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heyy the name is kristin. first and foremost, i have the best friends ever. there the kind of people who can have fun in any situation, and they are the most caring people ever. &i'll defend them with my entire life, so feel free to say whatever you would like.i stare when i'm mad. i eat candy all the time. i'm always cleaning. if i say im going to do something, im gonna do it. don't lie to me, and i won't lie to you. simple as that. i love piggy back rides. the pittsburgh steelers are my favorite football team. i wish i was still in highschool. i'm a strong believer in karma. i'm a lot different than most of you would think. don't let the blonde hair, preppy clothes, and living in california fool you. i am in love with the beach, i'd live on it if i could. i act immature quite often. i never want to grow up. i really am a kid at heart. i'm afraid of quite a few things. i love street racing. deep conversations are the ones that i love most, the ones that actually have meaning to them. if i promise you something, you best believe i'll keep that promise. i'm willing to listen to you if you have a problem, or just need someone to talk to. i don't hide anything from anyone, i'm not ashamed of my life. i'll tell you my whole life story including all the mistakes i've made, all the promises i've broken, and everything in-between.i'm not really as great as i sound. infact, i'm selfish. i'm arrogant. i'm impatient. i'm insecure. i'm picky about everything. i'm stubborn. i'm loud. i'm not perfect, but i try. i don't know everything. i have strong opinons on everything. and i hate being wrong. i can never make up my mind. my role models aren't such to look up to. some of the things that come out of my mouth don't go with what i wanted to say before. i'm pretty well known for all the wrong reasons. i have a tendency to piss people off a lot, by no means of cruelty, just stupidity. and i'll probably end up leaving you a little more lost and confused than you were before you met me. i have a confidence level as high as the sky. but i am not at all conceited. i'm not stuck up, and hate people who are. i have a lot of guy friends, but i'm not a slut. i'm brutaly honest, but i'm not mean. i'm really girly, but i'm not always like that; i watch football, i play video games, and i eat like a whale.and now, here i stand with a whole new perspective on life.
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Alright this is going to be semi-long so only read if you are honestly interested. It's quite intriguing...HAA.
Alright so I am a freshman in high school. I made a best friend right away, (call her P). We are basically sisters for life. Through every hardship, it brings us even closer. She had one class last semester that had juniors in it, one in particular (call him M).
One day M and P and I went to hang out with him at his work...and had a really fun time. It was the first time I met him, and you could tell it was love at first sight...So ever since then, he got my number and we texted. Then he started calling me. We got along great! And this whole time he had a girlfriend, (call her A).
So we got so close as to him actually confessing that he loves me. It must have taken him some guts to do that! And not long after, I said I loved him too...and we both meant it. It was amazing. He always said the right things. And if he didn't he would know just how to turn it around and make me happy.
Again, he had a girlfriend. M and I "hooked up" a couple times...nothing too far at all..trust me. and yes I know that was wrong on my part but forgive me! We were in love and I guess I wanted to see him too badly to stop myself.
This was all a secret, for a couple weeks until I was just tired of it. I kept thinking with the help of my friend (call her R) to support me and realize that if he actually LOVED me he would dump his girlfriend and be with me. But the thing is he "couldn't just get rid of her". They had been going out over a year...And have had a few ALMOST break-ups. A is just too nice.
So I actually myself told him that he would dump her...but no! It wouldn't happen. Never did. It got so dramatic from there. We weren't getting along...and I even said to him if he didn't tell his girlfriend that we hooked up than I would..so I DID! It felt so much better to be the better person! But it wasn't worth it because she didn't care. She said herself "Things happen" and just went on with her life. They're STILL TOGETHER.
Everyone in our schools that knows either M or me knows what happened...it spread so fast. I mean our school can't keep a secret haha. and I don't care who knows honestly. Becuase I had to go through the pain of telling A ANNDD P. My best friend, who I LIED TO! :[
Anyway, he broke my heart more than once and I convinced myself I am over it...so many times. But randomly it strikes back at me and I don't know waht to do. I want to cry. and I kind of did earlier...but I stopped myself. I want to not care!
After everything that he "ended" supposedly, breaking my heart again...said it HAD TO even though no one wanted it to...and everyone thinks I mean KNOWS he made the wrong decisions, I finally decided to let it go and be his friend, no matter how hard that was for me.
But lately we have been drifting apart. I can't take it. I haven't talked to him in over a day, and it's already 8:15 PM and he hasn't texted me once. My thoughts wonder so much...wonder about if he cares that we don't talk. Or if he's thinking about me. Or if he's planning on talking to me later or anything..
