The sad truth is, as has been echoed here, that you can't just ask a girl to have sex with you. Hell, I'm in a relationship, we're sexually active, and I can't just look at her and say "you wanna have sex?".
It takes a little finesse.
Step 1. Broach the subject.
This is done silently. Basically, you have to show her that you're interested in sex. You do this, as previously mentioned. Kiss her. Progress things. Wait for her to stop you. More than likely, she will.
Step 2. Talk about it.
After she tells you no, shes not having sex with you (if she doesnt, you've had sex or will soon, so this advice is void or not needed) you can ask her what she thinks about sex.
Thats basically it. From there you discuss it. What does she think about sex? What does she know about it?
While sex is usually a touchy subject, if you approach it from an honest conversational standpoint shes probably going going to be interested in talking about it.
Just let her know that you arent trying to talk her into it, you just want to know what she thinks about it, and she'll talk your ear off. Girls love a free license to tell you what they think. [ WittyUsernameHere's advice column | Ask WittyUsernameHere A Question ]
Advicelady6798 answered Saturday January 12 2008, 7:41 pm: Never just ask a girl because it offends them. What you could do is ask her out to the movies or somewhere you can be alone. If you make the first move the first thought that will cross her mind will be he wants to take things all the way. So by you making the first move it will set everything to what you want. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
MissKhalili answered Saturday January 12 2008, 5:55 pm: well you dont really ask, it should just naturally happen. usually one thing leads to another and it happens.
hang out with this girl and make the first move. you'll probley start making-out and then lay her down...
the rest will play out itself
KelsieLorraine answered Saturday January 12 2008, 5:51 pm: well um , thats not something you generally ask two things might happen if you do a)shell break up with you b)shell say yes . if you love her let her ask . and wait for her . unless you feel mature enough to ask a serious question like that [ KelsieLorraine's advice column | Ask KelsieLorraine A Question ]
RachaelSci answered Saturday January 12 2008, 5:44 pm: yeah i agree with hollisterhottie.
if you REALLY want just the sex then give her some lines and kiss her and maybe ask her if she wants to go back to your place or if she wants to go somewhere else. wear a condom!!! :)
hope i helped :). [ RachaelSci's advice column | Ask RachaelSci A Question ]
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