I don't think I get to see my boyfriend as much as I would like to. I know he has things to do and that he's busy and I try my best to understand that, but it still hurts. I care about him a lot.
The days I do see him, When it comes time for him to leave, I get sad, Like REALLY REALLY sad. Sometimes I cry, or I get that pain in my chest like when you get a broken heart, and sometimes I get mad at him and don't hug or kiss him good bye because i'm angry... and when he's gone, I regret it soooo much, because we left eachother on bad terms.
What the hell is wrong with me?!?!?!
And how can I stop doing this????
It's not even like I never see him, I get too see him at least once a week.
It's actually starting to hurt our relationship and I really don't want to lose him.
Additional info, added Wednesday January 16 2008, 2:31 pm: I forgot to mention, I'm fine being apart from him. Like if i'm not with him, i'm fine, it's just when it comes to saying goodbye that I get like this and the few moments after saying good bye... But the thing is, he doesn't see that, he just sees me getting upset as he leaves.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? masterclinic answered Wednesday January 16 2008, 3:13 pm: There isent anything wrong with you its that you dont get to spend enough time with him if you ask me once a week isent enough. If you cant change the time you spend with him find something new to do. Or hang out more with your friends keep yourself busy. Best of luck [ masterclinic's advice column | Ask masterclinic A Question ]
Ask_The_Lady answered Wednesday January 16 2008, 1:39 pm: You have to find other things to do with friends that will help you cope with being without him. I know it doesn't seem like it but the time apart is healthy. You don't want your life to completely revolve around your relationship. You have to work on being a stronger person on your own. He will respect you more if you do this! Good Luck! [ Ask_The_Lady's advice column | Ask Ask_The_Lady A Question ]
AngelofMercy answered Wednesday January 16 2008, 4:04 am: I remember having those feelings when I was younger, it was like the end of the world to have to be w/o my boyfriend. It's called seperation anxiety. What I did when I couldn't be with him, I would try and hang out with my friends. At least this way, I still had someone to talk to and help me cope with that horrible feeling. It does get better, the older you get. That is until you are in a relationship for 4 years and have a big blow out. Then, the feelings come back. It's hard to get over seperation anxiety, but with willpower and friends, you can do it. Good Luck!! [ AngelofMercy's advice column | Ask AngelofMercy A Question ]
lindsey91 answered Wednesday January 16 2008, 2:57 am: okay dont get mad at him cause he has a life
i mean im not trying to be mean
but my cousin is the same exact way
and its just annoying after a while
be lucky you do spend time with him
and appreciate what you have [ lindsey91's advice column | Ask lindsey91 A Question ]
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