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my friend is madly in love with his girlfriend. they both love each other and were planning on getting married when they grew up. they were gonna go to college together, get married, and have a family. however, she went to a party without him and got very drunk. some guy took advantage of her and they hooked up. she apologized to him (my friend), and told him how much she regretted it, and how she would never do it again. should he break up with her? (link)
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I've been through the same thing but it was my boyfriend who cheated on me under somewhat similar circumstances. I dumped him right away but in the next few months we talked things over. I definetely suggest that your friend talks to his girlfriend right away. It's not something you can move on from. They need to decide what is best for them.
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okay. so i've been going out with this guy for almost a year now. and i love him. but sometimes he annoys me to no end. and i think that we would be better with other people. now dont get me wrong i do want to be with him. but am i wrong for thinking this? and another question is that.
a couple of days ago. i started talking to an old friend that i used to like, well i started to feel like i might like him again, but i hung out w/ him today and decide that i dont. but is it wrong to think that too.....or what..
any advice is much appreciated.
thanks. (link)
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It's totally normal to fell like that. Sometimes when your with someone for a long time you start to get bored. That's when you have to question how you really feel. You don't want to spend anymore time in a relationship that you aren't completely committed to. In the end, it won't be afir to you or the guy you are with.
And about hanging out with the person you used to like, i think it's ok as long as you are open about it. I was with my boyfriend for about a year and half and we always agreed that we wouldn't care who the other one hung out with as long as we were honest about it.
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Okay, i'm 15/f
I cheated on my boyfriend, all i did was kiss this other guy. But thats not important, he says he's still in love with me and wants to get back with me but he still has trusting issues, now his best friend is also my friend, and thats how i know this. But he said I should do something to show him he can trust me, and that i'm worth another chance. I want to do something romantic, he is coming to cedar point with me and my family this weekend, but we most likely will be alone most, if not all, of the day. So, any ideas? (link)
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i have been on the other side of this situation and trust me there is not really anything that can help but time. i know it sucks because he is wanting to trust you again and you are wanting him to but there is always that voice in his head wondering who you are with or what you are doing and all kinds of other things. i would say just explain to him over and over how sorry you are and hope to gain his turst back EVENTUALLY.
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Is it normal to actually feel your heart brake. I don't mean literally like your beating heart but I mean whenever I remember how hurt i was after my break up its like butterflys run through my arms and to my heart. This has never happened to me before and Ive been calling this my heart brake because this only happens when i think about him, its not like it hurts its just like a complete saddness that goes through me. Has this ever happened to anyone before? (link)
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Of course! it can feel like a lot of different things and you can honestly feel your heart aching. i know i do sometimes. and it's perfectly normal. especially if this person meant a lot ot you. it's almost like losing part of your heart to them
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okay. so my boyfriend and i have been going out for about a year now. and i really really love him. infact we talk about getting married one day. heres the problem, im young. 15. same for him. is it odd for us to be thinking that far ahead even when we are so young? i mean i can't doubt us being in love, and we just feel that connection. and its been there from the start. there are no dull moments. yes we have been through alot, but it was my fault(i was diagnosed with a brain disorder about halfway though everything and had to spend alot of time in the hospital). but i honestly think that we have a future together. does anyone think this is odd? (link)
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I dont think there is anything wrong with this. Personally i feel the same way about ym boyfriend. I am 16 and he is 18. I felt like you did though adn someone told me that its crazy for people to think that when you are a teenager you dont really know what its like to be in love because thats the time you are willing to give everything up for that person. Once you get older you think about how theres no way you could havea future with some one cause they live to far away of you would have to find a new job but at this age your willing to sacrifice everything adn i dont think i ahve ever had any better advice given to me. I think its perfectly fine for you to feel this way and i hope things work out for you!
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heyy my friend has a problem
She is 15 & is crazy about her brothers best friend who is 16/17.
They have kissed at partys and her brother doesn't know about it but her brother knows that she likes him and has said that hes not letting them go out.
Her brothers best friend has said that he would go out with her if it wasnt for her brother but that her brothers friendship comes before any girl, so as long as her brother disapproves he will not go out with her, even though he has already kissed her behind his back.
She doesnt understand like where she stands and she cant get over him because she knows he feels something for her..
And her brother has sed that if they did go out he would hurt his friend.. i wont go into it but she would feel awful for ruining their friendship and getting him hurt..
She is getting really worked up about it and i dont know what to suggest.. any ideas??
thankyoo much appreciated.. x (link)
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I have been through a similar situation except it was my best friend wanting to date my step brother. At first i didnt like the idea and i got really upset over it. I felt like i was losing my best friend to him and also that i was losing my brother to her. They both came and talked to me one at a time and after it was all over i felt a lot more comfortable with the idea.
