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Saying something to a guy who likes you but you dont feel th
Well my subject pretty much gives it away... There's this guy I know, lets say his name is Jake* I met him at a New Years party and I haven't ever met some really nice guys before, but he was and he was interested in me. I wasn't thinking right that night, he started flirting and I flirted back but I was just playing around... but then again, I told you... I wasn't thinking right. It's just that I've never actually had experience with boys before. Now, he got my number somehow through a friend and calls me all the time... if I don't pick up, I feel guilty and when I do , he continues flirting. I tried to let him know indirectly that I really don't like him that way but he doesn't understand. What do I say to him? I don't want to hurt him in any kind of way...
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To prove that you don't like him in that way I would suggest getting a boyfriend or sya you like this guy that he doesn't know. Tell him you love that he likes and your flattered but the truth is I only see you as a friend and not the boyfriend type. IF you tell him the truth it will be much easier that lying to him. Either way it might hurt his feelings but being completely honest and upfront with him will make him respect you. Tell him you want to be with someone with so and so interests. It could be someone that is the complete opposite from him. If you like someone that is not like him then he will figuare it out. Just in case he tries to become like the person you like tell you prefer if he would just be himself.
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Can you say stalker! If you don't directly give someone your number they have no business callin you in the first place. Don't feel guilty because you aren't attracted to him! The next time you speak to him be clear about how you feel! If he still continues to call you after that then you should let someone else know just in case. To me he has crazy written all over him!
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