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Hii I'm Monica [:Whatever you need advice on; i'll help
i been through almost alot in my life
so i pretty much can hellpp you allot.
& for the people that had gave me wonderful advices thank youu.
You most likely helped me & my life
advice
you know how people have those cool names as there display names?
liek ther name then a word..
like kari kazamm? or something like that.
what would be good for amanda?
[sry if this posted like 3 times..its being wierd]
Amanda Angelic!
i love that one =]
WELL. about 3 years ago i met this guy, Ned. In kindergarten I met this girl Bri. Me and Bri were best friends till middle school where we stopped talking. then i met Ned...and now 3 years have gone by and Me and Bri have suddenly started talking again and we are best friends again. I introduced her to Ned, who i used to like, and now Bri talks to Ned more than to me and Ned talks to Bri more than he does to me. and quite frankly he seems to like her A LOT better. :l
I think i might be getting a tad jealous and all Bri ever does is talk about Ned! So its constantly a reminder that he likes her more XD so uh how do i get over these jealousy issues and not cause any drama?
this is so weird!
the same EXACT thing happend to me this year.
my way of getting over the jealousy?
i made a new guy friend =]
maybe you can do the same.
or maybe you can talk to bri
if she's your best friend
she'll DEFINETLYYYY understand.
but it might take time
to get over the jealousy.
but you WILL get over it.
cuz i definetly did.
good luck girlll
Things have happened to me and everything sucks. People hate me and I feel like everyone else fits in and I really lack that. I don't know anymore but I've never been happy and its starting to make me want to end everything and not have to deal with guys that don't like me and girls that hate me and yeah guys that hate me. I really need help I think.
i'm sorry to hear that everyone hates you.
maybe once school starts, you can join a club that your interested in.
and you'll make friends that have the same interest
and you'll proabably ALSO meet guys with the same interest.
cute or ugly? i dont know.
but im 100% you can make new friends by joining a club.
....and if you REALLY hate how things are with girls at your school or with guys.
trying going to a new school.
trying being in a differnt enviroment
with differnt & new people.
DONT ever think about suicide.
think about all the people that are dying right now & not because they WANT to but because they dont have a choice.
i hope i helped!
and i hope things get alot bettttttter
Okay, i'm 15/f
I cheated on my boyfriend, all i did was kiss this other guy. But thats not important, he says he's still in love with me and wants to get back with me but he still has trusting issues, now his best friend is also my friend, and thats how i know this. But he said I should do something to show him he can trust me, and that i'm worth another chance. I want to do something romantic, he is coming to cedar point with me and my family this weekend, but we most likely will be alone most, if not all, of the day. So, any ideas?
hm, to be honest my ex actually did the same to me.
but gaining someones trust is pretty tough, especially if you once lost their trust.
my best advice,
be yourself!
dont do anything too differnt.
he wants to trust the person he once trusted
he wants to love the person he once loved & still love!
honestly, you sholdnt have to prove
your worth the second chance!
if he loves you enough, he'll definetly take you back. but just dont EVVER go off and kiss another guy.
& maybe apolozize
or write a letter telling him how you feel.
before going to cedar point!
and most definetly
have fun at cedar point
with you and your boyfriend!
[things will definetly work out]
Alright.. so I was hesitating to talk about this topic but I thought I might as well give it a shot. I dated a guy two years older then me in highschool.. and at times it was sort of on and off.. only because it was hard since we have completley different friends and when i was going to be a junior in high school he was going to be a freshman in college. We broke up because we knew the college relationship would be impossible..and I didn't want to tie him down.. nor did he want to be tied down. We try to just get on with our lives, but it's just not working.. we somehow always end up talking again after a long time..and we just miss eachother. He's not very open to me about his feelings because he doesn't like want a girl being in control of him or what not??... he is very close with his group of friends who are also very nice people.. although a problem with that, his friends want him to date a girl in their group.. last year he dated her for a very short time and told me how he wasn't attracted to her the same way as he was to me.. His friends don't hate me.. they'd just rather see him be with the other girl. He left again for college and I don't talk to him unless he talks to me first because I know him well enough that he like's his space and he needs time to settle into college. He's a very smart kid and has high goal's for his future... There's much more to this story..but I can only type so much right... so basically I don't know what to do.. because as much as I try to get over him and just move on.. nothings ever the same..this is the guy I was with throughout highschool, my first for everything basically...and if any guys can give advice on what they think is going through his mind..if he is over me or what?