I think that would be the best thing for them to do. Just discuss it with him. There may be reasons that your friend doesn't know about but it could just be a posessive type thing too. Either way i think it is best for her to talk to her brother.
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when a guy is in a friend's with benefits relationship do they have absolutely no emotional attachment to the girl or do they normally like them a little. also what about girls? do most girls get a little emotionally attached in a friends with benefits relationship? i just broke up with my friend with benefits i guess you would call it and i told him it would be hard not being with him even if it was just for sex, and he said he thought it would be easy not being together because there were no emotions involved. i was shocked that he felt absolutely nothing...then i remembered he had a dick and was just another guy. so what do you guys think...is it normal to have some emotional attachment? (link)
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well first of all im not a big fan of friends with benefits situations. because most of the time, like in your case, one person has more emotional ties then the other. i think those type of situations are very ahrd because when you "break up" it makes things kinda awkward. I think girls are always a little emotionally connected and thats why i think you should avoid tehm because you will jsut wind up getting hurt.
you also have to remember though that you weren't ina real relationship so its fine that he doesnt have the same feelings for you that you ahve for him. i know it sucks sometimes but thats jsut how friends with benefits goes
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there is this guy that i like and he likes {liked} me..we have known eachother for about 3 years now. we have always had a little like, thing i guess. we would hang out and just mess around, and he really did like me he wasnt using me i know that. anyways he has had this on and off thing with this other girl, who i used to hate {not for that reason} but now were great friends. anyways last year we were very close and stuff, and i saw him a few weeks ago for the first time since last year, and they are together again. he still acts like he likes me (player it seems i know haha)and i cant help but like him. i noticed ive stopped talking to him as much since they were together again, and im sure hes noticed, but i dont want to make it obvious that i still like him. how do i still talk to him and act the same as i use to and just be comfortable around him? (link)
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i know what you are going through. I have a best friend thats a guy and he ahs been my best friend since basically i was born. we tried the whole dating thing and realized we made better firends than boy friend and girlfriend but sometimes i feel like maybe we quit before we could really find out. He has had a new girlfriend for a few months now and everytime i see her with him i get really posessive and upset. He still acts the same to me like the other day he sent me flowers just cause it was thursday. it was really sweet but it also made me think that he still wants something more for us too. I think the best thing for you to do is just to act the same and dont let him get to you dont be overly flirty just act friendly to him like you normally would. and you can also talk to him about it. i did and it helped alot!
hope i helped!
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My best friend and I are going on a secret road trip this week. I am calling in sick to summer school and telling my parents I'm just hanging out at my friends house after school. I'm going to pick up my best friend and we're going to drive from San Diego to LA and we are going to do random stuff. I know it's not much of a road trip since it's 3 hours away but we have a lot of fun ideas. The point of this trip is just to get away from it all...and for one day, no one will know where we truly are. It's like an escape.
So...
please give me advice about making this foll-proof
AND
if you have any ideas of what fun random things we should do on our adventure, TELL ME!
thanks! (link)
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well my parents we going out of town with the families of a few of the people i went with and we left like right after they did and they came home a few days early and we were still gone... lol it wasnt very good
we went from california to arizona
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This is a question for teenage girls. My daughter and I have always been very close. She's always been very open with me and willing to share things about school, friends, boys, etc. Now that she's 13, though, things have changed some. Sometimes I can tell she's upset about something, but when I ask her what's wrong, she doesn't want to talk about it. I realize this is normal, that she wants some privacy and doesn't need her mom butting in on everything. But I also know it sometimes helps to talk about things instead of keeping them inside. I want her to know that I'm here for her and that she can tell me anything. Should I keep trying to get her to talk, or should I just leave her alone and hope she'll open up if she needs me? (link)
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I'm 16 and my mom and i go throught eh same thing that you and your daughter are. Most of the time i find it easier to talk to my older sister or my friends about things. I know that its hard for my mom but she has come to understand that and she knows that if it is anything really really important i will come to her. Sometimes we just go for drives and talk to each other. its good to know i have her to talk to about my friends issues and stuff my sister and i fight about but sometiems your daughter might need to talk to someone else. I think my mom giving me my space made me want to talk to her more and more!
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Does anyone on here have or is part of or know a big family?
And what do you think about?
How big is your family?
What do other people think of big familes?
Ok! Thanks!!
Abigail (link)
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I am the youngest of 6. I'm 16 and have one sister who is 17 and 4 brothers. One is 17 one is 19 one is 23 and one is 27.
I loved growing up in a big family but at times it was definetly more then i could take. It was always great to have someone to talk to but there are some times when you just need to be by yourself. And of course it was great to have older brothers when i am dating or having guy problems.
I'm the youngest so im sure i had it the best out of all my siblings but i think they would all agree that it was a blast growing up in a big family. It makes it easier to get away with things too! ;)
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