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So I've been hanging out with this guy, and we've both said that we like each other. But he sometimes does weird things that make me think otherwise. For instance, he has said he wants a relationship, but hasnt asked me out (its been about a month since we first talked about it). When we talk in person, he doesnt often say nice things, but on the phone at night he does. He hugs me if we hang out outside of school, but never in school. Then i wore heels to school one day, and I'm about 5'8 and hes like 5'9, and he started to like not walk next to me and stuff. I thought he was kidding, but when i asked him, he basically said that he really doesnt like my height. So my question is A. guys who have issues with their own height (i personally dont care)..do they get over it? and B. is this guy even worth the trouble, since he wont accept me for who i am?
(he did apologize, i guess he cant help it) Usually im too nice & understanding/forgiving, so where do i draw the line between nice and push over?
Thanks so much guys!
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Hey!
Well from my experiences I have learned everything about what guys do and why they do what they do.I'm not really sure what I can tell you about the height thing.But please im begging you girl please don't let him hurt you and tell you hes ready for a relationship but then be all rude to you at school and nice to you outside of school.Because next he will ask you out and want to keep the relationship private.SO girl please just drop him.and if you need anything else just message me or something.
Hope I Helped.
--Sarah.
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There is nothing wrong with being nice and forgiving, you just also need to know when to just let go. So, forgive him and move on.
It's not cool to be a telephone girlfriend. If a month has passed and nothing else has materialized I think it's fair to assume it just isn't going to... If you feel it's worth it to you, ask him once more about his level of interest. If you are starting to feel ambivalent to him anyways, just move on.
(As for the height thing: Some people get over their teenage hang-ups and others never do. I don’t have a crystal ball. I can’t tell you what kind he is.)
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