and she'll talk your ear off. Girls love a free license to tell you what they think.

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paintballmaster answered Saturday January 12 2008, 8:27 pm:
well u go to her house or she goes to urs.then hold her hand and then kiss her.then kind of laydown and then both of u guyus wil be ready

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Advicelady6798 answered Saturday January 12 2008, 7:41 pm:
Never just ask a girl because it offends them. What you could do is ask her out to the movies or somewhere you can be alone. If you make the first move the first thought that will cross her mind will be he wants to take things all the way. So by you making the first move it will set everything to what you want.

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MissKhalili answered Saturday January 12 2008, 5:55 pm:
well you dont really ask, it should just naturally happen. usually one thing leads to another and it happens.

hang out with this girl and make the first move. you'll probley start making-out and then lay her down...
the rest will play out itself

=]

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KelsieLorraine answered Saturday January 12 2008, 5:51 pm:
well um , thats not something you generally ask two things might happen if you do a)shell break up with you b)shell say yes . if you love her let her ask . and wait for her . unless you feel mature enough to ask a serious question like that

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RachaelSci answered Saturday January 12 2008, 5:44 pm:
yeah i agree with hollisterhottie.
if you REALLY want just the sex then give her some lines and kiss her and maybe ask her if she wants to go back to your place or if she wants to go somewhere else. wear a condom!!! :)
hope i helped :).

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hollisterhottie answered Saturday January 12 2008, 5:12 pm:
you dont neccesarily ask her, you just go to a private place and start to make out and stuff and let it go from there. If she doesn't want to she will stop you.

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Briea6624 answered Saturday January 12 2008, 4:48 pm:
You don't you nasty jerk

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