okay im a 16/f and there's this really mean girl at my school who won't leave me alone. i had problems with her over the summer and before that. like over the summer she started saying shit to me on myspace and i said shit back to her. and over Christmas break i added her on facebook and on myspace. because well i forgot about what happened between us and i don't hold grudges against people. well on myspace she messaged me and was like don't send me a friend's request because i don't want to be your friend or whatever. and i cussed her out and got mad and then i told her i didn't care if she wanted to be my friend and she needed to leave me alone. and then i blocked her and then after that i sent her another message telling not to ever start shit with me over the internet and if she had something to say to say it to my face. well she said she will at school the nest day and i assumed that she didn't go to my school anymore because she stopped going. well the next day she was at school! and to make things worse she's in my health class 5th period!! and she saw me and when she did she turned to a bunch of other girls and was like omg nikita is in this class ugh i hate her and she and the other girls said a bunch of shit about me.. and now all she does in that class is talk about me and stare at me and give me mean looks. and then she started calling me a bitch in the hallway but i took i as a comliment and then after tht like today after school i walked passed and she was like you better watch youself bitch and i didn't say anything. well i was wondering i man i ignore but she still says mean things to me. and im not sure if i should tell the school what happened since i message her last time.. so what should i do? sorry its really long but please help me!!
Hey!
yes it is really your fault.You should of been minding your own business instead of messaging her and telling her to leave you alone.really all you can do is ignore it.&& make it look like it doesn't bother you.
Hope I Helped.
--Sarah.
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wow okay so this might be a weird question.
so okay im 14/ f and my boyfriend is 13/m
so we've almost been going out for a year, and we have barely(like 1 month ago) started saying we love eachother, because we wanted to wait for a time when we both actually truly meant it.
and noww..
i dont know. like i can never stop telling him i love him and i looked at him way more then the movie we watched together the other day and.. time seeems to stop when im with him, i know that sounds weird but its so true, when im with him that alll i can see, i want to spend every second with him and nomatter how long we do hang out its never, ever enough. i get in a bad mood when we have to say goodbye. like i get realllllly sad idkk why. its so crazy hahahaha ive never ever ever ever felt this way
its weird to say that im in love with him, because we're still so young, but wow i feel like it. Its so weird, but.. i want this to last forever. and i know he feels the same. we do everything together, and i would drop everything to be with him or be there for him. id do anything for this boy.
so my question is, if im really in love with him. I know its odd to ask this, i mean, we're young, but.. i dont know somone help me
thankss so muchh
Hey!
Yes you are kind of young.Im fifteen and I feel in love recently 8 months ago.SO really you just might be in love.It sounds like it.either that or your just really sprung.
Hope I Helped.
--Sarah.
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My bf and I have been together for about 3 months now, and I am worried that we are losing our spark. We would hang out a LOT when we were first together, and text and IM all the time. Recently we've both been busier with our lives, with school and sports and all. Sometimes I go for 3 days without talking to him, and we basically only see each other on the weekends. He doesn't text or call anymore "just because" and I miss the way it was. Is our relationship wearing out? Is there anyway I can help this?
Hey!
im not really sure if there is anything you can do.Really the only thing that I can think of is to just talk to him because maybe he feels the same way and wants the "spark" back.
Hope I Helped.
--Sarah.
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**THIS IS LONG! I APOLOGIZE!**
Eek! I don't know what to do. I met this boy, we'll call Joe, when I was in 10th grade. He was in 11th. Over the next 2 years we became best friends. I could talk to him forever, we always hung out. We were inseparable.
He graduated a year before I did, and then went off to the Navy. I didn't talk to him much the next year , with me being a senior and him busy with basic training and everything. My senior year ended and he called to tell me that he was done with basic and he was coming back home. I was so excited! So that summer, we hung out for the few months that he was home and everything was amazing. I told him that I really liked him and he didn't really say if he liked me, but it was obvious.
