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My face will start to blush or turn really red and sweat a little at the most random times. Its usually when I give a presentation or ask a question in class or even if any attention is called to me. It also happens just out of no where for no reason I can think of. How can I prevent this and get rid of it? Its very embaressing and have no idea to tell when it happens unless someone brings it up or if I feel it. Please I really really need help with this. I have a few presentations coming up at school next week so help me out. The crap about "believing in yourself" and confidence doesn't help at all so please dont say that. If anyone has any advice at all please tell me.
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well evidently you get nervous in front of crowds your just really shy . i think that you should stare at one of your friends or at the space above everyones head . any more questions?
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I have this friend, let's call her L and I met L just this year, [I am 15/f freshman in high school] and she comes from a different school, is really nice but driving me up an insanely high wall. In the beginning of our friendship, she was shy and I did most of the talking because I hate awkward silences and then she started talking more and we had only known eachother for a couple of days and became oddly very trusting with me, expecting the same from me, but I've been burned and backstabbed badly in past friendships and I'm not as trusting as her. But this was sooo wierd, she like just told me all of her secrets and life story in like 3 days of knowing one another. And now like, 5 months later she is driving me insane. I will be on AIM and L will IM me, but I'm not there and she will get mad at me like..."are you mad at me??" constantly IMing me and I can't take it. THEN in school she will be like, "Are you mad at me? What did I do?" and it pisses me off soo badly. And then she will text me, and if I don't text her back she thinks that I'm macd at her!! So then I just get fed up with her immaturity and the complaining about how her best friends are like avoiding her now and I CAN RELATE BECAUSE I WANT TO IGNORE HER. Like in the hallway, I pretend I dn't see her ebcause I just need SPACE.
I'm sory this is sooo long, but I don't know what to do. How do I deal with someone like this? We are in 2 of the smae classes and she like clings to me for dear life because she doesnt think she has any friends, but I do and I want to branch out with other people. She annoys me, and I want to be friends with her, but then again I don't.
So, what should I do? What would you guys do? And thanks in advance to whoever was willing to read all of that, because it really means alot to me that you did. (link)
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well seems like L does have a problem , she thinks you may be her newest best friend . there are a couple ways to do this . you can tell her to her face , ignore her , or you can talk to her at school and not hang out with her . it seems as if she is clingy and well she also seems like the crazy ex-girlfriend , like the one that gets mad and plotts revenge . i say you just ignore her and talk to other people at school or pretend like your busy otherwise if she doesnt get the hint tell her hey your cool and all but its not working out your just to immature right now .
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How do you ask a girl to have sex with you? (link)
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well um , thats not something you generally ask two things might happen if you do a)shell break up with you b)shell say yes . if you love her let her ask . and wait for her . unless you feel mature enough to ask a serious question like that
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15/f
i want to learn how to play guitar but i kinda want to teach myself. is it hard to do that?
what are some good books or websites that you know of?
also i have no idea like what different kinds of guitars there are. i like accoustic a lot so i was thinking of asking for one of those guitars for my birthday,,or should i get one that like plugs into an amp?
any advice you can give would be awesome! :D (link)
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well theres a play guitar 4 piece cd set it teaches acoustic or electric
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what's PMS and what does it stand for?? (link)
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pre menstral symtoms this happens when females are about to be on their period or on their period anyway it can make you pissy or cry alot .
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Is it possible to die in your dream? My brother told me that in his psychology class, his teacher said that it's impossible to die in your own dream, and if you do, it means you are dead. My friends are all "No way I've died in my dream before," but I don't believe them because I don't think you can be alive and dream about being dead and actually know what it feels like. Every time that I've had a dream where I was going to die, I would wake up the split second before I died. In one dream, I was in a car, and it went off a cliff, and right before I hit the bottom, I was crying and then I woke up with tears in my eyes. Also, how come I woke up with tears in my eyes from that dream? (link)
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well you can die in your sleep if you body goes into shock which isnt very likely because youll be unconcious the reason you woke up crying was because it felt real .
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17/f
is there any way to reduce the pain when a guy "pops your cherry" My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years and think it's time but im afraid of how much it might hurt.
are there any tips or tricks i should know about?
should i be on top or bottom?
yeaa im clueless lol (link)
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actully there is no way you can really reduce your pain , but if you have him finger you (that will hurt like a bitch) but it will hurt less when he goes to you know anyway i say missonary your first time it's better for you on bottom
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what's STD and how do you get it?? please don't give me a website about it, but actually tell me about it =p
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well an std is a sexual transmitted disease you can get it from oral and having sexual intercourse ask.com
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I am extremely preppy. Like sweater vests, oxfords, Top-Siders, the whole nine yards. And not just clothes. The issue is, I get very upset when I see magazine articles where it says how preppy is a new trend everywhere, and has come back, etc. Preppy has never left. It has followed me around rural New England my entire life. It's not a trend. It's a lifestyle that's been around forever. I get extremely miffed, and just want to scream and stomp and rip up the article, but that would be unladylike, of course. How can I deal with this? I have tried counting to ten and things like such, but they do not help because I still know how wrong these articles are and that I can't do anything about it. It's more than just that, I get angry over a lot of things, and it just gets all held up, since it isn't entirely proper to throw a fit. What should I do? I have OCD and split personality, but I don't have ADD or bipolar, I mean I'm not a retard. (link)
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well heres my answer i have add and i am depressed which i am taking pills for you cant hide behind a stero-type or your mental "illness" that u were diagnosed with i say that you try wearing something out of the ordinary do something wacky and entirely not you , i am saying preppy is not you in itself for you cannot just be a stero-type with ocd and split can you ? there is more to you hon you just need to be free .
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ok well my bf and i dont see each other during the week because we have school and this weekend im studying for midterms so i probably cant see him except for at church. he and i are leaders for younger kids in our church hes the 6th grade boys leader and im the 6th grade girls leader (we are both in high school) and then there is a ohh idk 30 min time frame in between 1st service (when we serve) and the service we go together after that. and then on Sunday evenings we go to our youth group together well lately i have been wanting to be with him so badly and i miss him a lot even tho i saw him last weekend. i really want to kiss him (not just a tiny peck a little more than that) but i dont know what to do cause i dont want anyone to see us plus he and i would get in a lot of trouble because we are leaders at church and role models and are supposed to set a good example. what should i do!? i want to kiss him just a little like in the stairway when no one is there or sumthing but idk!!! please help! and is it normal for me to feel like i miss him and want to be with him all the time haha i guess thats just a normal couple thing but w/e thanks! :] (link)
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Well i think you should tell him that you want to see him alone sometime and when u do kiss him
and it'll happen
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