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wearing out
My bf and I have been together for about 3 months now, and I am worried that we are losing our spark. We would hang out a LOT when we were first together, and text and IM all the time. Recently we've both been busier with our lives, with school and sports and all. Sometimes I go for 3 days without talking to him, and we basically only see each other on the weekends. He doesn't text or call anymore "just because" and I miss the way it was. Is our relationship wearing out? Is there anyway I can help this?
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Just try to talk more tell him how you feel more then likely he feels the exact same way bring the spark back don't give up.
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Going for 3 days?
Neither one of you is trying very hard.
He doesnt call any more "just because"?
Do you?
If not, maybe you should.
If so, maybe you should talk to him about the relatoinship.
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Hey!
im not really sure if there is anything you can do.Really the only thing that I can think of is to just talk to him because maybe he feels the same way and wants the "spark" back.
Hope I Helped.
--Sarah.
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perhaps your relationship has just reached the "comfortable" stage. This is when you must work harder to keep it alive. Just tell him how you feel. If he feels the same way, try to fix it. Make sure you make time for each other. If it doesn't appear to have potential, drop it before either of you gets any more attached.
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