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my best friend


Question Posted Wednesday August 15 2007, 11:27 pm

my best friend and i have been fighting over everything, i didnt like her boyfriend but i guess now i do, he started talking about her to me and i just did the same thing but he started it, that was like 2 weeks ago! now today shes pissed at me and says shes sick of all this shit of me not being there for her when all last night i was up with her trying to make her feel better cause she was saying stuff about killing herself blah blah blah she said she never wants to talk to me. she seems to get mad at me weeks after it happens and until she gets mad at me we are totally fine best friends. i dont want to lose her because she is the best thing that has every happened to me, she changed me for the better and i cant start high school in 2 weeks with out her. what can i do to dig myself out of this hole and maybe how to stay out. its kind of confusing if someone could help me on here please do but if you need more info pleaseeeee im me xoashhx33 i really need this friendship to work

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x__LadyMonica answered Thursday August 16 2007, 3:26 am:
so it seems like you guys havent gotten along at all? right.

honestly, maybe you should confront her about it.
im SERIOUS.
if you guys cant talk about the situation, then nothing will honestly help.
or maybe she doesnt even know she's in this situation where you guys have been fighting constantly.

If talking doesnt work out
maybe you can write her a letter
explaning ALL of your feelings aboout the fights you guys been having lately and about everything and anything! and maybe a quote?
"Yesterday brought the beginning, tomorrow brings the end, and somewhere in the middle we became the best of friends."

you know, you should ALWAYS tresaure your best friends, and if SHE cant do that
then maybe you guys arent meant to be best friends.

or you can also give it some time
let her cool down, and have her own space.
and have YOUR own space as well.

but NO MATTER what
dont do it online, or phone
or text, myspaace, whatever.
it'd be the best in person :]
& if a letter
[do it on a piece of paper! not online!!!]

i honestly hope your friendship works out<3
hope i helpedd =]

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