What I'm asking for is advice for possibly getting over everything completely...or how to talk to him! I don't know anythign right now. I was put through so much and while it was tragic yet exciting...i loved it! I hated it too, but I want him back. At least as a friend.
PLEASE AND THANK YOU
sorry to say this but that guy seems like a jerk. if he really loved you like he said he did, he would of broken up with his girlfriend. but hey, its highschool and drama is what its all about right? and trust me ive been in this situation and have had friends been in a situation similar to this, it happens. but a day without talking is pretty much nothing. i have a guy who is my best friend. we havent talked in like a month because we go to different school's and stuff and he has a girlfriend so he is always busy, but he IS STILL my best friend. no matter what. and he feels the same way. just because you havent talked to him for a day doesnt mean anything. if you wanna talk to him, try texting him :) saying hey whats up..i miss you! thats what i do with my best friend joe! and he does the same back. it seems as though you will have to make the first move if you want his friendship! good luck hun.
and let me know if you need anything else
if a guy says "good night, beautiful" to you, what's something witty to say back to him if you like him? but you're not going out. like you're friends but he says that quite often to you?
well i'd say..
goodnight cutie ;]
or goodnight hottie haha
or if you dont feel comfortable saying
those type of things just say..goodnight!
or goodnight with a :] or ;]
i know i just asked this... Ok. I have liked my best friend for about 18 months. I had asked her out once and she said she wanted to stay friends. So i let it go. its been about a year since then and whenever we are together, we are either holding hands or hugging or whatever. We had gone on a school field trip and we were together the whole time and we were constantly holding hands or hugging as i mentioned and she gave me kisses on the cheek. She had even fallen asleep on me on the way back. I really don't know if we should stay best friends, or if she likes me and i should ask her out again. please help. any advice is appreciated.
If i decide to tell her i like her, how do i do it because she is always surrounded by friends and it makes it difficut and im not shy around her but when it comes to telling her i like her, i don't really want to make her feel awkward. i had read this poem and i think you guys should read it. i just feel like my self around her all the time and she makes me feel like i have never felt before.but then again, i dont want to ruin the relationship we have now. ive already asked her out once a year ago and she said she just wanted to be friends. but idk if tht means i shouldn't g for it again and how to go about it. my best guy friend says i shouldn't tell her but i want to try and do it without making the friendship awkward. here is the poem:
10th grade **********
As I sat there in English class,
I stared at the girl next to me.
She was my so called 'best friend'.
I stared at her long, silky hair,
and wished she was mine.
But she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it.
after class, she walked up to me
and asked me for the notes
she had missed the day before.
I handed them to her.
She said 'thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheek.
I want to tell her,
I want her to know that
I dont want to be just friends,
I love her
but I'm just too shy,
and I dont know why.
11th grade **********
The phone rang.
On the other end,
it was her.
She was in tears,
mumbling on and on about how
her love had broke her heart.
She asked me to come over
because she didn't want to be alone,
so I did.
As I sat next to her on the sofa,
I stared at her soft eyes,
wishing she was mine.
After 2 hours,
one Drew Barrymore movie,
and three bags of chips,
she decided to go to sleep.
She looked at me,
said 'thanks'
and gave me a kiss on the cheek.
I want to tell her,
I want her to know
that I don't want to be just friends,
I love her
but I'm just too shy,
and I dont know why.
Senior year ***********
The day before prom
she walked to my locker.
"My date is sick" she said, "he's not gonna go"
well, I didn't have a date,
and in 7th grade, we made a promise
that if neither of us had dates,
we would go together just as 'best friends'.
So we did.
Prom night, after everything was over,
I was standing at her front door step.
I stared at her as she smiled at me
and stared at me with her crystal eyes.
I want her to be mine,
but she isn't think of me like that,
and I know it.
Then she said- "I had the best time,thanks!"
and gave me a kiss on the cheek.
I want to tell her,
I want her to know that
I dont want to be just friends,
I love her but
I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.
A day passed, then a week,then a month.
Before I could blink, it was graduation day.
I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel
up on stage to get her diploma.
I wanted her to be mine-
but she didn't notice me like that,
and I knew it.
Before everyone went home,
she came to me in her smock and hat,
and cried as I hugged her.
Then she lifted her head
from my shoulder and said-
'you're my best friend,thanks'
and gave me a kiss on the cheek.
I want to tell her,
I want her to know
that I dont want to be just friends,
I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.
Now I sit in the pews of the church.
That girl is getting married now.
