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How to Be Friends - No Flirt
Well, there's this guy that I really would like to be friends with. Don't ask me why. But just friends, you know? I'm not in his class (but I see him in hallways sometimes, he doesn't really know me...) and I don't have any activities that he's in that I'm in. How can I become friends with him (without a mutual friend... I want to try it myself) and without being too flirty? I don't want to give him the wrong idea either.
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Lets see here I know exactly what you are saying.You see a guy and all you want to do is just get to know him...he looks like he has a good personality or something.Well one thing you can do is just go up to him and say hey whats up...whats your name.Its worked for me and now some of those guys are like my brothers.Just try it.
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--Sarah...<3
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Be the first to say hi! Honestly, most guys don't get turned off or a bad feeling when a girl approaches them. It's a huge confidence booster. Just ask him what music he likes. Hopefully you'll find an artist or song you both like. If there is a school event coming up you can ask him if he's going, or if he went to the last one. You go to the same school, so you might be able to find out what teachers he has and if you know them talk about them too. There are plenty of things you can talk to him about randomly. The important thing is that you approach him and be friendly. You don't even have to talk a lot. Then after that, just make sure to say hi if you see him again. Introduce him to one of your friends too if you'd like. Ask him if you could sit to have lunch with him some time too. Don't worry about it too much, and if you are friendly towards him, then in time he will probably return the favor and things will fall into place. Hope that helped and good luck.
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