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Is it just me?
Ok i have been going out with this girl since Nov. and we have been fine well today she left her books in my car and one of her notebooks was open to a note she wrote another guy aaron it said i may be going out with travis(me) but i still flirt and stuff with you and the only reason i broke up with you was cause her friend told her to...so i texted her about it (she is not allowed on phone)and she was all cool bout it then she turned it on me asking me why i read it in the first place now she wont text me...first off was i wrong for reading it i mean the reason i did cause i saw my name...what do i say to her...then finally what i do about this other guy?
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dude seriously you didnt do anything wrong
if she has feelings for her ex then she shouldnt be in a relationship
and what kinda person lets there friend control there relationships
its kinda like
"hey break up with him" "okay!!!"
i mean come on i think you need to find a more mature girl just my advice
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Feelings for her ex? Hiding things from you? Honesty, trust, communication, care for one another, respect and commitment are just some key things needed to have a successful relationship and none of these seem to matter to her. You didn't do anything wrong. You are only going to get hurt more if you stay with her. Finding this out means she is not the person that you thought she was. What else don't you know about her? What else is she keeping from you? Her end of the relationship was built on lies. You deserve someone you can trust, who has feelings for you and only you, and who won't take it out on you when they are wrong. I wish you the best.
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If you ask me, you're pretty damn lucky to have seen that- other wise you would have had no idea.
Approach this by saying that you really care for her, and that note sort of broke your heart. Tell her that if she has feelings for someone else, that's not fair to you.
Don't fight over her with that other guy- don't even talk to him/threaten him or anything. Talk to her about this and tell her that you trust her and you really don't appreciate her flirting with another guy.
hope I helped (:
-avalon
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Uhm first of all, if she is telling another guy that she only broke uo with him because her friend told her to, what does that say about the realtionship you have with her now? Is it serious, or is she still thinking about Aaron and is she really over him. She is also twisting your actions and words around so she puts you as the one at fault and distracts you so you stop dwelling on that subject and apologize to her...but FYI, that isn't cool of her. She obviously is hiding things from you and assumes that you will take her shit wihtout any argument whatsoever, but you shouldn't and if she is mad about you reading it [even though it was a little invasion of privacy but for a good reason, better than her lame excuse, whatever that was] don't fall for her act. she is just be dramatic, let her cool off and then say something to her.
[you deserve better and good luckk]
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