(sorry this is so long).. but i appreciate any advice.
it's just like the quote
"your first love....never dies"
maybe nows not the best time for the both of you..
but maybe in the future it will be.
you never know. but always remember
your NEVER going to forget your first love.
see how it's like to stay friends.
and if that cant happen, maybe you guys are meant for each other =]
call him up, most defiently.
and just ask how things are.
like in college & stuff.
dont be afraid!
he was once your boyfriend.
the one person that was there when you were down.
he'll love to hear your voice
and see how you are.
hope things work out!
my best friend and i have been best friends since 6th or 7th grade. now we're going into 11th. last year a lot of drama started and she stood by me and defended me the whole time and i really appreciated it. over the summer we lost touch because i had to go to summer school so i didnt get to go to a lot of parties and hang out. now she's best friends with one of the girls who was against me in the drama. i might be over reacting but on myspace she moved me from her top spot to number 4. her new bff is first and she has two cousins before me. when i first saw it my heart sank. tonight i also found out that she had people over without me. i want to know how i can reconnect with her. something to do that can be just us. this girl is like a sister to me and i really really need her back. her parents absolutely hate her new bff because of something she said about their family a long time ago. what kind of friend insults a member of their bff's family!! my bff's mom absolutely loves me and treats me like her own kid.
please help me. i wont settle for second best when it comes to the girl that means the most to me.
maybe your friend thinks like
since you guys have lost touch and everything,
that maybe you forgot about her!
you know.. probably not but who knows right?
only she does.
so maybe you should just call her up
and ask if she wants to go to lunch
and maybe start talking like the way you guys used and things might get better!
u can always talk to her other bff too.
u know..maybe the girl that was involved in the drama wants to forget & forgive.
u never know! just do the best you can.
& definetley DONT be afraid to call her up
or go to her house.
she was once your best friend, and its possibility
maybe you guys will go back to being best friends!! =]
hope i helppppped & best of LUCK
to you & your BESSSSSSSST FRIENd
my best friend and i have been fighting over everything, i didnt like her boyfriend but i guess now i do, he started talking about her to me and i just did the same thing but he started it, that was like 2 weeks ago! now today shes pissed at me and says shes sick of all this shit of me not being there for her when all last night i was up with her trying to make her feel better cause she was saying stuff about killing herself blah blah blah she said she never wants to talk to me. she seems to get mad at me weeks after it happens and until she gets mad at me we are totally fine best friends. i dont want to lose her because she is the best thing that has every happened to me, she changed me for the better and i cant start high school in 2 weeks with out her. what can i do to dig myself out of this hole and maybe how to stay out. its kind of confusing if someone could help me on here please do but if you need more info pleaseeeee im me xoashhx33 i really need this friendship to work
so it seems like you guys havent gotten along at all? right.
honestly, maybe you should confront her about it.
im SERIOUS.
if you guys cant talk about the situation, then nothing will honestly help.
or maybe she doesnt even know she's in this situation where you guys have been fighting constantly.
If talking doesnt work out
maybe you can write her a letter
explaning ALL of your feelings aboout the fights you guys been having lately and about everything and anything! and maybe a quote?
"Yesterday brought the beginning, tomorrow brings the end, and somewhere in the middle we became the best of friends."
you know, you should ALWAYS tresaure your best friends, and if SHE cant do that
then maybe you guys arent meant to be best friends.
or you can also give it some time
let her cool down, and have her own space.
and have YOUR own space as well.
but NO MATTER what
dont do it online, or phone
or text, myspaace, whatever.
it'd be the best in person :]
& if a letter
[do it on a piece of paper! not online!!!]
i honestly hope your friendship works out
so me and my best friend are gunna have a sleepover soon. and like i wanna make it the most absolute most funnest sleepover ever. because we usually just have a normal sleepover where we watch movies and talk about stuff and guys. any advice is appreciated!!
oh and 14/f if that helps.
sleepovers are absoultey AMAZING!
video games are always fun!
especially lively ones.
like DDR or the karaoke one.
i suggest music?
i lovvvvvvve dancing!
especially with friends, always funner.
FOOD! tons & tons of food.
that fershure.
oh & i sugest if you have a fire pit
maybe make smores? yum =]
sneak out of the house!
or ask if there really nice.
maybe t-ping. [there fun!, but i always feel guilty at the end]
late night 7'11s/slurpee!
if one of your friend falls asleep.
decorate their face
but not with makeup or anything.
that will piss them off.
[when me and my friend had a sleepover our friend fell asleep first with her ipod in her ears. and so we decided to get like 20 cottonballs and stuff them inside her glasses. and we also got like another 4 pieces of q-tips and ALSO stuck them in her glasses. and a gummy worm on top of her mouth.]
funniest sh*t ever!
i honestly almost peed in my pants
& we filmed it!
so i suggest you pull funny pranks like that
i hope i helped!
& have a wonderful sleepover
=]
I've been friends with my best friend for basically as long as i can remember. I dont know if its just me, but lately it seems like shes always trying to make me jealous and out do me. Like tonight, I went to the movies with one of my other friends, and put up an away message on aim saying " movies with myfriendsname cell it=]" and then left. And when i got home, her away message was "movies with cutie. then home with cutie" (which is one of her other really good friends) And she just does little things like that. And it REALLY gets on my nerves. How can i like get over this and not let it bother me? We dont have the same friends(we're different ages, different friends) so its not like we can all just do stuff together so she doesnt try to make me jealous. I dont know what to do.
ugh, me & my "BEST" friend do that ALL the f_cking time.
well in my case
me & my best friend hang out every single day.
and once in a while its really GREAT to hang out with differnt friends. right?
but when i do, she gets reaaly pissed.
and she starts posting stupid bulletins on myspace saying shes really bored!! or is having a stupid boring weekend blah blah etc.
i usually just ignore her & her anger [jealousy] agaisnt me.
or maybe you can confront her about it?
or talk to her.
but if this keeps going on,
maybe you guys arent meant to be best friends.
she shouldnt treat her friendship with you like that. HONESTLY, thats not what friends should do in the first place.
