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ughh she won't leave me alone and its all my fault.
okay im a 16/f and there's this really mean girl at my school who won't leave me alone. i had problems with her over the summer and before that. like over the summer she started saying shit to me on myspace and i said shit back to her. and over Christmas break i added her on facebook and on myspace. because well i forgot about what happened between us and i don't hold grudges against people. well on myspace she messaged me and was like don't send me a friend's request because i don't want to be your friend or whatever. and i cussed her out and got mad and then i told her i didn't care if she wanted to be my friend and she needed to leave me alone. and then i blocked her and then after that i sent her another message telling not to ever start shit with me over the internet and if she had something to say to say it to my face. well she said she will at school the nest day and i assumed that she didn't go to my school anymore because she stopped going. well the next day she was at school! and to make things worse she's in my health class 5th period!! and she saw me and when she did she turned to a bunch of other girls and was like omg nikita is in this class ugh i hate her and she and the other girls said a bunch of shit about me.. and now all she does in that class is talk about me and stare at me and give me mean looks. and then she started calling me a bitch in the hallway but i took i as a comliment and then after tht like today after school i walked passed and she was like you better watch youself bitch and i didn't say anything. well i was wondering i man i ignore but she still says mean things to me. and im not sure if i should tell the school what happened since i message her last time.. so what should i do? sorry its really long but please help me!!
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Shes picking on you because your a target that fights back. And the more you fight back, the more of a reason she feels it gives her to continues. Just ignore her, and don't do anything about it. If she tries to talk to you, walk past her like she wasn't even there. If she messages you, you leave it alone like its nothing. One of several result may occur though.
Shell forget
Shell feel bad
Or she will resort to violence. And that is when you need to take into action. If there is something that suggests she is going to do something that will hurt you physically, tell a counselor, dean, principle, security guard, hall monitor, whatever. Make sure you hang out with friends a lot too. If you have numbers, she is more likely to avoid confronting you. But the number one thing to do is not fight back. If you have to, only imagine what you want to say, but dont say out loud. And dont confront her either. If she goes one route to class, find another. The best idea to resolve this conflict is distance and patience.
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Just ignore her she will get over it and if she doesnt just remember this she is a loser she would rather be spending all this time bringing you down then trying to better herself.
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Posts like this make me want to cry a little.
A clue. If you start ignoring her and not responding every time she says something, and stop pre-empting her when you THINK shes going to say something, and stop basically doing just as much in her direction as she does in yours...
If you're upset because you think shes being _more_ of a brat than you are, theres nothing I or anyone else can do to help you. May god have mercy on your soul.
If you're upset because you think that you havent done anything, and its all her, and you want to know how to get this completely unreasonable bitch to leave you alone (and if you cant read the sarcasm inherent in the previous sentance) then may God have mercy on your soul, twice.
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Yeah you could have avoided some things but that really isn't the point. A girl like who makes fun of others turns out to a surprise in the real world. She is the girl with the most problems both mental and physical. She is the one who has issues with her families. If you ignore her she will get irritated that you are not paying attention. Girls liek that like to torture those they know they can bother. If you pretend like you don't care then she will get mad and try to find someone knew to pick on. Another solution is to get a friend who is bigger than her. If yu have someone around that is so much bigger than her. She will fear you becasue of that person especially if you get them to defend you.
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Hey!
yes it is really your fault.You should of been minding your own business instead of messaging her and telling her to leave you alone.really all you can do is ignore it.&& make it look like it doesn't bother you.
Hope I Helped.
--Sarah.
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