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my crush's new girlfriend
there is this guy that i like and he likes {liked} me..we have known eachother for about 3 years now. we have always had a little like, thing i guess. we would hang out and just mess around, and he really did like me he wasnt using me i know that. anyways he has had this on and off thing with this other girl, who i used to hate {not for that reason} but now were great friends. anyways last year we were very close and stuff, and i saw him a few weeks ago for the first time since last year, and they are together again. he still acts like he likes me (player it seems i know haha)and i cant help but like him. i noticed ive stopped talking to him as much since they were together again, and im sure hes noticed, but i dont want to make it obvious that i still like him. how do i still talk to him and act the same as i use to and just be comfortable around him?
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i know what you are going through. I have a best friend thats a guy and he ahs been my best friend since basically i was born. we tried the whole dating thing and realized we made better firends than boy friend and girlfriend but sometimes i feel like maybe we quit before we could really find out. He has had a new girlfriend for a few months now and everytime i see her with him i get really posessive and upset. He still acts the same to me like the other day he sent me flowers just cause it was thursday. it was really sweet but it also made me think that he still wants something more for us too. I think the best thing for you to do is just to act the same and dont let him get to you dont be overly flirty just act friendly to him like you normally would. and you can also talk to him about it. i did and it helped alot!
hope i helped!
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flirting with him and joking around with him would be the best way to make it obvious that you like him. But i wouldnt do that rite now bc hes going out with a girl thats your friend, and no offence but that would seem bitchy of you to be hitting on a guy your friends already going out with. so maybe after they brake upp
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A ton of people go through the same thing, but the best advice I think I can give you is to shrug it off. Give it try. If you can't hang out with him without feeling uncomfortable then maybe try talking to him about it. Even though the "player" types are always hard to talk to about situations such as those. If you think it's worth having to suck back your feelings just so you can hang out with him, then go for it. Otherwise, I'd say step off before you get in too deep & you get hurt.
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hmm well maybe its just best that you forget about him since he has a g/f. ,move on and find another boy. i hope i helped. and don't be discouraged because they're planty of fish in the sea.
nikita♥
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okay doll so what you do is leave him alone and if he really cares he will come back i know its hard but its the best thing to and dont give him what he wants if he cant commit i know this isnt what you wanna hear but its what you need to hear good luck babyguh
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