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Not your typical 'does he like me'
(Need to know facts: I met his guy about two weeks ago, he is two years older than I am and I just moved into town.)
Alright so I just moved into my university dorm room and at one of the "meet and greet" parties I met this guy. He seemed like any other second year, trying to show off to all the freshmen.
Last weekend was my birthday so we went to a club and partied it up. By 'we' I mean my roomates, and such, including him. At the club my roomies and I were just celebrating my legal-ness and he comes over with the rest of the gang and says something like "group hug for the birthday girl!". Whatever, anyone could have said it right, but everyone else let go; he held on to my waist and started dancing with me. We walked home that night and we had a nice chat.
A couple of days later we were texting back and forth quite a bit. I was still in denial. We set up a 'date' to go to the gym. He was supposed to come over after class so we could walk over together. Two hours after we were supposed to meet, he texts me saying he went shopping and told me to call him when I wanted to go. I'm sorry but what the hell!? There wasn't enough time before I had my night class so he suggested he drop by after that class and we go until close. I reluctantly agreed and went to class. He somehow convinced mt to get out of clas early to meet him. Three hours waiting on a park bench in the cold kinda sucks. I decided I had had enough and went home. I got a call an hour later asking me to buzz him in the building where I live. I was really mad at this point but I wasn't going to stoop to his level and cancel last minute. After all, he DID come across town just for me. We ended up only having about 20 minutes at the gym so we had to walk home because they only give you a bus stamp if you stay for an hour. We had another nice chat, where at one point he offered his sweater because I was clearly cold in my tee.
When we got back to my appartment, all my roomates had gone nextdoor, leaving us the appartment to ourselves. (my roomates are sneaky like that) At this point I realised I DID like him so I just sat back and ignored the fact that I had waited for him a total of 9 hours that day. He stayed at my place until almost 2 in the morning, we had one of those 'omg' talks where you just want to keep talking because you're in the 'zone'. I really enjoyed it.
The next day, I was still a little frustrated by the fact that I had waited so long and he didn't even appologize. So I told him (through facebook mind you). He did however reply later on that day with a sincere sounding appology. We are supposed to get-together Friday night to watch a movie at my place.
Now, there are two questions I would liked answered.
One being, is there potential to him liking me because I want to tell him if there is any. I know that there is no way that anyone who doesn't know us both can tell me for sure when I can't even tell myself..lol but I'm just looking for an outsider's view.
Two being, do I pick a regular movie or do I chance it and pick a comedy/romance?
(If you require further details, I will be more than happy to add them in the extra section)
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Honestly i don't know, i'd play it off a little more and see what goes
and i think a funny movie will be good
good luck girl, hope you get him
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Yes there is potential to him liking you but for now i would just say cool out, and go with the flow. Its still early... 2 weeks, and yu have a lot of school left. Im a freshman in college to and my opinion would be to focus on school, and just for now... make friends. He is two years older then you and that doesnt mean much, but make sure you get the "full him" first, and see where it goes!
To your other question... just go see a hot movie thats out that you both wanna see... its plenty of them out.. and it will be something you both will enjoy :)
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It sounds like he really does like you, I think you should tell him how you feel and see where it goes.
As for the movie, I think you should chance it and go for a romantic comedy. I'm all about risks, sometimes you just have to take them, I definitely think that's the case with you. Good luck! =]
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