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Ok what is something i can get my girlfriend for valintines day besides jewery or flower?
Try making something yourself (ex. card, coupon book) it will show her that you thought of her enough to spend time making something special and unique just for her! But if she is the materialistic type you can't go wrong with jewelry w/ diamonds of course. Oh and try cooking for her instead of going out make it special! If you can't cook ask someone to help you. I helped my brother last year we even decorated the room!
k, well. theres this guy. lets call him r, hes two years older than me, but i like him. and we're alot alike. and today we hung out, and we didnt flirt but we had a good time. and he knows that i like him, and he didnt make it akward around him whenw e were together. and he wouldnt tell me who he likes, he told me he liked flirting with girls instead of just staying put. but, ive never seen him flirt with anyone. so idk what he means. i'm just confused. idk what to do or what to even say, so.. HELP?!
You should be confused because he has already told you that he's doesn't want to be with just one person. If you like being around then do that it's good to just hang out and get to know someone without there being a goal (i.e relationship) to get to. Who know maybe once he hangs out with you more he may change his mind! Be patient but at the same time don't put your life on hold for him. Try the friend first and see where that goes!
I don't think I get to see my boyfriend as much as I would like to. I know he has things to do and that he's busy and I try my best to understand that, but it still hurts. I care about him a lot.
The days I do see him, When it comes time for him to leave, I get sad, Like REALLY REALLY sad. Sometimes I cry, or I get that pain in my chest like when you get a broken heart, and sometimes I get mad at him and don't hug or kiss him good bye because i'm angry... and when he's gone, I regret it soooo much, because we left eachother on bad terms.
What the hell is wrong with me?!?!?!
And how can I stop doing this????
It's not even like I never see him, I get too see him at least once a week.
It's actually starting to hurt our relationship and I really don't want to lose him.
You have to find other things to do with friends that will help you cope with being without him. I know it doesn't seem like it but the time apart is healthy. You don't want your life to completely revolve around your relationship. You have to work on being a stronger person on your own. He will respect you more if you do this! Good Luck!
ok...so I am with this guy that I really do love but he has 2 big problems...his friends. When its just me and him together its great, but when we are around his friends they are always "cutting on me" and just being flat out jerks. My boyfriend tells them to stop but they don't listen and now him and his friends are fighting and I feel like its my fault. What should I do about all this??? Because I am trying to make it work but it just doesn't seem like they are willing to be nice to me. Plus I haven't done anything to them that would make them be mean towards me.
Sounds like his friends are just haters! Ignore them...he is! If his "friends" don't respect his relationship then the aren't his friends but that's for him to figure out. Just be a good girlfriend and support him.
So i am starting to like this guy i work with! He just started working at my store... I am not sure if he likes me or not.. but i was just wondering if it is weird or not to date someone you work with?? and if we ever dated should we keep it a secret from everyone we work with?
It's not weird to date in the work place but you have to be careful with it. Yes you should keep the relationship between you two! The last thing you want is work place drama and feel uncomfortable at work!
Well my subject pretty much gives it away... There's this guy I know, lets say his name is Jake* I met him at a New Years party and I haven't ever met some really nice guys before, but he was and he was interested in me. I wasn't thinking right that night, he started flirting and I flirted back but I was just playing around... but then again, I told you... I wasn't thinking right. It's just that I've never actually had experience with boys before. Now, he got my number somehow through a friend and calls me all the time... if I don't pick up, I feel guilty and when I do , he continues flirting. I tried to let him know indirectly that I really don't like him that way but he doesn't understand. What do I say to him? I don't want to hurt him in any kind of way...
Can you say stalker! If you don't directly give someone your number they have no business callin you in the first place. Don't feel guilty because you aren't attracted to him! The next time you speak to him be clear about how you feel! If he still continues to call you after that then you should let someone else know just in case. To me he has crazy written all over him!
ok well im gona be giving my boyfriend a blojob soon or i think im gonna and well ive heard many rumors that you can get pregnant from swallowing cum is this true?
and like is it ok to just keep doin my thing while it comes out or will it like idk and is it gross?
If you have to ask this question you don't need to be even thinking about getting on you knees to do anything nevertheless laying on you back! Please go talk to you parents!
heyy im very anxious about having sex 4 the first time!!all my friends told me it hurts like hell.is it true????? im really really scared
The amount of pain you feel depends on how comfortable and relaxed you are in the situation. It would help if your first time wasn't so random hook up just because. Also the guy you take his time and move slow. You shouldn't really be anxious about losing you virginity because it's the one thing that when you give it away you can't ever get it back. This is a decision that shouldn't be taken lightly! If you do decide to have sex providing that you old enough in the first place please make sure you use protection. No matter what he tells you. Your making a adult decision so then carry it out as an adult!
ok so im torn between 5 guys. guy # 1: we went out once for 2 months. he broke up with me for another girl. it didnt work out, and now hes calling me again and is flirting like there is no tomorrow. guy #2: we have been friends for a while. hes #1's best friend and my ex best friend's ex bf. hes real nice and he is always there for me...but he has a lot of addict issues (drugs, alcohol, etc.) #1 only drinks, but i do 2. he doesnt do drugs. but i dont wanna screw up #2's friendship with me. becuz if things didnt work out, then that'll mess up our friendship and neither of us want that. guy #3: drinks and is in a band, and im totally into rockers. # 2 is a rocker as well, #3 is a grade younger than me but is starting to become a real close friend. guy #4: we have only spoken 2 times but i have had a huge crush on him 4 like 3 and a half years. he plays drums at my church and hes very talented and nice. (and hes cute, so theres a plus for me!!) guy #5: we went out once for 2 or 3 weeks. i broke it off because he is also younger than me and he was waaay immature. and hes got a real temper. and im afraid hes gonna end up in jail one day for murder. gimme ur opinions. WHICH GUY SHOULD I CHOOSE?!?! i no it seems pretty pathetic that im asking this, but i cant rely on my own thinking anymore. its gotten me in trouble way too many times. so yeah...plz tell me wut you guys think/
You are making this way more complicated than it needs to be. You have to decide what and who will compliment you and your life style at the moment. You have to figure out what it is that you want right now. It seems as though you have answered you own question. If you broke it off with someone there was a reason why! Reguardless of how much attention your getting from someone they may not be the best someone for you! Dealing with someone on drugs is never a good thing you're asking from drama!!