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Where do I start? Though I am only 26 years old I have gone through a whole lot of bullshit in my life that I have recovered/still recovering from. I have friends that love me that have helped me through these struggles as have I with them. I'm sorta the one everyone comes to for a deserved verbal thrashing for putting themselves through unneeded misery and or drama, but also I'm the first person they come to when in need for a friends over analized yet helpfull advise for whatever issues they are having. I was married for six months at 18 & have lived alone since then, no roomies, livins etc just my dog (Border Collie) that is sad to say smarter than her owner. Other than that the world as I know it is made by the friends that I love & couldn't breath without having in my life and a sick obsession for Hard Rock that makes it worth chewing through the restraints to get up everyday and go to work where I am an Engineering Detailer for fabricating steel/rebar. I have a wonderful life planned ahead with a man that I adore and very much deserves my love, who says he never wants to see so much as a stressed look upon my face. With my own plans to leave my horrid past behind me for good, tho never forgetting the impact from it, because no matter how bad of times I've had every minute of them have still in the end made me, me and I love who I have become. I feel I've got advice to give from past my experiences, hurt, pain, love, abuse, misery also known as life or I could just be that someone to give my sometimes, overly opinionated two cents to whoever wants to hear it.
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I have pretty full, wavy-ish hair (it pretty much has a mind of its own). If I let it dry naturally, it has a natural wave/poof, but my hair isn't hard to straighten.

I was wondering what shampoo and hair products are good for my hair type (wavy, thick, slightly frizzy). Shampoo for normal hair tends to dry out my hair, while some ultra moisturizing or curl shampoos make my hair get oily.

Anyone who has similar hair- i'd like to hear from you :)

Oh, I do not dye my hair, and occasionally blow dry (not very often though). So my hair is in good shape. (link)
I actually just bought a sedu flat iron last week and I absolutely love it! It softens my hair and makes it very shinny and straight. It's on sale right now for I think $100 but thats about half the price it normally is. Depending on whether you have short hair or long hair like me you may only need the one inch iron which would be cheaper, you also need to use a heat protection anytime you use a dryer or iron if that is something that you want to try. I am telling you it works miracles!!! The website that its on sale is www.folica.com the name of the iron is sedu turbo I think, just make sure its the black one with adjustable heat settings.~Hope you'll try it~B


so, i recently lost a very good friend of mine. i'm having a rather hard time thinking of a song with quality lyrics about departing this earth, death, or anything that has to do with the loss of a friend.

in our friendship, we shared a love of music, and i need a few quotes from lyrics. any genre of music will do, i'm not picky.

thank you very much, in advance. (link)
Thank You- By HellYeah-2007 (Members from Mudvayne, nothingface & Pantera's VINNIE PAUL)

So Many Things,
I Didn't Say,
Is It Too Late Now That You've Gone Away?
So Many Words,
So Many Ways,
If You Can Hear Me Now, There's Something I Gotta Say.

Just One More Talk,
Just One More Turn,
If One's Too Much Then..

I Just Want To Say,
Thank You,
For Everything,
You Ever Done For Me,
(done For Me)
I Just Want To Say,
Thank You,
For All The Things,
For Saving Me,
(saving Me)

So Many Times,
So Many Days,
You Helped Me Through,
Walked Me Through The Rain,
So Many Tears,
Have Washed Away,
If You Can Hear My Voice,
There's Something I Have To Say..

Just One More Talk,
Just One More Turn,
If One's Too Much Then..

I Just Want To Say,
Thank You,
For Everything,
You Ever Done For Me,
(done For Me)
I Just Want To Say,
Thank You,
For All The Things,
For Saving Me,
(saving Me)

It's Been So Long,
They Say Time Will Heal Everything,
Could You Send Me A Sign,
To Fill The Soul In My Life,
Turn On A Light,
To Help Me See Through It All,
No One Left To Rescue Me,
Save Me...

Just One More Talk,
Just One More Turn,
If One's Too Much Then..

I Just Want To Say,
Thank You,
For Everything,
You Ever Done For Me,
(done For Me)
I Just Want To Say,
Thank You,
For All The Things,
For Saving Me,
(saving Me)
And now I NEED To Say..

Thank You,
Mother,
Thank You,
Father,
Thank You,
Sister,
For Saving Me..

I Just Want To Say,
Thank You,
Brother,
Thank You,
Sister,
Thank You,
TO ALL BEST FRIENDS....


(and just in case you needed another here's Ozzy's latest that really overwhelmed me with it's powerful lyrics even though it has been three years since I lost my best friend to suicide, it's still hard at times but it gets easier along the way, I looked to music as I do with almost everything else in my life....hope this helps you too....

