okay. so my boyfriend and i have been going out for about a year now. and i really really love him. infact we talk about getting married one day. heres the problem, im young. 15. same for him. is it odd for us to be thinking that far ahead even when we are so young? i mean i can't doubt us being in love, and we just feel that connection. and its been there from the start. there are no dull moments. yes we have been through alot, but it was my fault(i was diagnosed with a brain disorder about halfway though everything and had to spend alot of time in the hospital). but i honestly think that we have a future together. does anyone think this is odd?
xAskkMechaBeccax answered Friday June 29 2007, 3:37 pm: nothing at all is wrong with this. my boyfriend and i have been going out for a year now and we talk about marriage all of he time. i'm 15, he just turned 19. it's quite adorable. we plan out our future together and have lovey dovey time.
xx_caitlyn_xx answered Thursday June 28 2007, 12:14 am: I dont think there is anything wrong with this. Personally i feel the same way about ym boyfriend. I am 16 and he is 18. I felt like you did though adn someone told me that its crazy for people to think that when you are a teenager you dont really know what its like to be in love because thats the time you are willing to give everything up for that person. Once you get older you think about how theres no way you could havea future with some one cause they live to far away of you would have to find a new job but at this age your willing to sacrifice everything adn i dont think i ahve ever had any better advice given to me. I think its perfectly fine for you to feel this way and i hope things work out for you!
sdcutie717 answered Wednesday June 27 2007, 10:04 pm: No, thats not odd at all.
It's wonderful that you guys found each other and like each other so much. I've heard plenty of stories about how people end up marrying people they have known there whole life.
Don't think that it isn't normal because none of your friends are like that with guys. It's rare, but your really lucky to have someone like that at such a young age.
Erinn_the_bamf answered Wednesday June 27 2007, 9:23 pm: Nope, that isn't odd at all. Plenty of people marry others that they met in highschool.
Furthermore, the tough times you went through probably brought you closer together. This means your relationship is stronger than others because you know you will be there for each other.
Cux answered Wednesday June 27 2007, 9:19 pm: Its not odd. I honestly don't believe in being able to REALLY love when we are this young (I'm 15 as well). BUT! I am just like Laura [below] in that my parents met when they were my age, and they were middle school/high school sweethearts.. and today is actually their 20th wedding anniversary.
So, no, its not odd, but don't feel like just because you think you love someone at this age, that its necessarily real, as I've had many of my friends make this assumption before, and it didn't turn out well.
LOL_x0x answered Wednesday June 27 2007, 9:09 pm: I don't think it's odd.
My parents met when they were 14/15ish.
They're still together to this day.
And did you know a large percentage of people actually end up marrying their high school sweethearts? It isn't super rare.
Good Luck. :]
I hope you're doing well, too.
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