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cheating.
Okay, i'm 15/f
I cheated on my boyfriend, all i did was kiss this other guy. But thats not important, he says he's still in love with me and wants to get back with me but he still has trusting issues, now his best friend is also my friend, and thats how i know this. But he said I should do something to show him he can trust me, and that i'm worth another chance. I want to do something romantic, he is coming to cedar point with me and my family this weekend, but we most likely will be alone most, if not all, of the day. So, any ideas?
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i have been on the other side of this situation and trust me there is not really anything that can help but time. i know it sucks because he is wanting to trust you again and you are wanting him to but there is always that voice in his head wondering who you are with or what you are doing and all kinds of other things. i would say just explain to him over and over how sorry you are and hope to gain his turst back EVENTUALLY.
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hm, to be honest my ex actually did the same to me.
but gaining someones trust is pretty tough, especially if you once lost their trust.
my best advice,
be yourself!
dont do anything too differnt.
he wants to trust the person he once trusted
he wants to love the person he once loved & still love!
honestly, you sholdnt have to prove
your worth the second chance!
if he loves you enough, he'll definetly take you back. but just dont EVVER go off and kiss another guy.
& maybe apolozize
or write a letter telling him how you feel.
before going to cedar point!
and most definetly
have fun at cedar point
with you and your boyfriend!
[things will definetly work out]
<3
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There really isn't anything you can do to instantly gain somebody's trust back, especially after cheating on them. You're lucky for the second chance he gave you.
You're going to have to do a lot. Try not looking at other guys, talking about other guys, or thinking about other guys. Make everything about your boyfriend & your relationship. If you go out with your friends, call him & let him know that you're not doing anything wrong. It takes a lot to gain trust back, so you need to be willing to work super hard.
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I know how you feel. I very recently cheated on the love of my life and have been trying to get her back with ll my heart. I don't know if there is something big you can do to make him suddenly trust you again. It's more of an ongoing thing. You have to constantly remind him that you love him and are committed to making this work. Don't even think about looking at other guys and just do little things to show him.
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