"honesty is the key to friendship
okay so. I'm a girl and I have a guy friend. and everytime we talk on msn, he starts off the conversation with "whats up" and I say "nothing" and then the conversation ends there. when he asks whats up...what is he waiting for me to answer him with?! lollll
Omg, i have SO many friends that do the same thing.
honestly, asking [what's up?]
is the mosst boringest question ever!
but dont ever say
[not much, nothing really, etc]
it ALWAYS ends the conversation
& makes the other person a little harder to respond to that.
[unless they say lol, which makes the conversation even more BORING-er]
just start talking about
what you did, or ask a few questions.
or if anything new happend. tell them!
they want entertainment, or someone to talk to.
or maybe, there just a really boring person to talk to online.
who knows? right.
hes a guy, so maybe you can say a few lame jokes
or something =]
hope i helped!
okay so there is this guy named Brandon and he's 15-16ish. and like i was at Ohio skate and then like we were just playing around for the first time like poking each other in the sides and then like it moved into more. like every time he saw me then he like poked me which i had no problem with it. then like ever time he came around he started to like pinch/grab it again no problem with it because i though he was just kidding.but then he started smacking it with i was haveing fun so i didn't care and like we just smiled at each other. then he was all over another girl too. once again no problem with it because it not like were going out. but then he gave me him number. but heres the thing he had a babe with another girl and saying he didn't. saying its his cusent's. does he like me for me or just action? oh and I'm 13. if that helps. PLEASE HELP ME!
he's a typical player.
dont fall too hard on him.
he'll break your heart & in doubt
he'll be all over some other chick.
even thouhgh i dont know you
i know you'll find someone ALOT better
[dont call him!]
=]
im about to be a junior and i decided i want to get a new tote for school. problem is, none of the ones ive seen so far (and ive seen a lot) were right. can i get some advice on where to get cute totes? oh and pictures are appreciated...k thnx!
yeah, hollister has great ones!
but i JUST bought a new one today
at TILLY'S!
they have really cute ones.
i'm not even kidding.
and there prices range from
$13.99-$19.99
check it outtttt =]
i was thinking about getting the ab lounge. but does it really work? so it help you get abs?
nope unless u do it like crazy
Why don't clothes have expiration dates? I want new socks before they get holes.
Omg funniest shit ever.
funny funny.
wow sorry i really like
your question.
i nees help figuring out a screenname
alright whuts your name and what kind of stuff do you like?
hey guys. okay. me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 9 months now and weve already had sex and stuff. (idk if that will help with the answer or not..) but anyhow things used to be great until a long time ago i suggested that we dont have sex as often and then we talked and then we decided that that was dumb and not to do that. after that day though it seems like we havent really been the same. gradually it seems like we argue alot and get mad at eachother really easily and i hate that; and i know he does too. i love my boyfriend with all of my heart and it kinda seems like we both dont care about eachother anymore. there`ll be days i`ll wake up and think i dont wanna do this anymore but then there`ll be days when i looooove him so much. okay AND get this. when we get in a fight and hes being realy mean and then we suggest to take a break he`ll cry about it and expect me to just say that its okay but im not going to do that anymore. i cant. somedays it feels like we bring out the worst in eachother and i hate that. not to mention i could really do without his trust issues too. *breathes.* okay so i need some help here. what can i do to make things better with us, and get rid of the tension and arguing and crap? and to try and help him get over trust issues? i love my BF so much and i dont want to loose him but that seems my only option other than ignoring him the rest of the night these days. please help! it would be GREATLY appreciated. =)
First thing: Like what everyone else said.. try talking and if he is listening then you know he cares about what you say.
Love isnt a MAYBE thing; you know when you love someone and if you really think you LOVE him then try to talk things out.
But if youu have those feelings where your like wow i dont want to go through this anymore
then i suggest to break up. its one of the best things you can do and find some you know you cant question about loving him. And it sort of seems like hes just using you for sexx and when he cant get any he gets frustrated and you guys fight. You should watch the HILLs and this one episdoe is just like what your going through. I hope the best works out
im looking for places that i can look for cheap bathing suits, ones that are $20 or less but still cute. if the place has a website i can look on thats even better. any ideas?
try Ross. i bought a really cute bottom for 4 dollars and the top for 5. really good deeal and its totally cute [:
hi... i have had the same AIM screen name for a really long time and im sick of it. i have been wanting to change it for a while now except i dont have any good ideas. i want something i can keep for a while maybe somehting with my name. which is katie or my nickname which everyone calls me KP. thanks
BabyyKatiie012
xKTee
Kattiieeex
youLoveKtee
KatieeRawwr
Katieelicious
K4T13xx
KatieAttackk
Hello Kteeex
Miss Katieex
Pr1NCess KATI3