I watched her say 'I do'
and drive off to her new life,
married to another man.
I wanted her to be mine,
but she didn't see me like that,
and I knew it.
But before she drove away,
she came to me and said 'you came!'.
She said 'thanks'
and kissed me on the cheek.
I want to tell her,
I want her to know
that I dont want to be just friends,
I love her
but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.
Years passed,
I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my 'best friend'.
At the service, they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school
years.
This is what it read:
"I stare at him wishing he was mine; but he doesn't notice me like
that, and I know it. I want to tell him, I want him to know that I don't
want to be just friends, I love him but I'm just too shy, and I don't know
why. I wish he would tell me he loved me!"
'I wish I did too...' I thought to myself, and I cried.
Do yourself a favor, tell her/him you love them. They won't be
there forever.
this wanted to make me cry its so cute. let me tell ya, ive liked my best friend for about two years now, i can be myself around him and i feel like the luckiest girl when im with him BUT to him we are just...best friends. i havent told him i liked him and i regret not doing so. and now he has a girlfriend and what does that make me now? still just his best friend. tell her you want to be more than friends..tell her you want to give it another shot and to see what happens. you dont want to go living on "what if..." like i did. give her the poem, it will definatley touch her heart because it sure touched me :) from the signs of what she does, it seems to me that she is falling for you. take a chance, it could be one of the greatest things you have done!
if you need any more adivce, let me know!
ok
so i need some song ideas for my myspace
what are some songs that explain that you miss someone, or that you loved someone but now you are broken up.... stuff like that
i rate
thanks in advice ♥ ♥ ♥
miss me baby: chris cagle
you'll think of me: keith urban
strong: jordyn taylor
good lookin out: mila j
360: josh hoge
if you need more or dont like those
just let me know and i'll give ya
some more :]
last week,me and my boyfriend attempted to have sex,i was nervous,and he tried to get it in and it was extremely painful,so he stopped but I've been stressed out about becoming pregnant from precum,and last night after using the restroom i noticed like blood on the toilet paper,but it was like a stringyish thing,it was like mucus,i know that sounds gross,but thats the only way i know to describe it,and i woke up just now,and i got my period,it seems lighter then usual!and i have cramps,could it be lighter then usual because of stressing out?could this be implantation bleeding after a week of intercourse?how do i know thats what it is,i have an irregular period so i wouldn't know if its a missed period or whatever,my last period was either December 5th or 6th!could i tell when i would have been ovulating even if i have an irregular period?help please
im pretty sure its due to stress! periods will be weird like that when your stressing out, trust me i know all about this. try to relax even though i know it will be hard to do so. like the person below me said, if your really worried about it you can always take a pregnancy test. but i think your fine♥
I am constantly experiencing a brown period, lasts for only 2-3 days but always comes between day 12-15 of my cycle when I shouldn't be bleeding at all?
totally normal :) girls do get that all the time. if you have any more questions about anything pertaining to that leave one in the inbox!
Hi. Okay to get to the point, I like this guy and he's turning 20. The problem is.. I just turned 16 in August. I'm working part time with my brother and the guy i'm talking about is the boss's son. He's really nice, not your average 20 year old. We have every last thing in common.. is it wrong to like him.. or even expect a relationship with someoneof this age?
i dont think its wrong at all. you cant help it if you like someone, and who cares if he is 4 years older than you. just be sure to make smart decisions if you end up having a relationship with him! goodluck
wow okay so this might be a weird question.
so okay im 14/ f and my boyfriend is 13/m
so we've almost been going out for a year, and we have barely(like 1 month ago) started saying we love eachother, because we wanted to wait for a time when we both actually truly meant it.
and noww..
i dont know. like i can never stop telling him i love him and i looked at him way more then the movie we watched together the other day and.. time seeems to stop when im with him, i know that sounds weird but its so true, when im with him that alll i can see, i want to spend every second with him and nomatter how long we do hang out its never, ever enough. i get in a bad mood when we have to say goodbye. like i get realllllly sad idkk why. its so crazy hahahaha ive never ever ever ever felt this way
its weird to say that im in love with him, because we're still so young, but wow i feel like it. Its so weird, but.. i want this to last forever. and i know he feels the same. we do everything together, and i would drop everything to be with him or be there for him. id do anything for this boy.
so my question is, if im really in love with him. I know its odd to ask this, i mean, we're young, but.. i dont know somone help me
thankss so muchh
aww; it does seem like your in love with him :) you know when its love, and it seems like me from your explinations; that your truly in love. who cares if your young it doesnt matter!