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serious help!


Question Posted Tuesday January 15 2008, 12:23 pm

i met this boy tommy my junior year and in the summer we went out ive liked him ever since my freshman year but he didnt notice me till my junior year in the summer he asked me out to be his girlfriend and i said yes of course lol...well in the summer we never hung out only at the family values tour and we had a good time...then schooll started and the 3rd day he broke up with me he said he was to busy and didnt have time for "any" kind of girlfriend ive dated guys and then he got back with his ex melonie and i was pissed at that time i was with this guy nick well months passed by and i always thought about tommy even with nick and when i would see tommy i would kinda move away from nick so tommy wouldnt think i was interested in him becuase i like tommy i also talked to tommy while i was with nick as friends and tommy also talked to my brother alot or every now and then....well when i found out that tommy and his girl broke up i broke up with nick and that day i sent tommy a message saying hey whats up? just dropping by to say hi! but he never wrote back and i even saw if he read it or not...then i havnt talked to my brother in a while and none of my family could get a hold of him so i sent tommy a text saying if he talked to my brother cause i cant find him and he goes ummm no he hasnt talked to me at all and then i wrote back well if you if you hear anything then write back and he didnt text back :( so i see him all the time after scool he walks by me....i like him so much and i miss him so now that he is single what do i do to make him talk to me or think about me what do i need to do for us to be together belive me ive tried to get over him and date other guys but its not helping at all!!!! i want him

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LYYSSAA answered Tuesday January 15 2008, 7:41 pm:
I was in your situation once, what you need to do is play it cool. You texted him, so he might get the hint that you want to be closer with him and might not be complelty over him. Now you need to play hard to get, wait a while. Maybe a month if you can do more, and in that month dont text him and try not to talk to him as much as you can. After this month or time span that you choose is up, he might have already starting trying to talking to you more, if not you need to text him and say something like, "We havnt talked in forever..." and hopefully that will work. Dont go up to him right now wait as long as you can then try again. And remember, always look cute & like your having fun in front of him. If possible be flirty with guys when he's in sight too. Good luck! xoxo

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NotJustAnotherPrettyFace answered Tuesday January 15 2008, 7:22 pm:
at the end of the day follow him and then say hi if he says hi make to you simply say i feel like we havent talked in forever. If he doesnt seem to care. The next day directly infront of him flirt with some other GOOD looking boy. Also this is probably kind of hard to do see if u can get a decoy...{boyfriend} and then always look like ur having a good time with that boy when he passes by its sure to get him to look---
much love brittany

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