Ozzy Osbourne-See you on the other side

Voices, a thousand, thousand voices
Whispering, the time has passed for choices
Golden days are passing over, yeah

I cant seem to see you
Although my eyes are open wide
But I know Ill see you once more
When I see you, Ill see you on the other side
Yes, Ill see you, Ill see you on the other side

Leaving, I hate to see you cry
Grieving, I hate to say goodbye
Dust and ash forever, yeah

Though I know we must be parted
As sure as stars are in the sky
Im gonna see when it comes to glory
And Ill see you, Ill see you on the other side
Yes Ill see you, Ill see you on the other side

Never thought Id feel like this
Strange to be alone, yeah
But well be together
Carved in stone, carved in stone, carved in stone

Hold me, hold me tight, Im falling
Far away. distant voices calling
Im so cold. I need you darling, yeah

I was down, but now Im flying
Straight across the great divide
I know youre crying, but Ill stop your crying

When I see you, I see you on the other side
Yes. Ill see you. see you on the othe side
Im gonna see you. see you on the other side
God knows Ill see you, see you on the other side, yeah

Ill see you. see you on the othe side
Im gonna see you. see you on the other side
God knows Ill see you, see you on the other side, yeah
I wanna see you, yeah, yeah, yeah, see you on the other side
God knows Ill see you, see you on the other side, yeah
Im gonna see you. see you on the other side


does anyone have quotes or lyrics that explain a long friendship that got ruined because they were hard headed and denied everything? (link)
A little more hardcore lyrics for you here...
Pantera-Walk

Cant you see Im easily bothered by persistence
One step from lashing out at you...
You want in to get under my skin
And call yourself a friend
Ive got more friends like you
What do I do?

IS THERE NO STANDARDS ANYMORE!!???
What it takes, who I am, where Ive been-
Belong
You cant be something youre not
Be yourself, by yourself
Stay away from me
A lesson learned in life
Known from the dawn of time

Respect! Walk!

Run your mouth when Im not around
Its easy to achieve
You cry to weak friends that sympathize
Can you hear the violins playing your song?
Those same friends tell me your every word!

IS THERE NO STANDARDS ANYMORE!!???
What it takes, who I am, where Ive been-
Belong
You cant be something youre not
Be yourself, by yourself
Stay away from me
A lesson learned in life
Known from the dawn of time

Respect! Walk! Punk!

IS THERE NO STANDARDS ANYMORE!!???

Are you talking to me?
Are you talking to me?

No way punk!


Also if that one doesn't fit you maybe this one will, in my case they both were very fitting, I hope you get something out of them, download the songs to hear them also if you want. Lyrics and Music are my sickness so I hope I'm helping you in yours~B

LIE TO ME~ 12 STONES-2007

Our Candle Burns Away
The Ashes Full Of Lies
I Gave My Soul To You
You Cut Me From Behind

Nowhere To Run And Nowhere To Hide
You're Scared Of The Truth,
I'm Tired Of The Lies
Cuz Who I Am, Is Where You Wanna Be

Don't Act Like An Angel
You Fallen Again
You're No Super Hero
I Found In The End

So Lie To Me Once Again
And Tell Me Everything Will Be Alright
Lie To Me Once Again
And Ask Yourself Before We Say Goodbye
Well Goodbye

Was It Worth It In The End...

You Said You Were There For Me
You Wouldn't Let Me Fall
All The Times I Shared With You
Were You Even There At All?

Nowhere To Run And No Where To Hide
You're Scared Of The Truth,
I'm Tired Of The Lies
Cuz Who I Am, Is Where You Wanna Be

Don't Act Like An Angel
You Fallen Again
You're No Super Hero
I Found In The End

So Lie To Me Once Again
And Tell Me Everything Will Be Alright
Lie To Me Once Again
And Ask Yourself Before We Say Goodbye
Well Goodbye

Was It Worth It In The End?

Why'd You Have To Up And Run Away?
A Million Miles Away
I Wanna Close My Eyes And Make Believe
That I Never Found You

Just When I Put My Guard Away!
It's The Same Old Story!
You Left Me Broken And Betrayed!
It's The Same Old Story!

Don't Act Like Your An Angel
You Fallen Again
You're No Super Hero
I Found In The End

So Lie To Me Once Again
And Tell Me Everything Will Be Alright
Lie To Me Once Again
And Ask Yourself Before We Say Goodbye
Well Goodbye

Was It Worth It In The End...

Lie To Me Once Again
It's The Same Old Story
Lie To Me Once Again
It's The Same Old Story

Was It Worth It In The End...





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