A few weeks later he went back to San Diego and I was sad. I really wanted to ask him out, but I was so scared. So I called him a few days later and a girl answered his phone.. IT WAS HIS WIFE. He'd been married for awhile and he never told me. She said that he didn't want to ever talk to me again. I WAS DEVASTATED!
Fast forward to the past 3 months.. he's since divorced and he hangs out with me all the time. He wants to date me, but I'm still hurt over what he did years ago. He says he's sorry. But it's weird. I could see myself dating him.. but at the same time I'm scared that if anything bad happened, we wouldn't be best friends anymore. Gah. I'm just so confused. I don't know what to do. Stay friends? Or date and see what happens?
Hey!
Okay well first off let me say I think you guys should just be friends and take it from there again.Its only been three months and I bet you on anything he is still not over that girl.I know you like him and you want to be with him.But its better if you wait because would you rather it not work up and you guys end up braking up in like a month or even shorter.Or would you rather just wait and restart and take it slow...starting from friends then who knows you might be in a relationship with him for a long time.And if you decide to wait and he doesn't want to wait then you know hes not the one.
Hope I Helped.
--Sarah.
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So I've been hanging out with this guy, and we've both said that we like each other. But he sometimes does weird things that make me think otherwise. For instance, he has said he wants a relationship, but hasnt asked me out (its been about a month since we first talked about it). When we talk in person, he doesnt often say nice things, but on the phone at night he does. He hugs me if we hang out outside of school, but never in school. Then i wore heels to school one day, and I'm about 5'8 and hes like 5'9, and he started to like not walk next to me and stuff. I thought he was kidding, but when i asked him, he basically said that he really doesnt like my height. So my question is A. guys who have issues with their own height (i personally dont care)..do they get over it? and B. is this guy even worth the trouble, since he wont accept me for who i am?
(he did apologize, i guess he cant help it) Usually im too nice & understanding/forgiving, so where do i draw the line between nice and push over?
Thanks so much guys!
Hey!
Well from my experiences I have learned everything about what guys do and why they do what they do.I'm not really sure what I can tell you about the height thing.But please im begging you girl please don't let him hurt you and tell you hes ready for a relationship but then be all rude to you at school and nice to you outside of school.Because next he will ask you out and want to keep the relationship private.SO girl please just drop him.and if you need anything else just message me or something.
Hope I Helped.
--Sarah.
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i have a friend and i met her in the begining of this school year and she was cool at first but then changed overnigt like she tried to control me and she just cant seem to tell the truth alot everything someone says they do she does or has a friend that does it.....i dont get it why does she do that her parents kicked her out and now she lives with her exes mom and she hates but shes really smart....shes a mean person and no one can say anything to her wihtout her gettin angry!!!! its crazy!!!.... ive spent a night a few times and it was cool but back at school shes a totaly different person....she has a boyfriend but has only been going out with him for 3 months and shes crazy about him but she has her days were she talks shit about him alll the time mainly and i dont get her shs confusing i need help!!! should i stick around what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hey!
lets see here.Well maybe you should really try talking to her first.Just sit her down and say hey you know I have been noticing you have been acting a little differently lately.&& every girl gets a little sprung over her boyfriend once in awhile.But just try talking to her she might be going through something.
Hope I Helped.
--Sarah.
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Well, there's this guy that I really would like to be friends with. Don't ask me why. But just friends, you know? I'm not in his class (but I see him in hallways sometimes, he doesn't really know me...) and I don't have any activities that he's in that I'm in. How can I become friends with him (without a mutual friend... I want to try it myself) and without being too flirty? I don't want to give him the wrong idea either.
Hey!
Lets see here I know exactly what you are saying.You see a guy and all you want to do is just get to know him...he looks like he has a good personality or something.Well one thing you can do is just go up to him and say hey whats up...whats your name.Its worked for me and now some of those guys are like my brothers.Just try it.
Hope I Helped.
--Sarah...
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