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Torn
ok so im torn between 5 guys. guy # 1: we went out once for 2 months. he broke up with me for another girl. it didnt work out, and now hes calling me again and is flirting like there is no tomorrow. guy #2: we have been friends for a while. hes #1's best friend and my ex best friend's ex bf. hes real nice and he is always there for me...but he has a lot of addict issues (drugs, alcohol, etc.) #1 only drinks, but i do 2. he doesnt do drugs. but i dont wanna screw up #2's friendship with me. becuz if things didnt work out, then that'll mess up our friendship and neither of us want that. guy #3: drinks and is in a band, and im totally into rockers. # 2 is a rocker as well, #3 is a grade younger than me but is starting to become a real close friend. guy #4: we have only spoken 2 times but i have had a huge crush on him 4 like 3 and a half years. he plays drums at my church and hes very talented and nice. (and hes cute, so theres a plus for me!!) guy #5: we went out once for 2 or 3 weeks. i broke it off because he is also younger than me and he was waaay immature. and hes got a real temper. and im afraid hes gonna end up in jail one day for murder. gimme ur opinions. WHICH GUY SHOULD I CHOOSE?!?! i no it seems pretty pathetic that im asking this, but i cant rely on my own thinking anymore. its gotten me in trouble way too many times. so yeah...plz tell me wut you guys think/
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You are making this way more complicated than it needs to be. You have to decide what and who will compliment you and your life style at the moment. You have to figure out what it is that you want right now. It seems as though you have answered you own question. If you broke it off with someone there was a reason why! Reguardless of how much attention your getting from someone they may not be the best someone for you! Dealing with someone on drugs is never a good thing you're asking from drama!!
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I would say go with the one you feel most comfortable with and share a likeness with. I would make a pros/cons list and see which one is best suited for you. Remember, you don't want to end up in trouble because of some guy, so that should go on your con side, i.e.-drugs, you think could commit murder, that kind of thing.
When you have finished with the list, it should come naturally to you which one is best suited for you. I hope I've helped and good luck!!
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how about find a 6th guy
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