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emotion attachment
when a guy is in a friend's with benefits relationship do they have absolutely no emotional attachment to the girl or do they normally like them a little. also what about girls? do most girls get a little emotionally attached in a friends with benefits relationship? i just broke up with my friend with benefits i guess you would call it and i told him it would be hard not being with him even if it was just for sex, and he said he thought it would be easy not being together because there were no emotions involved. i was shocked that he felt absolutely nothing...then i remembered he had a dick and was just another guy. so what do you guys think...is it normal to have some emotional attachment?
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well first of all im not a big fan of friends with benefits situations. because most of the time, like in your case, one person has more emotional ties then the other. i think those type of situations are very ahrd because when you "break up" it makes things kinda awkward. I think girls are always a little emotionally connected and thats why i think you should avoid tehm because you will jsut wind up getting hurt.
you also have to remember though that you weren't ina real relationship so its fine that he doesnt have the same feelings for you that you ahve for him. i know it sucks sometimes but thats jsut how friends with benefits goes
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A friends with benefit’s relationship is still a 'relationship' and a friendship. Sound like the guy you were seeing is still too immature to realize that. Avoid a guy who claims to have sex without emotion, the sex likely wont be that good, and it's a sure bet he wont be able to handle the relationship with decency and respect if he doesn't acknowledge that it is a kind of relationship.
People, yes even guys, who don’t form any emotional attachment to people they choose to have sex with, are in my opinion, not only abnormal, but pretty lousy individuals who are likely lying to themselves.
An FWB relationship may certainly be easier to get over then a romantic relationship. But I would believe him for a second if he claimed to feel nothing at all. If my FWB said that to me I’d write it off as an extremely immature mindset and I’d dump them.
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it depends on the guy. sometimes they're in a friend's with benefits relationship because they kinda like you or they're just doing it to get some action. but yeah i hope i helped!
nikita♥
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I'm sure at some stage he had to feel something for you. Guys aren't completely heartless.. although... lol
No seriously.. maybe he was starting to develop feelings for you and got scared.. maybe he thought he was getting himself into something he thought he couldn't get out of.
Or there is just the possibility that he didn't feel anything for you.
Some guys are like that.. they don't care about anything but themselves.
I hope in the future you attract a guy that will take better care of you :)
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