Question Posted Thursday September 18 2008, 9:26 pm
Ok, um i'm 13 year's old and i really like this guy but the problem is he lives mega far away and he's older than be by a couple year's. He say'd he like's me alot. And that since i love him and he loves me we should be together, idk what too do. so is this ment too be or not?
Thanks in advance
lindsey91 answered Friday September 19 2008, 2:53 am: Well first of all, did you meet over myspace? 2nd have you met him in person? 3rd he might be a pervert i'd be careful, i think your to young to know what love is, guys will tell you what you want to hear to get in your pants
Trauma answered Friday September 19 2008, 2:38 am: I know from experience that long-distance relationships are really hard. You're always going to wonder if he's with someone else, & since you won't be around him, there's really no way to know for sure. Also, you'll be around guys where you live. There's going to be temptation. It's only natural.
Dontyoufakeit13 answered Thursday September 18 2008, 11:16 pm: Well Since you guys are too far away
I Think you should jus let it go
I mean its jus going to hurt you even more knowing that you cant see him whenever you want to
And when somones in a relationship they always wanna see eachtoher.
For example if you and this kid wer dating before then he moved away
Then it wud be okay if you guys are still together
but to start a relationship when you guys are far apart isnt a good thing to do
What about trust?
You need to be able to trust the person your with.
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