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Hi, ive been going out with this girl for about a month now and i like her sooooo much, im 17 and according to her she was turnin 16 next month, but last night she phoned me in tears and confessed that she had been lying and is really 14 and about to turn 15.
What should I do? im not a pedofile, ill be 18 and she'll still be 15! Surely that's wrong isn't it? Help me please
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3 years aint crap
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It doesn't make you a pedophile and in most states, it's totally legal.
But when you are a teen, a few years is a huge differences, you'll finishing up college, or in the workforce, years before her. That is a very large hurdle for most couples, and a difficult thing to get past.
You are right to be hesitant. If you feel that the age (and the lying) means this wont work, listen to that feeling. If you want to take the risk, do so, with the promise from her that she won't lie anymore.
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Age is just a number. When you're 73 and she's 70, those 3 years won't make any difference. The bigger concern is the fact that she lied to you. You need to talk to her about how the lying made you feel and decide for yourself whether you will be able to trust her again.
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i dont think its wrong if you are only 3 years apart and only dating you shouldent have sex though because i think you are too old to have sex with her but not dating if you really like her then contunue my parents are 8 years apart and they started dating when my mom was 20 and my dad 28 so i dont think you should worry about it good luck i hope i helped
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